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She is Xiao Zhuxin in "Longing", and she is also the third daughter-in-law jujube flower in the "Rural Trilogy" "Fence, Woman and Dog", "Wheel, Woman and Well", and "Ancient Boat, Woman and Net".
It is said that drama is like life, just like the jujube flowers in the play, Wu Yuhua outside the play also divorced her husband.
"No way, I've stuck with Dink all my life. ”
Wu Yuhua proposed to have a child with her husband Wang Jun after marriage, but she didn't expect her husband to insist on Dink, for the sake of the child, Wu Yuhua divorced her husband who had lived together for more than ten years without hesitation.
And now that more than 20 years have passed, what happened to Wu Yuhua, who divorced for the sake of his children?
Did you really get what you wanted to have a baby, or did you regret your impulsive decision?
"Jujube flower" Wu Yuhua
In 1989, when there was just a big color TV to watch, the first large-scale indoor TV series "Desire" was born, which was full of familiar old faces.
Among them, Wu Yuhua, who played Xiao Zhuxin, was recognized by the audience at a glance, because just last year, her "jujube flower" was very famous, but many people don't know that Wu Yuhua almost missed the performance in this life.
Wu Yuhua was born in Hangzhou, Zhejiang, and it is said that the West Lake is beautiful, and Wu Yuhua did look outstanding when he was a child.
But it seems that she is a tearful, slightly panting Lin Daiyu, but in fact she is Lu Zhishen who uprootes the weeping willows.
I don't know where she heard the story of the chivalrous warrior, and since then she has begun to fantasize about being a hero who pulls out a sword to help when the road is uneven, as long as she hears that her friend is being bullied, she is always the first person to run out.
Wu Yuhua, who has a lively and noisy personality, is the pistachio of the family, but her grades in this school Xi are not ideal, and she doesn't dare to go home when she gets the paper every day.
Her parents are very worried about her, it is strange that she can be admitted to a good university and find a lucrative job in the future, but Wu Yuhua has a good mentality.
She had already thought about going to the acting academy, and her professional score was almost fine, so she went up in a hurry, so she applied for Chinese opera and Nortel very confidently in the college entrance examination, but she successfully failed in both schools.
After failing this examination, Wu Yuhua realized that it is not good to have a fluke mentality, and only with real skills can she be on the stage, and since then she has begun to work hard.
changed her previous love of activity and fun, this time she sat still very much, and after reading all the reference books and materials, she came to the college entrance examination room again.
This time she applied for the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, and finally she was admitted and became an acting student.
After coming to college, she worked harder to learn Xi acting, and she always took the lesson of failing the college entrance examination to heart.
Soon her acting skills were among the best in the class, and she also successfully entered the Nanjing Military Region Repertory Troupe and became a drama actor, playing various roles every day, which greatly satisfied Wu Yuhua's imagination and sense of experience.
Soon her first TV work "Backlight" was successfully released, which is a work starring her and Guo Kaimin, in which the innocent, fantastical, and very creative Xia Yinyin is simply herself.
Wu Yuhua, who is very energetic, has very powerful acting skills, which has allowed her to receive many roles, but it was at this time that she encountered a very challenging role.
That is the jujube flower in "Fence, Woman and Dog", the jujube flower who is often abused by her husband, is a very bitter character, which is very different from herself.
But a good actor doesn't pick a role, and in the end, Wu Yuhua carefully figured out the characteristics of the role and brought the jujube flower to life, until now when others mention her, they think she has a bitter face, and her life is very miserable.
But in fact, although Wu Yuhua's career is very smooth, her married life is very unsmooth.
Coincidental love
After graduating from school, Wu Yuhua, who entered the Nanjing Military Region Repertory Troupe, is 24 years old, and it is time to talk about marriage, so she was dragged to participate in the sorority in the troupe.
But when she first came to the troupe, she didn't know anyone at all, and she seemed cramped when she was always lively, and at this moment, a boy suddenly stepped forward and greeted her warmly.
"Long time no see, are you also coming to the sorority?"
Looking at the somewhat shy boy in front of her, Wu Yuhua was a little confused, because she didn't remember seeing him, was this his way of greeting.
Before Wu Yuhua could react, the friend next to the man quickly interjected, "You're not from a school, why do you act like you don't know each other?"
At this time, Wu Yuhua knew that the two of them were in the same school at the beginning, and they were particularly fated to be assigned to a drama troupe, and when they saw alumni Wu Yuhua in a strange place, they immediately opened the conversation.
The two have a lot of common topics, and with the exchange of relations, they are also much closer, Wu Yuhua is a very lively person, while Wang Jun is a very introverted person, one cold and one hot, which brings a different freshness to the two.
