In 1998, Wu Yuhua again proposed to her husband Wang Jun that he wanted to have a child.
But the husband also said very clearly: "I don't like children, and I don't want to have children."
At this time, Wu Yuhua no longer naively thought that she could change her husband Dink's mind with love.
This year, Wu Yuhua chose to divorce Wang Jun, ending the romantic love from campus to marriage.
Just when she thought she might die alone, the appearance of Mo Dafeng saved her.
Now, Wang Jun and Wu Yuhua have been divorced for 25 years, does he regret it?
What happened to Wu Yuhua, who remarried?
01、
Wu Yuhua was born in Shandong and followed her parents to live in the scenic city of Hangzhou when she was very young.
Hangzhou has been known as "paradise on earth" since ancient times, in addition to the boldness of its own northern girls, Wu Yuhua occasionally has little birds clinging to people and sweet words.
She has been a very assertive person since she was a child, and her parents have long arranged the factory for her after graduating from high school.
As long as she goes to work obediently and obediently, and then finds a good family when she is old, although she cannot be rich and noble in her life, she is also safe.
But the day when she saw the head at a glance was not what she thought, she yearned for romance and liked the beautiful environment of the countryside trail.
In 1976, 17-year-old Wu Yuhua chose to experience life in the countryside.
The situation of heavy traffic and crowded people in the city did not appear in the two years that she went to the countryside,
Instead, there are enthusiastic and cheerful fellows, air with the fragrance of flowers,
In her spare time, she plays the harmonica on the small bridge by the river and enjoys a comfortable time.
Two years later, she returned to the city, still not choosing a smooth working life.
She loves watching movies and longs to be an actress,
So, she applied for the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama after seeking the consent of her parents in every possible way.
After receiving the opportunity to retake the school test, Wu Yuhua was so excited that she specially selected the most beautiful skirt from the wardrobe.
But in the end, neither school accepted her.
She is not a person who beats herself up when things happen, and if she does not work hard, there will never be a good result.
After a year of hard work, in 1979, Wu Yuhua was admitted to military art with a score close to full score.
Everyone thought at first that she had such good grades, and she must be a difficult and arrogant person.
But when I contacted her, I knew that she was the "silly Dani" her parents said, and her heartless appearance made people can't help but be kind to her.
She is the most popular in the class, and she also attracts a lot of favor from the opposite sex.
Wu Yuhua is very decent in handling the relationship between men and women, never dragging mud and water, and boys who don't like it decisively refuse.
During this period, Wang Jun was one of the people who adored her.
But he was afraid of rejection, and felt that he was not worthy of Colonel Hua Wu Yuhua at all, so he had to bury his liking in his heart.
He would deliberately wait for Wu Yuhua at the door of the cafeteria, arrange the meals at the same window as her, and sit at the dining table closest to her.
In fact, he very much hoped that the other party could look at him, but Wu Yuhua did not notice his existence at all.
The crush is beautiful and cruel, and seeing that he is about to graduate, Wang Jun knows that he will never have the opportunity to see Wu Yuhua sad for a long time.
At this time, Wu Yuhua couldn't wait to work quickly and break out of the sky.
It seems that there will be no more people involved, but they meet again.
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After graduation, Wu Yuhua entered the Nanjing Military Region Repertory Troupe.
She has always been praised by teachers and sought after by classmates, and she is not conspicuous at all in the talented drama troupe.
Such a big contrast makes it difficult for Wu Yuhua to accept, she has been working hard,
It is clear that the performance of staying up late to practice will still be criticized by the teacher in front of all the actors.
The constant suppression made the original personality grinning, and the self-confident Wu Yuhua became depressed,
During rehearsals, I also found a marginal position to stand, and kept silently chanting "Teacher don't see me".
Gradually, Wu Yuhua chose to settle for the status quo and become a supporting actor with little achievements.
Until, the appearance of alumnus Wang Jun.
For him, he could work anywhere, until he heard that Wu Yuhua was in the military district repertory theater.
