My boyfriend and I had a fight with my boyfriend who was going to buy an iPhone, and he used an iPhone himself

"Why don't you let me buy an iPhone? you're using it yourself!" I looked at him angrily, my voice echoing through the empty room.

He was silent for a moment, then said, "Because ......"

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It all started with that sudden quarrel. I just casually mentioned that I wanted to get a new phone, an iPhone. Unexpectedly, this sparked opposition from my boyfriend and a quarrel with us.

I looked at his frowning brow and listened to his reproach, and I couldn't help but feel a little confused in my heart. He is obviously using an Apple himself, so why doesn't he want me to use it too?

"I just don't think you have to. He seemed to be looking for an excuse, "Your phone is still working fine." ”

I frowned, wondering why he was so determined. I retorted, "Then how do you decide if I'm 'necessary'?

He lowered his head, speechless. The atmosphere in the room instantly became tense and oppressive.

That night, neither of us spoke again. The atmosphere of the Cold War is like a wall separating us.

Then, the next morning, he suddenly said to me, "It's not that I won't let you buy an iPhone, I'm just ...... Worried about you. ”

"Worried about me?" I froze, not understanding what he meant.

"You know, in today's society, many people will have some bad thoughts when they see girls using expensive electronic products. I'm just afraid you'll get hurt because of it. His tone was a little helpless, "I know I may be a little worried, but I just care about you." ”

Hearing this, I understood his concern. It's not that he won't let me buy an iPhone, but he's worried that I'll be unnecessarily troubled because of it.

At that moment, I realized that the quarrel between us actually stemmed from caring and loving for each other. Maybe the way is a little biased, maybe the method is a little clumsy, but it can't hide the deep love.

Since then, we've learned to understand each other better and respect each other's decisions more. Because we know that true love is understanding, tolerance, and equal respect.