"Lao Zhang, why didn't you speak just now? ”
I was chatting with my colleague Xiao Li in the office, and suddenly found that Lao Zhang had been silent. I looked at him curiously, and the expression on his face struck me as a little unusual.
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Lao Zhang took a deep breath and said with difficulty: "Actually, I have always had something in my heart, which is very annoying, but I have never dared to say it." ”
Xiao Li and I exchanged glances, and at the same time motioned for Lao Zhang to continue. Lao Zhang pondered for a moment, and finally mustered up his courage: "It's about some problems at work, I don't think it's appropriate, but I'm afraid of offending people." ”
I saw the helplessness in his eyes, so I encouraged: "Lao Zhang, you can say it, maybe we can help you find a way to solve it together." ”
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Lao Zhang suddenly felt relieved and began to confide: "Actually, there is a colleague who always shirks his work to me, and I am embarrassed to refuse, and as a result, I have more and more work myself." I'm really annoyed, but I can't help it every time. ”
Xiao Li and I both listened quietly, watching the expression on Lao Zhang's face change. He continued: "It may be that I am too weak to stand my ground and always remain silent and dare not express my dissatisfaction. ”
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When I returned home, I fell into deep thinking about Lao Zhang's words. Inner monologue: "It turns out that Lao Zhang has always had so many grievances in his heart, but he has endured it, it's really not easy." ”
I began to think about how to help Lao Zhang, and at the same time reflect on whether I have similar problems at work. Perhaps we all need to learn to express our grievances at the right time, rather than swallowing our anger all the time.
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"Lao Zhang, you can actually find an opportunity to communicate with that colleague and express your feelings. Maybe the other party didn't mean it, or there was some misunderstanding. ”
Xiao Li and I gave Lao Zhang advice together, and he nodded: "Yes, maybe I should really say it, I can't always hold things in my heart." ”
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Through this communication, Lao Zhang finally dared to express his dissatisfaction. We have also learned the importance of communication, and some things will always rot in our stomachs if we don't say them, affecting our mood and work status. With open communication, solving problems is not that difficult.