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"Such a good child can be such a mother. ”
This is the sigh of many netizens for her and Jia Nailiang's daughter after Li Xiaolu's "head incident".
All this is because Tianxin happily shared a video of her campus life, but some netizens sent such a comment "Is there an Uncle Xiaowan?" Tianxin was not used to him, and replied forcefully that "there is a lack of a place in the toilet".
The netizens who saw the comments were divided into two factions, one group felt that Tianxin's strong response was very domineering, and the other group felt that the reason why she was so "insulted" was due to her own mother.
So what's going on?
Eighteen changes in women's colleges
Many people's impression of Tianxin is still stuck when the child is very young, but time has passed year by year, and now Tianxin is almost 12 years old, and at first glance she looks like a big girl.
Let's not talk about Li Xiaolu's other aspects, but judging from the publicly displayed video, she really taught Tianxin very well, she is generous, sunny and cheerful, and she is a qualified mother for Tianxin.
On January 3rd, the cheerful Tianxin posted a video to share her video at school, she said that she likes this kind of life very much, she can make close friends at school, can participate in activities, in short, everything is very novel.
It can be seen that the child is not deliberately creating a false appearance, the happiness she exudes with her classmates is real, and she is telling everyone what kind of school life is correct.
Because Tianxin sincerely said that she hopes that every school will not have school bullying.
Obviously, this is a video full of joy and positive energy, but there are always people who like to come out to find a sense of existence, and they are very unqualified to comment under the video: Is there an uncle Xiaowan in such a good school?
Back then, Li Xiaolu and PGone had a lot of trouble, so it is obvious that "Uncle Xiaowan" here is talking about PGone.
Regardless of what the two sides of the incident did, does it have to be asked in front of a child, is this a question that a normal person can ask?
Tianxin didn't let it go when she received bad comments, and soon replied domineeringly, "Eh, I just didn't, there is still a place in the school toilet, can you get in?"
It is not difficult to see that Tianxin was already angry at this time, so her text also brought out the spearhead of the attack, it may be that in addition to this netizen, other netizens also posted similar comments, and on January 4, Tianxin responded again, this time the language was much more intense.
The overall meaning is to accuse those netizens who can't speak, to be able to make a fifth-grade child like this, and the netizens who post bad comments are really "indispensable".
Obviously, Tianxin in the video was still glad that her school was not bullied, but she was attacked by bad comments on the Internet when she turned around, and the child's happiness came to an abrupt end, which also highlighted the malice of these netizens.
Moms are mothers, children are children, why impose the mistakes of adults on children, not to mention the truth of what happened back then, who can say that they fully understand?
Netizen comments
However, after the bad comment incident, netizens reacted differently.
Most people were very distressed and relieved the child that it was not her fault, and the person who operated on the child was too annoying.
Netizens feel that Tianxin is an independent individual, and her response is a very brave performance, which deserves everyone's praise for her, and she should be polite when dealing with unkind people.
These netizens feel that people with malicious intent are too much, and pouring dirty water on a child is an act that breaks through the bottom line of morality, and this kind of psychology is despicable.
Of course, there are supportive netizens and regretful netizens, they mean that the reason why the child has this encounter is because Li Xiaolu did not set a good example and let the child suffer.
What does it feel like to be a mother for a young child to face this embarrassment?
How does a mother feel when she sees what happens to her child, and does she know that what she does affects her child?
When parents should set a good example for their children, and do not have a wrong example, since they can't prevent others from saying things from their mouths, then they can only let parents avoid mistakes, who can blame their children for suffering?
As a mother, you can't just take care of yourself for a while, you have to think about your children before doing anything.
Parents will know the mistakes made by their children when they are young, and sooner or later when their children grow up, even if parents satisfy their children materially, they cannot completely resist the attacks brought by the Internet.
The above are two completely different attitudes of netizens, but there are also a small number of netizens who believe that this matter should be analyzed rationally.
Half of them think that other things should not be considered, and Li Xiaolu is a good mother when it comes to treating her children.
The other half thinks that Li Xiaolu is indeed a good mother and teaches her children well, but she does do something wrong, and this matter must be viewed objectively, and a person cannot be analyzed separately.
The above comments are no matter what, but there is no real malice, and everyone's attitude towards the netizens who give bad comments is very consistent, that is, hate, atmosphere, and unaccustomed.
But even in such a situation, there are still netizens who come out to shake their wits and continue to output malice.
This netizen who asked who "Uncle Wan" was, I don't know if I really don't know it or on purpose.
This very comfortable netizen is most likely hurt by someone.
This netizen is still asking if there is "Uncle Xiao Wan", is this question really important, is this the point?
This netizen who guessed that he was a father, in all fairness, was really excessive.
This netizen who said that the time is not right, have you ever considered it, maybe you should get on the bus first and then make up the ticket?
This netizen had a good brain at first glance, and he almost didn't understand it if he didn't look carefully, and the "Dad" he said meant "Uncle Xiaowan".
It can only be said that we can't stop others from unleashing malice, and malice happens every minute.
Some netizens jumped out of the content part of the incident, and simply commented on Tianxin's counterattack after being badly criticized.
In short, no matter what, netizens' bad comments and Tianxin's replies netizens have something to say, but in the final analysis, Tianxin's life is her own, and her parents and herself will move forward steadily together.
School violence
As a digression, as to why Tianxin mentioned school violence in a happy video of campus life, the editor guessed that she probably felt it when she saw others being bullied on campus.
Recently, actor Hao Shaowen's wife said on social platforms that her daughter was bullied on campus, and the child often woke up crying in the middle of the night at home, and her daughter was only 8 years old, which is heart-wrenching.
Parents hurriedly reported the situation to the school, but the school responded simply with a "game between friends", Hao Shaowen and his wife did not understand, the annual tuition fee was nearly 200,000, and the attitude of such a school towards children was so perfunctory.
Fortunately, the education department and the public security department have begun to intervene in the investigation, hoping that those who have been maliciously treated will be treated just and fairly.
Even the children of celebrities' families may be bullied, so in the face of malice, everyone is really equal.
What we can do is to be kind to the world, not just to children like Tianxin, but to everyone.
It's not easy to create, if you enjoy it, you can pay attention to it and like it, this is a gift for you~