Just thinking about looking at each other again, I worked hard in school and won the opportunity to choose a unit by finishing first.
On the day of the report, he looked for Wu Yuhua everywhere, and his mind constantly presented the wonderful picture of the other party performing in a gorgeous dress.
East and west, Wang Jun finally found the rehearsal hall and saw Wu Yuhua, who haunted him.
But the other party is not the protagonist, and there is no former charm, and the whole person reveals that he is not confident, only promised.
In the following time, he approached Wu Yuhua intentionally or unintentionally.
When Wu Yuhua learned that the other party and himself were alumni, he was less defensive and had a lot more trust.
She told Wang Jun about her experience in the troupe, and her eyes were full of unwillingness and helplessness.
"I am also a newcomer now, you and I work hard again", Wu Yuhua regained confidence with Wang Jun's encouragement.
She is no longer afraid of mistakes, no longer worried about criticism, and learns from failures.
Those who work hard will not have bad luck, and Wu Yuhua was soon noticed by the leaders to play the protagonist of many dramas.
During this period, she was very grateful to Wang Jun for encouraging her, and the two became friends who said nothing.
People whose hearts are getting closer and closer quickly establish a romantic relationship.
Being able to become a situation with the object of his love in college, Wang Jun secretly rejoiced in his heart and swore that he would be good to Wu Yuhua.
At that time, Wang Jun was only a supporting role and had been unknown,
But Wu Yuhua has become a pillar, and everyone will praise her every time they watch her act.
But as everyone knows, there is also Wang Jun's dedication behind this.
Wu Yuhua will discuss with her boyfriend after getting the new script, and the other party's analysis of the characters is always unexpected, accurately grasping the deepest humanity of the characters.
With the passage of time, the film and television industry rose, and dramas were no longer popular,
Spending money to buy tickets and running all the way to watch a play, it is better to turn on the TV and watch a TV series on the sofa.
The industry is sluggish, the troupe can't make money, and the actors' salaries naturally can't be paid.
The colleagues in the group are all looking for a way out for their future, and Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun are no exception.
Wu Yuhua watched Pu Cunxin, Zhao Na, and Liu Xiaoqing all come from drama actors and became popular by shooting movies.
She also wants to become a well-known actress and receive more attention.
She made a decision, but what is her boyfriend still hesitating to do?
Thinking about it, she felt that Wang Jun had a very directorial thinking when analyzing the plot for himself at that time, and suggested that he could move closer to the direction of the director.
In this way, Wu Yuhua began his film career, and Wang Jun entered Nortel's directing department to study.
Although the two have different life trajectories, this has not affected their feelings.
On the contrary, because they can't see each other frequently, they especially cherish the bits and pieces of their time together.
While love developed steadily, Wu Yuhua, who shot the movie, ushered in the peak of his life.
In 1982, she starred in her first film and television work "Backlight".
Her role as "Xia Yinyin" is very likable, the character is a rural girl who escapes the world and hopes to achieve gender equality.
This coincides with Wu Yuhua's decision to choose to go to the countryside that year, and it can be said that she basically starred in her true colors.
After the broadcast of this drama, she became a new force in the film and television industry and gained a large number of fans.
In the years that followed, Wu Yuhua experimented with various styles of roles,
The ever-changing drama path makes her career have no window period, and directors are constantly looking for her to star.
But at this time, she has never had a work that can squeeze her into the ranks of first-line actresses.
Her career took a turn for the better a year after she and Wang Jun got married.
In 1989, Wu Yuhua took over the filming of "Fence Woman and Dog".
The actors who played with her were Tian Chengren, Yang Shuquan, Wang Jianguo and others, and the joining of many well-known actors itself brought heat to the work.
The setting of the script is that Wu Yuhua as "Zaohua" does not want to suffer the difficulties of her in-laws, and takes the initiative to file for divorce,
In the face of the villagers' fingers, she doesn't care, she just wants to get rid of the "siege" marriage.
