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My name is Xiao Wang, I am 28 years old this year, and I have been married for three years. My wife, Xiaohong, and I were high school classmates, and we have always had a good relationship, and we lived happily ever after we got married.
My father has a more traditional and conservative personality and has always had some opinions about Xiaohong. He always said that Xiaohong was not careful enough to do things, and often found fault with her. I advised him to be more tolerant and understanding, but he always went his own way.
The other day, my father came to my house as a guest. I was about to cook a good meal for him, and he insisted that Xiaohong serve him. I saw that Xiaohong was doing laundry, so I said, "Dad, Xiaohong is busy, I'll come." You sit and rest and wait for the food to be served. ”
The father's face sank, and he said to Xiaohong, "I'm here, you still do the laundry? Go to the kitchen! My son wants me to cook by myself at home?"
Xiaohong endured the fire and said, "Dad, I'll come now." You watch TV for a while, and then you can eat. ”
I saw that my father was not satisfied, so I quickly persuaded him: "Dad, I just bought fresh ingredients, I'll cook, don't embarrass Xiaohong." ”
My father ignored me and lost his temper with Xiaohong: "My son is so good to you, you don't know how to serve your father-in-law!"
I saw that Xiaohong's face was red, and I quickly grabbed my father: "Dad, Xiaohong is usually the most filial to you, so I will serve you today." ”
My father shook off my hand and slapped Xiaohong's face with a heavy crisp sound. Xiaohong and I were dumbfounded, our brains were "buzzing", and we couldn't say anything.
I looked at my father, and then at Xiaohong, my heart was like a knife. No matter how filial I am to my father, I can't tolerate him beating my wife.
But I still held back and whispered to Xiaohong: "Honghong, go to the kitchen and prepare a meal, I'll take care of it." ”
Xiaohong nodded with red eyes and entered the kitchen with tears in her eyes.
I resisted my anger and said to my father, "Dad, Xiaohong is my wife. Don't hit her in the future, then I feel uncomfortable. ”
The father sneered: "Uncomfortable? What I said was the truth, she was not filial and didn't let me say it?
I took a deep breath and ignored my father.
My father left that day after dinner. After he left, Xiaohong hugged me and cried bitterly. I was so distressed that I comforted her softly
Xiaohong smiled reluctantly and said, "I'm fine, don't blame yourself too much." ”
I shook her hand and said, "Honghong, I'm sorry, I didn't protect you." But I will definitely protect you in the future, I promise you. ”
Xiaohong shook her head: "It's not your fault, it's that my uncle's old prejudice is too deep." Let's assume it didn't happen. ”
I was about to say something, but the doorbell rang suddenly. When I opened the door, my father was standing outside.
I frowned and said, "Dad, what are you doing?"
The father snorted, squeezed through the door, and said loudly, "What do you want me to do? I'm your father, come whenever you want!"
After speaking, he sat down on the sofa by himself and beckoned to Xiaohong: "Hurry up and bring tea!"
I stood in front of my father and said in a resolute tone: "Dad, let me make it clear to you, you can't be unreasonable anymore." Yesterday you hit the red red and I was very angry. If you beat her again in the future, we will sever the father-son relationship!"
My father's face turned dark, he stood up and pointed at my nose and said, "You unfilial son! I am your biological father!"
I didn't flinch, and Masasei said, "I respect you, but it's just wrong to hit my wife." I don't have to worry about you this time, and I won't make an example!"
The father was trembling with anger, and as soon as he pushed me away, he walked towards Xiaohong: "You uneducated woman, I have no relationship with my son!"
I was quick to stop, and my attitude was tough: "You can try to move her again!
My father was pushed by me, and his face was extremely ugly. He glared at me fiercely, then pointed at his nose and scolded: "Okay, you unfilial son! I will cut off the father-son relationship with you today!"
With that, he slammed the door and left. I looked at my father's back as he left, and I had mixed feelings.
At this time, Xiaohong walked over with tears in her eyes and said, "He is your father after all, let's go and apologize to him." ”
I relented, but still shook my head and said, "No, Honghong, I can't tolerate him hitting you." Even if you cut off the relationship, I will protect you. ”
I hugged Xiaohong tightly and whispered, "Don't worry, give him some time to calm down." It's his problem, and we're not doing anything wrong. ”
In the days that followed, my father never came again.
