Preamble:
The family has never been weakened, why is the family affection unfamiliar?
Recently, rumors of father-son discord between Deyun Club boss Guo Degang and his son Guo Qilin have fermented and spread on the Internet, attracting many netizens to discuss.
In the face of such an embarrassing family situation, we can't help but ask, is the relationship between the father and son in the wrestling world really separated as the rumors say? How could the relationship between the predecessors and the predecessors in the cross talk industry disappear without a trace in an instant?
Rumors of discord between father and son spread, and Guo Degang's attitude was questioned
It all started a few months ago, when Guo Degang talked in an interview about the fact that there are many apprentices living in the family, and Guo Qilin, as the eldest son, needs to learn to let them.
As soon as these words came out, they immediately set off an uproar on the Internet, and there was a lot of momentum of Guo Degang's partiality towards the apprentices.
Netizens have said that as a father, Guo Degang is creating the image of a strict teacher, but they don't know the feelings of the eldest son in the family.
As the eldest son, Guo Qilin should have received more care, but his father's requirements were too strict.
This will make Guo Qilin feel that he is in an embarrassing position at home and has not received the attention he deserves.
"This is patriarchal and looks down on the eldest son!"
"I think Guo Degang is used to being a majestic teacher, teaching his son and his disciple the same!"
Soon, Guo Qilin also revealed in a show that he didn't even have an exclusive room at home, and he didn't even have daily necessities such as toothbrushes.
At this time, netizens were even more excited, and they all criticized Guo Degang's improper practices.
"What the hell, the child's father didn't even leave him a room, this is worth it!"
"Isn't that house in Deyun Club Guo Degang's own, my son doesn't even have a room, it's too unusual. "
Comments such as these poured in, and Guo Degang's actions as a father were questioned by the crowd.
And these voices of doubt are also reminiscent of Guo Degang's strict father image in the cross talk industry.
He has always been known for his strictness, and his disciples are often scolded.
Now netizens are speculating whether he has also brought this teaching method into his tutoring, and he is too strict with Guo Qilin.
Guo Degang countered the doubts and stated that Deyun Club would return to Guo Qilin in the future
In the face of the rumors that continue to ferment and spread on the Internet, Guo Degang decided to come forward to clarify and take action to quell these speculations and doubts.
At a recent special performance of Deyun Club, he solemnly announced in front of the audience and Guo Qilin: "Deyun Club will be Guo Qilin's in the future!" After that, he also kissed Guo Qilin's cheek.
This statement immediately caused a strong reaction on the Internet.
Guo Degang made a high-profile statement and clarified the previous rumors about the discord between father and son.
This clearly marks Guo Qilin's status in his mind and is the future successor of Deyun Club.
Many people believe that this is Guo Degang's powerful response to various previous doubts.
This not only calmed down the doubts of public opinion, but also let everyone see Guo Degang's affirmation and trust in the status of his eldest son's heir.
This shows that Guo Qilin has not been treated unfairly at home, and his father has high hopes for him, hoping that he will take over Deyun Club, the kingdom of cross talk art, in the future.
Of course, some people think that Guo Qilin is "filial piety" on stage, and Guo Degang's actions are just to create a good father's public image.
After all, the family and the stage are very different after all.
But in any case, Guo Degang's statements and expressions make people see his inner trust in Guo Qilin and his determination to transfer the power of Deyun Club, which has become an indisputable fact.
质疑之声不断，父子真情难掩
Although Guo Degang has issued a clear attitude and statement, there are still some people who have some doubts about the real relationship between father and son.
After all, Deyun Club is a cross talk empire founded by Guo Degang, and it is really doubtful whether it can really be handed over to Yu Zi.
As for Guo Qilin himself, whether he can take on this important task and attack the head of Feng Deyun Club also makes some people have doubts.
Although he is Guo Degang's eldest son, compared with a national-level public lover like Guo Degang, Guo Qilin's popularity and influence are far from enough.
In such a fierce competitive environment in the entertainment industry, whether this succession is a little overwhelming, Guo Qilin will definitely face a huge test and challenge.
However, whenever public opinion is flooded, there are always some more calm and rational voices.
These voices believe that we should not be too quick to draw conclusions about the details of a family.
Our perspective is limited, and it is difficult to judge the whole picture of a family.
The lingering relationship between father and son is even more difficult for outsiders to beak.
In fact, every family will have problems of one kind or another.
As often said in cross talk, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.
We are not in a position to expect a family to be flawless.
As a member of the family, Guo Degang and Guo Qilin know the reason for their relationship best.
As bystanders, we should be more understanding and tolerant, and give them time and space to get along.
Family issues are a cause for concern and reflection
This seemingly childish incident has indeed triggered a lot of thinking about family relationships.
People have reflected that in this era of rampant materialism and indifference, a warm and harmonious family environment has become a luxury.
Represented by Guo Degang's generation, middle-aged men devote themselves to their careers and often have no time to take care of their families.
This may be understood as the helplessness of the times, but it cannot be accepted and imitated by modern people.
Caring for each other in the family should not be replaced by any career success.
Otherwise, when you come back to your senses and grow old, you want to relive the relationship between father and son, but you find that the relationship has become indifferent.
At that time, if you want to make up for the shortcomings between parents and children, I am afraid that it will be too late.
Therefore, this seemingly childish incident also warns those who are too involved in their careers and neglect their families.
Careers can be lost and recreated, but once family members are separated, it is even more difficult to rebuild the lost family relationship.
Therefore, finding a balance between career and family, and giving basic companionship to family members is an issue that everyone needs to reflect on.
Family affairs Sangyu, give spatial understanding
Regarding the real relationship between Guo Degang and Guo Qilin's father and son, it is difficult for us to conclude after all.
It is difficult for any outsider to judge the problems of a family except the parties concerned.
We should not interfere too much in other people's family life, which is a very private sphere.
In this matter, we don't have to get too deep into the root cause and judge whether there is a problem between them.
Because we have limited information, it is difficult to make an accurate and objective assessment.
The most appropriate thing to do is to give family members enough space to solve and resolve the problem on their own.
We should embrace tolerance and understanding.
Put yourself in the shoes of the artist Guo Degang, understand the huge work pressure he is under, think about the problem from Guo Qilin's point of view, and give him enough time to grow into a big tree.
We need to be tolerant and understand the mistakes and shortcomings that may arise in this family.
This is the attitude we should have as bystanders.
The safest and most appropriate way to resolve family disputes is to give them the space and time to negotiate issues within the family.
I believe that through communication and understanding, they will be able to find solutions to problems.
Epilogue:
Father-son family, happy and happy.
This is the picture of life that people yearn for the most.
We don't have to snoop too much on the privacy of other people's families, but give family members time and space to sort out problems and rebuild relationships.
I believe that through understanding, Guo Degang and Guo Qilin, father and son, will be able to resolve the problem and rebuild a harmonious and intimate family relationship.
The true love of the flesh and blood will overcome all misunderstandings and difficulties and light up this home again.
In this era of money supremacy and indifference, a warm family is more reassuring than any career status.
I believe that Guo Degang and Guo Qilin have realized this.
They will cherish their families and work together to protect the harmony and happiness of this small family.