Why do some mothers think it's very easy to take care of a baby, but some mothers think it's really difficult to take a baby? This may not be in the mother, but your baby is different.
The mother of the second child has a problem with the baby, why is the difference between the big baby and the second baby so big!?
Ms. Yu is a mother of two children, the eldest baby is 7 years old and has entered primary school, and the second baby is now 4 years old and has just started kindergarten.
Before having a second baby, Ms. Yu always felt that it was very easy to bring a baby, but since she had a second baby, Ms. Yu knew why some mothers always said that it was difficult to bring a baby!
It turned out that everything went very smoothly when Ms. Yu took the eldest baby, although the eldest baby was also very noisy when she was young, but it was similar to other children, but everything changed when she arrived at the second baby.
The second baby is easy to be emotional, has a big temper and is very sensitive, and will always start to lose his temper because of a little thing, especially after he is older, this kind of character is even more obvious, every time she sees the second baby lose her temper, Ms. Yu will feel broken!
The character performance of Ms. Yu's second baby should have been encountered by many mothers, and they even empathize. If you have a similar child in your family, you may want to consider a highly sensitive child (HSC).
Highly sensitive children
Many people say that it is very difficult to bring highly sensitive children, and there is also Fei's mother who said, but if this kind of child is educated well, the probability of growing up and being productive will also be very high.
Relevant studies have shown that children with high sensitivity will be better in learning and Xi and feeling ability than other children in a good, comfortable and loving environment.
Not only that, highly sensitive children have a keen five senses, they will perceive more information in the same environment, they love to think, the pursuit of perfection, if the mother can tap their talents, the future can be expected.
To put it simply, it is almost the same as the literal meaning, this kind of child is very "sensitive", their nervous system is more sensitive, more developed, and they will be very keen to detect changes in their surroundings, even if it is a small change, they can clearly perceive it.
Perhaps because they are too sensitive, such children are also prone to lose control in some aspects, such as behavior and emotional changes that are different from other children.
Attentive mothers can clearly feel the difference, especially mothers with multiple children, and the differences between children can really be clearly contrasted.
If the mother does not know whether her child is a highly sensitive child, you can compare to see if there are the following 4 characteristics, if these characteristics appear, then the mother can consider her child is a highly sensitive child.
There are 4 characteristics that will occur in highly sensitive children
(1) Emotional, irritable and excited
Highly sensitive children are very emotional, easy to get angry, easy to get excited, once the surrounding environment changes, even if the change is small, their emotions will be swayed, if you can't figure out the situation, it is really confused.
For example, if the mother does not do something well, or does not do what she promised him, then they will be very angry, angry, and even aggressive. After a while, you may have forgotten about it, but they will still hold on.
(2) Pursuit of perfection, difficulty in accepting failures and setbacks
If there is a failure or a setback, then the world is like a collapse, which is difficult for them to accept, and the ensuing emotions such as irritability, anger, and depression will explode one by one.
For example, they always can't draw well, the stacked blocks suddenly collapse, and they always lose when playing games, etc., all of which can cause them to have emotional outbursts.
(3) Admit to death, stubbornness and immobility
This type of child will set certain rules for themselves, like a schedule, they will do things in a precedent order, and once the order changes, they will not be able to move on to the next step, and some children will feel that things are out of control and become restless.
(4) Easy to be anxious and slow to adapt to the environment
Because they are sensitive to changes in their surroundings, highly sensitive children are slower to accept new environments, and are prone to anxiety and anxiety in unfamiliar environments.
Therefore, when children enter an unfamiliar environment or contact strangers, Bao Ma must give them a little more time, remember to encourage children, and improve children's self-confidence.
Small bean sprouts are crumbled
The needs of highly sensitive children are higher than those of other children, but as long as the mother is patient and careful enough, the future development of highly sensitive children is also unlimited.
Today's topic: Do your children have these characteristics?
Remember to pay attention to the little bean sprouts, there are a lot of little knowledge waiting for you!
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