During this time, I often think about the quarrel with my father, and I still feel very uncomfortable. Xiaohong saw my depressed appearance and often advised me: "You have protected me, you don't need to blame yourself." Give your uncle some time, and he'll understand. ”
I smiled reluctantly and nodded. But it was harder than I thought it would be to let go of it.
A month later, my mother called in a very anxious tone: "Son, your father suddenly fainted, and now he is in the hospital!
After hearing this, my heart tightened, and I hurried to the hospital with Xiaohong.
When I arrived at the ward, I saw my father lying on the hospital bed sweating profusely, and several doctors were busy. I nervously asked my mother, "Mom, Dad, what's wrong?"
The mother said with tears in her eyes: "Dad has been in a bad mood recently, his body has been unwell, and he suddenly fainted just now, and the doctor said that it might be a heart attack." ”
My heart was like a knife, and I blamed myself. Seeing this, Xiaohong hurriedly pulled me outside and said softly: "Don't blame yourself too much, take care of your body first, and when my uncle wakes up, we will accompany him well." ”
I nodded, and stayed in the hospital with Xiaohong all night. Fortunately, my father's condition gradually stabilized and he was out of danger.
I hurriedly stepped forward to hold his hand, my eyes were red and said, "Dad, it's good if you're awake." We're all here with you. ”
My father looked at me, a hint of emotion flashed in his eyes, but he still didn't look away, and his tone was cold: "You go back, I don't need you to take care of me." ”
I felt very uncomfortable, but I still persuaded softly: "Dad, your health has just improved, and we will take good care of you here." Don't be angry, I apologized to you for being wrong in the first place. ”
My father's face softened a little, but he still said, "Even if you apologize, I can't accept that you did that to me." ”
I nodded, "I know you're right to be angry. But at that time, I was too anxious, and I also wanted to protect my wife. I promise you that I will be filial to you in the future, and I will also ask Honghong to treat you well. Please don't be angry with us. ”
My father looked at me with a look of emotion in his eyes.
Xiaohong also stepped forward and took her father's hand and said, "Uncle, I also apologize to you." I
My father looked at the two of us and finally nodded, a look of relief in his eyes.
From that day on, Xiaohong and I began to take care of our father in the hospital. During the day, I would take leave to stay with my father, and Xiaohong would also help after work at night, and we would take care of my father's daily life and food.
A week later, my father had basically recovered and was ready to be discharged from the hospital. On the day he was discharged from the hospital, he rarely took the initiative to say to us: "Son, thank you and your daughter-in-law for taking care of me this time." I know you're doing it for my good. ”
I excitedly shook my father's hand: "Dad, we're relieved if you can say that." I will always be filial to you. ”
Xiaohong also nodded next to her, her eyes red.
My father finally smiled and patted my hand this time: "Okay, you guys have worked hard too. Let's go home. ”
In this way, my relationship with my father was finally restored. After being discharged from the hospital, Xiaohong and I began to take care of my father's diet and daily life, for fear that he would feel unwell again.
One day, Xiaohong was peeling an apple for her father when she accidentally cut her finger. When the father saw this, he immediately said worriedly, "Daughter-in-law, you have cut your hand!
I hurriedly brought the medicine box to bandage Xiaohong. Xiaohong smiled and said to her father, "Uncle, I'm fine, I'm out of the way." Don't worry. ”
At this time, the father naturally patted Xiaohong's hand and said, "Daughter-in-law, I know that you are good for me." I won't be vexatious anymore in the future. You live a good life with my son is the best filial piety to me. ”
Xiaohong and I looked at each other after hearing this, and we both saw tears in each other's eyes. At this moment, I knew that my father had truly forgiven us.
Since then, I have devoted myself to taking care of my father and restoring a close father-son relationship with him. Xiaohong is also filial to her father and often talks to him. My father gradually lost his prejudice against us, but often laughed and talked about us.
When I think about that argument now, I still feel that I should not have cut ties with my father at that time. But after this time, my father also became enlightened. At this moment, I felt that we had re-established the warmth of home.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Xiaohong's baby and I are also born. We named the baby Xiaoqiang, a big boy who was white and chubby.
