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Preface
At the beginning of 2024, many young couples celebrate the beginning of the new year in the form of traveling, and it is during this time that a post on the Internet has caused ridicule among netizens.
It's just because of a ticket that there is a mustard between the two couples, and judging from the fierce reactions of netizens, there are more than a few things like this.
So, what exactly happened, and why does a small ticket reveal the shame of many girls?
A ticket sparks a "bloody case"
In fact, this post that is hotly discussed on the Internet is less than a few hundred words, and the story described in it is also very simple, but it is disliked by netizens all over the Internet.
According to the description of the post, netizens can probably restore what happened, the girl and her boyfriend are both sophomores, and the girl wants to take advantage of this winter vacation to go to Disney to play.
In fact, this is not a big deal, many girls have the idea of wanting to go to Disney once, but this couple is difficult to get on the ticket.
Originally, the girlfriend wanted to go to Disney to play, but the boy had no opinion, and the only requirement was that the cost of going to Disneyland for two people needed to be planned.
From the girl's description, it can be seen that the two people's round-trip air tickets, hotels and food were all bought by the boys, but when it came to 365 a ticket, the boy couldn't get it.
However, it can be seen that the boy is still very accommodating to the girl, saying that if he buys it, he can only buy a ticket, and he can let the girl go in and play alone.
The girl's statement at the back of the post was a little unacceptable to netizens, and the girl said that she still had more than 3,000 yuan in hand, but she didn't want to spend her own money.
In fact, it's not that the boy doesn't buy it, but if you think about it carefully, it's really a little expensive, you must know that the two Disneyland tickets add up to a total of 730 yuan, which is almost enough to catch up with the living expenses of college students for a month.
And the boy and girl are still college students who have no financial independence, so netizens are more understanding of the ticket AA proposed by the boy.
But the girl didn't think so, thinking that it was supposed to be two people traveling together, and if it was really because of the ticket, it would be pointless to go in and play alone.
It can be seen from the words of this post that this girl is not without money, and this boy has already spent a lot, which makes netizens incomprehensible.
Some netizens left a message at the bottom of the post, saying that she was a little fairy who fished for everything when she was a student, it seems that family education is really important, and bluntly said that the girl is begging for words?
There are also female netizens who came forward to say that their father has no culture, but he also knows to educate his daughter and not only spend boys' money.
Although many netizens stood on the boy's side and didn't give the girl any good looks, there are still many people like this girl.
No, another netizen shared a post that also said the same type of problem, saying that her boyfriend has a monthly salary of more than 20,000 yuan, but he is reluctant to buy her a bag of more than 10,000 yuan.
Unexpectedly, there was a netizen at the bottom of this post, thinking that this boyfriend was too much, would he stay for the summer vacation if he didn't break up?
This netizen also thinks that in any case, such a boyfriend does not look like a man at all, and even if he has no money, he should think about his girlfriend.
Nowadays, more and more girls are brainwashed by those poisonous chicken soups on the Internet, for example, if he loves you, he will definitely spend a lot of money on you, if he has a hundred yuan, and only gives you eighty, it is a sign of not loving you and so on.
Why are there more and more so-called "fishing women" among netizens now? In fact, this is not just for women, but also for many men.
Not to mention 80 yuan, these messages from netizens reminded Yuanshan of another video he saw on a certain sound before, where the couple broke out into a fierce quarrel on the street because of 6 yuan.
6 yuan, I can't buy anything at all now, but it has broken a relationship.
Feelings that collapsed because of 6 yuan
In October 2022, on the streets of Kaifeng, a couple quarreled fiercely about something, causing many onlookers to watch.
One of the boys said that he had 6 yuan in his card and transferred it to the girl, but the girl still asked him for money, which instantly made people who didn't know the truth start pointing fingers at the girl.
Then the boy shouted loudly, the girl had thousands of dollars in her pocket, but he didn't want to spend it, and emphasized that the 6 yuan in the card was transferred to the girl, and he had no money to eat.
At this time, many netizens have begun to say that this girl is too much, and she is still not satisfied with the boy's money?
After this incident, the woman's friend came forward to refute the rumors, and the truth of the matter was the opposite, it turned out that the boy had spent a lot of money on the girl.
