Li Shuangjiang's son, when he went to Europe, caused an uproar. In this distant land, he not only took root, but also became a father, causing widespread controversy. The news media reported wildly, and people talked and speculated. What exactly does his decision mean?
Mengge and Li Shuangjiang: An Extraordinary Marriage Journey.
Mengge, a young and passionate woman, is passionate about the music career and admires Li Shuangjiang. She arrives at the classroom at dawn every day, looking forward to more contact with the musical giant. She longed for his attention, and those brief conversations became a link between their hearts. Mengge is not just an ordinary student, she pursues a new level of music.
She frequently consulted Li Shuangjiang, and this kind of exchange gradually transcended the traditional teacher-student relationship and sprouted deep emotions. Although their age difference is 27 years, this does not stop the two hearts from coming closer. The outside world was skeptical of their feelings, but they didn't care and firmly chose each other.
In 1990, Mengge and Li Shuangjiang became husband and wife and bravely faced social criticism. Despite the buzz around them, questioning the couple's huge age gap, they stuck to each other and were willing to face the challenges ahead together.
In order to consolidate his relationship with Li Shuangjiang, Mengge resolutely decided to give up his music career, hoping to occupy his heart through childbirth. However, fate does not always turn out to be what one wants. Dream pigeon suffered accidental miscarriages in both pregnancies, and heartache and frustration are intertwined.
However, Dream Pigeon did not give up. In order to give birth to a son, she continued to work hard. Her persistence eventually paid off, and she successfully conceived and gave birth to a healthy boy. This child became the center of gravity in their lives and allowed them to rediscover the meaning of life. In the face of great efforts, she was undaunted. She tried all kinds of Chinese and Western medicines, and firmly believed that only in this way could she realize her dream and make Li Shuangjiang a happy father. Li Shuangjiang: The boundary of father's love.
In 1996, Li Shuangjiang and Mengge finally welcomed their long-awaited baby, Li Tianyi. For Li Shuangjiang, the arrival of this child marks the beginning of a new chapter in his life. Although he is over half a hundred years old, his heart is full of endless joy. He named his child Li Tianyi and regarded him as a treasure in his life.
However, Li Tianyi was born in an extremely unhealthy state and needed to be accompanied by an incubator for a few more days. Li Shuangjiang became a vigilant night watchman, insisting on never giving up, worried that the child would be slightly unwell. He always stays by his children's side and regards their health as the most important responsibility in life. At this moment, he showed firm fatherly love, perseverance for Li Tianyi's health, and showed his deep care and selfless dedication as a father.
Li Shuangjiang's life has changed dramatically as a result. He regards children as the whole of his life, and accompanies Li Tianyi almost all the time. He actively searched for excellent doctors and nutritionists to ensure the healthy growth of his children, and personally accompanied Li Tianyi to read books, play games, and tell warm stories.
However, Li Shuangjiang's excessive pampering of Li Tianyi caused disharmony within the family. Dream Pigeon is dissatisfied, and they continue to quarrel fiercely about the way their children are educated, and the conflict gradually escalates. The child occupies a supreme position in Li Shuangjiang's heart, which causes Li Tianyi to become self-centered and intolerant of the opposition of others. Under doting, Li Tianyi's childhood seemed to be full of his father's favor, but this pampering brought serious problems. Once in elementary school, he bullied female classmates, snatched their toys, and even resorted to violent means to satisfy his own desires. Li Shuangjiang's son coldly broke his classmate's arm on campus, declaring without remorse, "I'm going to hit you!" This bad behavior caused dissatisfaction between the school and parents, and the school finally decided to expel him. However, Li Shuangjiang was not reconciled, and found another Gaomen school for his son and transferred him to. What's more, in order to show his privilege, 16-year-old Li Tianyi was given a luxury BMW and allowed to drive without a license. Li Tianyi gladly accepted and showed off to his classmates.
However, fate's spoiling of Li Tianyi did not last. In 2011, he was driving a BMW without a license, and he hit and injured a couple on the side of the road, causing a traffic accident. In the face of the victim, Li Tianyi was arrogant and rude, claiming that "I am Li Shuangjiang's son, see who dares to arrest me!". Soon, Li Shuangjiang arrived in a hurry, but he only thought about exonerating his son, putting pressure on the victims, and only understating his son's education.
This excessive doting made Li Tianyi more and more arrogant, thinking that his father could solve everything. The tension in the family has also become more and more intense, and it has become an untold secret. In the end, Li Tianyi was sentenced for his criminal record.
Li Shuangjiang's connivance and protection of his son are unprecedented. No matter how big a mistake his son makes, he always pays for it. However, when Li Tianyi fell into a serious crime and the society was in an uproar, Li Shuangjiang not only did not blame, but apologized on behalf of his son and was willing to bear everything. This doting attitude exacerbated family conflicts and made Li Tianyi go further and further down the road of crime. Mengge, Li Shuangjiang's wife, began to be dissatisfied with the way the family was educated. She and Li Shuangjiang had serious disagreements on how to shape the personality of her son Li Tianyi. Mengge firmly believes that what children need is more discipline and responsibility, while Li Shuangjiang firmly believes that his son is perfect. Over time, this family conflict escalated, eventually leading to the breakdown of the family.
Despite his great success in his career, Li overlooked the importance of his family. His career choices led to the breakdown of the family, which plunged his son into a quagmire of crime. However, after all this, Li Shuangjiang eventually realized that money and reputation could not compensate for the damage caused by the family breakdown. He understood that the happiness of the family is the real wealth, and the growth of children needs proper education and care.
Over-spoiling and pampering children can lead to the breakdown of family relationships, which is undoubtedly a wake-up call. The happiness of the family is a priceless wealth, and the growth of children needs a balanced education method of freedom and responsibility. We should pay attention to the inheritance of family values, not only to pay attention to the success of our personal career, but also to the harmony of the family and the healthy growth of children.
Career success is one of the goals we pursue, which can bring material satisfaction and social status improvement. However, we must not forget that family is the cornerstone of our career success and support system. Family not only provides us with emotional support, but also a harbor for us to rest. Here, we build intimate relationships, share joys, and share difficulties.
Focusing too much on your career can alienate family relationships and make your family feel neglected. In the midst of our busy careers, we may miss out on the growth of our children, neglect the needs of our partners, or miss out on opportunities to build deeper connections with our families. These regrets can creep beneath the surface of career success, eventually leading to family divisions and feelings of loss.
Only by finding a balance between career and family can we achieve true fulfillment and happiness in life. In this balance, we will find that family is our most precious treasure, and the happiness and health of our family is the ultimate sign of our success.