Recently, Sun Yanmei, the sister of well-known singer Yanzi Sun, issued a statement on social media, declaring that "I am no longer sisters with someone", which has aroused widespread public attention.
What's going on here?
It turned out that there were two main reasons for her sister Sun Yanmei's unhappiness.
The first point
Sun Yanmei believes that she has been living in the shadow of her sister Sun Yanzi. As the younger sister of a superstar, she is always compared to others, which makes her feel pressured.
Before her sister became famous, she felt that she was also a likable person, however, since her sister became popular, she felt that her status was declining day by day.
The second point
Sun Yanmei felt that her parents were partial and preferred her sister. She felt that she was neglected in the family, and her sister Stefanie became the center of the family.
In fact, Stefanie Sun has been taking care of her parents, while Yanmei Sun is bent on escaping from the family.
Some netizens said
Sun Yanmei is 40 years old, and she is still so hypocritical, which is really incomprehensible.
They believe that problems such as not having friends and not being able to find a job are to blame for their own reasons, not their families. Some netizens bluntly said that according to Sun Yanmei's logic, if there is a star in the family, the lives of other brothers and sisters will not be able to live.
Looking back on the beginning of Sun Yanmei's opening of Weibo
Her fans are concerned about her identity as Yanzi Sun's sister. At that time, she was in a good state of mind, and the content she shared was all positive and optimistic. But in recent years, she seems to have changed her mindset and often posts some negative emotions.
The main reason why Sun Yanmei has such a mentality is that she has lived under the aura of her sister for a long time and is under great pressure; on the other hand, she feels that her parents are partial to her sister and are jealous.
Thinking about it carefully, Sun Yanmei is just an ordinary person, and this question is actually difficult to judge.
The family has three sisters
They are Sun Yanjia, Sun Yanzi and Sun Yanmei. Parents have an excellent daughter, so they will naturally prefer some. This may not be fair to other sisters, but in real life, it is true that few parents can achieve a complete bowl of water.
Behind this problem is a social phenomenon
Can a family with multiple children really be able to achieve a bowl of water? Does the disagreement between children reflect the problems of parents in education? Can a sibling who is far superior to oneself arouse jealousy in human nature? These questions deserve our deep consideration.
In this example
The two sisters, Yanmei Sun and Yanzi Sun, grew up in very different environments and life experiences, which led to their very different attitudes towards problems. Sun Yanmei has lived in the shadow of her sister for a long time, which makes her dissatisfied and resentful of her family. Stefanie Sun, on the other hand, shouldered the responsibilities of the family, worked hard to take care of her parents, and became the pillar of the family.
Some netizens think
Sun Yanmei should learn to be independent, get rid of her dependence on her sister, and live her own life. At the same time, she should also learn to be grateful and cherish the time she spends with her family. For parents, how to achieve fair treatment in families with many children is indeed a question worth exploring.
The problems between sisters Sun Yanmei and Sun Yanzi show us the possible contradictions in an ordinary family. These issues need to be looked at with a more tolerant attitude, and at the same time, let us reflect on how to treat every child fairly in a multi-child family, so that they can grow up healthy.