The truth of the matter is this, that day the boy was supposed to ask the girl out to play, but the girl didn't want to go out with the boy, so she refused.
But the girl met the boy when she was out shopping with her friends, so the boy got angry and kept asking the girl why she didn't want to go out with her.
In the middle of the tug, the boy yelled at the girl for what he was doing, but in fact, the girl was also very angry because of the boy's rudeness at that time, so she proposed to break up.
Hearing that the girl was going to break up, of course the boy disagreed, and pulled the girl to prevent the girl from leaving, and the scene was out of control for a while, so scared that the girl's friend quickly called the police.
In the video, there is a girl grabbing the boy's neck, which is actually the girl trying to grab the boy's necklace because the necklace was bought by the girl for the boy.
And about the 6 yuan thing, in fact, it was not what the boy said, the girl Alipay had more than 1,000 at that time, just like asking the boy to transfer some change to make up a whole number.
In fact, in the process of the relationship between the two, not only did the girl spend a lot of money on him as the boy said, but the boy spent a lot of money on the girl, including going out to eat, shopping, and giving gifts.
After the police investigation, the boy's lie was finally exposed, and the girl spent more than 8,000 yuan on the boy, but the boy scolded the girl for 6 yuan.
Many netizens in the comment area said that they thought that the girl asked for 60,000 yuan for the boy, and made this matter so big, but in the end it turned out to be 6 yuan.
Some netizens said that why can't they meet this kind of girl who spends money on themselves, and if they really meet it, they will definitely cherish this girl.
After the matter was clarified, a "fishing man" was cleared, and many netizens felt that the young lady in the video was not worth it, and it would be good to break up as soon as possible.
So why are there so many "men and women" in society now? In fact, this is all related to the attitude and thinking towards feelings, don't underestimate this kind of thinking, you can't learn their "fishing thinking."
What is "fishing thinking"
In fact, to tell the truth, many people have a kind of envy and sourness for "fishing men and women", after all, they can still get practical benefits in a relationship, why not envy?
In fact, whether it is a "man" or a "woman", the most admirable thing about them is that they can always meet the kind of people who are willing to spend money for themselves, or they always have a way to let others spend money for them.
It's like the envy of netizens in the real-name system above, such a man can find a girlfriend who spends money on him, why is he?
In fact, there are so many people in the world, and everyone may meet the other half who is willing to spend money for themselves, but for ordinary people, they don't want to spend only each other's money from the bottom of their hearts.
Therefore, it is not so much that people envy the "men and women" who can always succeed in making others spend money on themselves, but rather envy him for being able to spend other people's money without any psychological burden.
And this is the "fishing thinking" that they are proud of, with the blessing of such thinking, they can always take the initiative and ask others to spend money on themselves, if not, then replace the next one.
Just imagine, if everyone meets the same people, then the "men and women" who are willing to take the initiative must find the person who is willing to spend money on themselves earlier than ordinary people, and find more.
And this also raises the second question, that is, why does "fishing for men and women" always succeed? Many netizens said that they also took the initiative to attack, but in the end it ended in failure.
But in fact, there is still a big difference in thinking between ordinary people and "men and women", and there is a "survivor theory" involved here, and what they share is always the news of their success.
I believe that there will be no "fishing men and women" who will take the initiative to admit that they have not succeeded, on the contrary, they will not give up because they did not succeed this time, but will become more and more frustrated and courageous, and actively look for the next target.
The most important point in "fishing thinking" is that gambling is not a loss, but the thinking of ordinary people is that they will not lose if they don't gamble, so ordinary people will never be able to understand "fishing thinking", just like ordinary people can't understand gamblers.
But the "fishing men and women" don't care about this, these people just hold the idea that fishing for a meal is a meal, they are willing to gamble, so ordinary people don't love the so-called "fishing thinking".
epilogue
In fact, this kind of thing is not exposed to gender, the focus of "fishing men and women" is the word "fishing", to be honest, if you really love someone, you won't eat and wipe him clean.
Whether it's because of vanity or because it's by nature, if you want something, you must improve yourself and make yourself worthy of it.
You tell me?