The father was very happy to have a grandson, and hugged Xiaoqiang every day to make him laugh. Today, my father came to my house again, and as soon as he entered the door, he said excitedly: "Son, quickly bring Xiaoqiang over and let me see!"
I smiled and picked up Xiaoqiang from the crib, and my father immediately took it over and teased Xiaoqiang with a smile.
Xiaoqiang was amused, babbling and waving his little hands. Xiaohong and I couldn't help but laugh out loud as we watched our father and grandson look happy.
My father said happily: "Xiaoqiang really looks like me when I was a child! I will definitely be very smart in the future!"
I nodded and said, "It's all up to you to take care of it, Dad." Xiaoqiang will definitely be very filial to you in the future. ”
My father smiled and said, "Okay, okay, I'll wait for him to grow up." When the time comes, take him to the park and buy him something delicious to eat!"
When I saw my father's happy face, I also felt warm in my heart.
At night, Xiaoqiang suddenly started crying. Xiaohong was about to take care of it, but her father took the initiative to say, "Let me come!" Then he picked up Xiaoqiang and patted him gently, coaxing him to sleep.
After a while, Xiaoqiang finally stopped crying, and his father carried him and walked slowly around the room. Xiaohong and I stood on the sidelines and watched, and our hearts were very moved.
Xiaohong whispered to me: "Look, uncle loves Xiaoqiang so much, he has changed a lot." ”
I nodded and whispered, "yes, I'm really grateful to him now." If it weren't for that quarrel, maybe he wouldn't have changed so much. ”
Xiaohong shook my hand and said, "Yes, so maybe that argument was a good thing." It makes us grow, it makes our uncle enlightened, and it brings our family closer. ”
I gave Xiaohong a deep look and nodded. I know that through that, we have become a happier home.
Watching my father gently hug Xiaoqiang, I knew that this was what I wanted my home to look like the most. With a father, a wife, and lovely children, we all understand, tolerate and support each other. This is what I want to protect, the most important home in my life.
Looking at my father and Xiaoqiang, I couldn't help but think of the unpleasantness of the past. In retrospect, the misunderstanding between me and my father was actually avoidable.
If I could have understood my father's thoughts better, I would have communicated with him more; If Dad could accept Xiaohong and not always find fault with her, we might not have a big fight.
I decided to have a good talk with my father and untie the knot once and for all.
One day after dinner, I plucked up the courage to say to my father, "Dad, my son has something to say to you, can you hear it?"
My father looked at me in surprise and said, "Okay, son, don't hesitate to say anything in your heart." ”
I organized the language and said, "Dad, do you remember when we had a fight over the red thing? I always felt that we were both responsible for that quarrel. ”
After hearing this, my father nodded and said, "You're right, I shouldn't have fought Honghong in the first place, and I shouldn't have quarreled so much with you." ”
I continued, "I shouldn't have cut ties with you either. I think if we could have communicated well at that time, we wouldn't have been arguing like that. ”
The father sighed and said, "Yes, son, there is indeed a lack of communication between us. After your mother died, there were only two of us men left in the family, and I was too strict with you, and you didn't dare to reveal your heart to me. This sowed a misunderstanding. ”
I nodded and said, "I want to be honest with you, I have always respected you, but I don't dare to tell you some thoughts. For example, my feelings for Honghong, I'm worried that you don't understand. ”
My father took my hand and said, "Son, I understand." It's because I'm old, and I look at things more traditionally. You and Honghong are genuinely in love, and I shouldn't interfere. No matter what choice you make in the future, I will support you. ”
I said excitedly, "Thank you, Dad, with your support and understanding, I will always be filial to you." ”
From that day on, my relationship with my father became closer. We started going out for walks together on a regular basis, chatting as we went. My father would listen to me, and I would respect his advice.
Once, while taking a walk, my father suddenly said, "Son, it's nice to talk to you." I finally understand you. You and Honghong will be happy, I'm relieved. ”
I stopped, looked at my father sincerely, and said, "I'm grateful to you, Dad." With your understanding and support, we will be happy. ”
My father nodded, smiled and patted me on the shoulder. I smiled with relief.