Under the mediation of colleagues, the two walked together like this, and later Wu Yuhua learned that Wang Jun had been liking himself since he was in college.
Wu Yuhua in the university is a popular figure in the school, and many men admire her, including Wang Jun, but seeing so many boys around Wu Yuhua, Wang Jun didn't dare to approach Wu Yuhua at all.
Introverted, he buried this love in his heart, and when he saw the two being assigned to a troupe, he was very happy, and when he saw Wu Yuhua again at the sorority, he knew that he couldn't hold back anymore.
Finally, he mustered up the courage to say the sentence, "Long time no see."
Wang Jun's insistence on liking until now moved Wu Yuhua very much, and finally the two got married under the witness of relatives and friends, but the two had a disagreement on the first day of marriage.
Disagreements after marriage
"Yuhua, we don't want children anymore, okay to be Dink?"
Wu Yuhua suddenly heard Wang Jun say this, and she didn't react, but she saw that Wang Jun was very repulsive to children, and she was focused on her career at that time, so she agreed to this matter.
But then she slowly realized that her promise was a little hasty.
Wu Yuhua is a person who likes to be lively, although she is accompanied by her husband, she always feels that something is missing.
Usually busy with work and has no time to stay at home, she doesn't feel anything, but until she comes home and her husband Wang Jun is away, she is very envious of others having children by her side.
In addition, the relationship between the two after marriage is not as good as imagined.
After marriage, Wu Yuhua's career began to become hot, and the "Rural Trilogy" won her the Top Ten Film and Television Actors in China Award.
Wang Jun had no drama to film, and then he was admitted to the Chinese Opera Directing Department for further study, but after graduating as a master's degree in directing, there was still no improvement.
This kind of relationship between strong women and weak men, the different personalities of the two who are cold and hot, all make the relationship between the two precarious, and if there is a child at this time, it is not impossible to neutralize the relationship between the two.
Considering various factors, Wu Yuhua finally proposed to Wang Jun the decision to have a child, but Wang Jun resolutely opposed it.
"Didn't we say a long time ago, if we don't have children, why do we regret it now?"
Wu Yuhua told Wang Jun her thoughts, but it did not get Wang Jun's regression, and finally the two reached the point of divorce.
Friends felt incredible when they heard the news of the divorce of the two, and they persuaded Wu Yuhua one after another, you have been together for so long, and you have always been harmonious, do you have to give up this hard-won marriage for the sake of your children?
But Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun both made up their minds, and then the two parted ways and went their separate ways.
It is this difference in concept that creates the second half of the two people's lives.
A different second half of life
After the divorce, although Wu Yuhua was sad, she knew that if she wanted to embrace a new life, she had to forget her previous unhappiness, and finally under the introduction of a friend, she met the painter Mo Dafeng.
Although Mo Dafeng's personality is not good at talking, unlike Wang Jun, he likes to share his feelings, and he is also responsive to Wu Yuhua's needs.
The important thing is that he also likes children very much, and hopes to have his own children and family with Wu Yuhua and enjoy a stable life.
Therefore, after Wu Yuhua, who also loves life, was with Mo Dafeng, he gradually stepped out of the shadow in front of him and began to enjoy the present.
Later, she also got her wish and gave birth to a son and a daughter with her husband, although taking care of the child was a little tired, but looking at the innocent smiling face of the child in her arms, Wu Yuhua felt unprecedented happiness.
After the child grew up, she came out to film again, and played the queen mother in "The Favorite Concubine of the Two Worlds", and her married life gave her more life experience and more insights into acting, so she was handy when she played the mother.
Wang Jun, who insisted on Dink, did not start his love life after the divorce, but devoted himself to his career, which also brought his career to the top.
He first followed Zhao Baogang to direct "Like Fog, Like Rain and Like Wind", and learned a lot of professional experience, and then began to direct "Four Worlds in the Same Hall", "Little Farewell", "Ruyi's Biography", "Little Huanxi" and other popular dramas.
Later, he not only won the Magnolia Award and the Feitian Award for Best Director, but also was elected as the executive director of the Aolaiwu TV Drama Directors Association in 2022, and now he is already well-known in the director circle.
However, because he has never given birth to a child, he didn't know how to shoot it when filming "Little Huanxi", but fortunately, his good friend Huang Lei rescued the scene, which allowed him to shoot a drama that resonated with everyone.
Although Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun have different philosophies, both of them are now living the lives they want.
So there is no standard in life, it doesn't mean that you have to be what you have to be.
Whether it is Wu Yuhua who chooses to get married and have children, or Wang Jun, who devotes himself to his career and insists on Dink, they insist on their own choices.
And he also took a brave step and got the life he wanted, which is the most perfect ending.
Finally, I hope that everyone can find their own direction in life, and can take brave steps and walk out of their own way.
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