The plot is sharp, the main creator is famous, plus Wu Yuhua is already acting in this type of drama for the second time,
She shows the personality of the characters vividly, is deeply loved by the audience, and the replay rate of the work is also very high.
With this play, she has won the title of Best Actress in three major awards and has become a hot actress.
At a time when Wu Yuhua's career had already achieved great success, Wang Jun was still in school.
The husband did not have any income during his studies, and all the family's expenses depended on Wu Yuhua.
She always asked her husband before leaving home after filming: "Is the living expenses enough?" In her conception, she is her husband's.
Although Wang Jun loves his wife very much, the man's self-esteem makes him very uncomfortable after hearing this sentence.
Outside, he never said anything about his wife, Wu Yuhua, for fear that others would say that he "ate soft rice".
In order to prove himself, he studied hard in school, and after graduation, he worked all night and night.
However, when his career began to prosper, Wu Yuhua no longer worried about the economy.
The unsynchronized development of their careers has caused estrangement in their marriages.
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When she was young, Wu Yuhua was only interested in her career, although her mother often urged her to have children as soon as possible.
Young and vigorous, she naturally did not take her mother's words to heart, but after having a brilliant career, she always felt that there were shortcomings.
Now my husband's directing career has just started, and the couple don't get along a few times a year,
If she is in a big house, she is alone.
She wants a child of her own, even when her husband is not at home.
When her husband came home, she cooked a large table of dishes herself.
"I was crazy thinking about the dishes you made when I was in the crew", Wang Jun hugged his wife and kissed him after eating a few mouthfuls of food.
Wu Yuhua saw that her husband was so happy, she said: "Let me tell you the good news again, the doctor said that my physical condition is very good, and it is completely fine to have children now."
As soon as the words fell, she obviously felt that her husband's hand holding her was stiff, and immediately avoided her eyes.
"Why do you suddenly want children?" , Wang Jun suppressed his voice and tilted his head to the side to ask his wife.
Wu Yuhua couldn't understand her husband's embarrassed look, could it be that his health was good and he could have children?
Until Wang Jun said indifferently: "I don't like children, let alone children", the originally warm atmosphere instantly froze to zero.
Wu Yuhua doesn't like to quarrel, she chooses to go back to the bedroom alone to calm down, and Wang Jun goes to the study to act out the script.
After calming his mood, Wu Yuhua thought that he was too anxious,
The husband is in the developing period, and if he does not want children, he must be afraid of delaying his work.
So, she promised Wang Jun that she would not be a good child for the time being.
But she also understands that her current health does not mean that she will be fine in two years.
Therefore, Wu Yuhua will mention in her husband's ear from time to time how cute her little niece is, and show him the interaction with children during filming.
However, these did not shake Wang Jun's heart that did not want children, and even filmed in order to avoid her far away desert.
Wu Yuhua decided to wait, and when her husband's dream of directing came true, she would definitely have her own children.
In 1991, Wang Jun co-directed the opera "The Party's Daughter" and won the first prize.
In 1995, the musical he directed won not only the first prize, but also the director's award.
This made Wang Jun feel confident and began to shoot TV series.
After achieving his achievements, he generously mentioned his wife Wu Yuhua for the first time in front of the media.
In the eyes of outsiders, Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun can be described as a perfect combination, which will definitely bring more surprises to the audience.
However, behind the seemingly happiness, only the parties concerned can experience the bitterness in it.
After her husband made a breakthrough in his career, Wu Yuhua thought of him again and proposed to have children.
The other party still coldly said no, and he also took Feng Xiaogang, Ge You and other stars who did not want children as examples, he wanted to be Dink.
Wu Yuhua did not blame Wang Jun, she only hated why she married without asking her husband what he thought.
In 1998, Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun divorced.
For her 10-year marriage with Wang Jun, she did not feel sorry,
But after 10 years of relationship, she was still sad for a long time.
At this time, Wu Yuhua was 39 years old, she no longer expected to meet love, and tried to accept the rest of her childless life.
However, she did not live alone.
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Mo Dafeng graduated from the American Institute of Art with a master's degree in fine arts.
In 2009, he was hired as a professor by Wu Yuhua to study military art.
At a school commemorative party, Wu Yuhua was attracted by Mo Dafeng's artistic temperament.
Without thinking much, she took the initiative to ask the other party about art knowledge.
One question and one answer, the two had a lot of topics.
Wu Yuhua told Mo Dafeng that she usually has the habit of painting, and the other party directly proposed to see it.
It was just a hobby cultivation, and if she could get the guidance of a master, she would definitely not be able to ask for it.
A few days later, Mo Dafeng really contacted Wu Yuhua to see her paintings.
Through a few changes made by Mo Dafeng, the originally sluggish and soulless work instantly became transparent and exquisite.
Before leaving, he said to Wu Yuhua: "I am very optimistic about you, and you can ask me any questions about creation."
Since then, Wu Yuhua has taken pictures for Mo Dafeng to show every painting he has completed.
The paintings placed in the living room are all Wu Yuhua's most proud, and this is all done by her and Mo Dafeng.
As the intersection of the two became more and more, Wu Yuhua realized that he was not an ordinary friend to Mo Dafeng.
But she didn't know what the other party thought, and when she wanted to confess, she was afraid that the other party would refuse, and in the end she couldn't even do it.
Just when she hesitated, Mo Dafeng took the lead in confessing his good feelings to her.
While happy, Wu Yuhua did not dare to agree, she was afraid that the other party would choose Dink like her ex-husband.
With a straightforward personality, she asked Mo Dafeng straight to the point: "Do you like children?" Want to have children after marriage? ”。
It is said that the artist is more maverick, and she is really afraid of hearing the answer that she does not like children.
Unexpectedly, Mo Dafeng not only said that he liked children, but also hoped that the experience could be made into a "good".
In this way, Wu Yuhua married Mo Dafeng, who had known each other for a short time.
After marriage, she gave birth to a son and a daughter as she wished.
After having children, she almost stopped filming and devoted herself to taking care of the children.
Her son loves music, she supports it unconditionally, finds the best teacher for him, and the musical instruments are imported from abroad.
After the birth of her daughter, she was even busier, first sending her son to school, and then taking her daughter to an interest class to learn dance.
Although the family invited an aunt, the family's meals were prepared by Wu Yuhua, and she enjoyed it very much while she was busy.
The husband spends more time at work, but the couple agreed to travel as a family twice a year.
They are especially consistent in educating their children, who never regard good economic conditions as a capital to show off, and never lazy in their studies.
After the children were older, Wu Yuhua chose to do behind-the-scenes work, and what he did flourished.
Today, Wu Yuhua is 64 years old, surrounded by a wife who loves him, and a pair of children to take care of.
This is the life she yearns for, not seeking glory and wealth, but only hoping that the family will be happy.
After divorcing Wu Yuhua, Wang Jun directed many film and television dramas.
In 2009, the family drama "Four Generations Together" directed by him attracted much attention, making him the most potential director.
The "Little Parting" and "Little Huanxi" series he cooperated with Huang Lei are touching and reflect the pressure of students to study, which resonates with society.
In 2016, the palace fighting drama "Ruyi's Legend" directed by him won the first place in the ratings.
Wang Jun has also become a national first-class director, and many big-budget films want to cooperate with him.
It's just that there is still no progress in his love life.
Wang Jun is 4 years younger than Wu Yuhua, and now he has entered the age of flower armor.
I wonder if he will envy his friends who have children under his knees when he celebrates the New Year's holiday?
summary
Every day of life is to do multiple choice questions, and choice is the norm in life.
When you are young, because you are not deeply involved in the world, you always live in the present when you choose, so that the impact on the future will be more far-reaching.
Therefore, listening to others when faced with choices is not necessarily a bad thing.
Although Wang Jun has a successful career now, no one shares the joy in his heart, is it not a pity?
Although Wu Yuhua was forgotten by many people, he lived a happy life with his children in his later years.
Of course, perhaps Wang Jun does not regret Dink's choice.
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