Xu Guiying first entered the showbiz romantic love
In 1989, Xu Guiying, who was only 22 years old, was slowly emerging in the film and television industry, and with her beautiful appearance and excellent acting skills, she began to become a promising new star of popular students.
During the filming of the costume drama "Heavenly Desolation", Xu Guiying met the male protagonist - Liu Dekai, who was already famous at that time.
The first meeting between the two was not pleasant, and Liu Dekai's first impression of her was cynical and arrogant. However, in the later relationship, Liu Dekai gradually showed his gentle, careful, and personable side.
Xu Guiying was also gradually attracted by his talent and charm. The rest of the crew said that they were a match made in heaven, but unfortunately Liu Dekai was married, and his wife Wang Jingping had three sons for him.
Even though she knows that the ending may be sad, in the face of the sweet temptation of love, 22-year-old Xu Guiying still can't help herself. The days of secretly falling in love with 30-year-old Liu Dekai became her happiest time at that time.
Even if Wang Jingping learned the truth and made a big fuss in the end, Liu Dekai only politely proposed to break up, carefully comforting the injured Xu Guiying, and letting her wait for the next meeting with a glimmer of hope.
The rich man Huang Ren lost and regained
If Liu Dekai brought 22-year-old Xu Guiying the secret feelings of youth, then what Huang Renzhong gave her was a double promotion of money and status.
In 1990, Xu Guiying and Liu Dekai broke up and were at a low point and confused period in their lives. At this time, Huang Renzhong, who was once known as the head of the "Four Princes on the Island", took the initiative to send her a marriage proposal.
Huang Renzhong has a prominent family background, and at the age of 20, he received a doctorate in mathematics from a top university in the United States. Based on his background in political and business circles, he soon made his fortune in Taiwan and was known as the "God of Investment", with a net worth of more than 10 billion Taiwan dollars.
Such a golden talent has a deep love for Xu Guiying, which is undoubtedly a leap in her career. Out of practical considerations, 30-year-old Xu Guiying chose to marry Huang Renzhong, who was 15 years older than her, and became his fourth wife.
After marriage, she lived a luxurious life without worrying about food and clothing, with a full-time housekeeper to serve her, and became the leading rich wife in Taiwan.
However, this fairy couple-like marriage is also full of jealousy and suspicion. Huang Renzhong's reputation as a playboy is not groundless, and the private life of his many female companions has always been a boulder in Xu Guiying's heart.
After all, she filed for divorce 5 years later.
The new love Chen Baolian intervenes in the moral bottom line
The married life of Huang Renzhong and Xu Guiying ushered in an uninvited guest in 1991.
That year, Huang Renzhong raised a little star named Chen Baolian. Chen Baolian was born in a poor family, and was promoted into the showbiz by her mother at the age of 18. In order to pay off her debts, she had to shoot a lot of erotic movies.
It was during the most decadent period of her life that Huang Renzhong, known as the "Playboy of Treasure Island", appeared and became her father.
At first, Xu Guiying did not object to her husband finding a new love. According to her thoughts, as long as those women don't appear in front of her, she can turn a blind eye. However, the good times did not last long, Chen Baolian did not know the height of the sky, called the hostess in the Yellow Mansion, openly and secretly looked for Xu Guiying's ballast, and even had physical conflicts with the housekeeper Xiao Pan Pan many times.
Such a rampant move finally angered Xu Guiying, who felt that her marriage bottom line and dignity had been trampled on. Although Huang Renzhong later alienated Chen Baolian, Xu Guiying's trust and patience in this marriage have been seriously damaged.
In 1996, she decisively filed for divorce and officially broke up with Huang Renzhong.
Career and love are both harvested
If Huang Renzhong gave Xu Guiying a wealthy mansion-style marriage, then after divorcing him in 1996, Xu Guiying reaped a double harvest in her career.
The data shows that from the divorce in 1996 to 2013, Xu Guiying has participated in more than 20 film and television works, many of which are ratings champions. She successfully transformed, from a single costume drama Hua Dan to a powerful actor who is good at interpreting various characters.
In family dramas such as "Come on Mom" and "Happy Mom", she brilliantly interpreted a number of hateful and vicious mother-in-law images. It was also these works that she participated in after the divorce, and she was nominated for the Feitian Award for Best Supporting Actress for the first time.
Synchronized with the development of her career, there is also Xu Guiying's second peak on the emotional road. In 1998, during the collaboration with idol actor Qin Han in "Because I Love You", 46-year-old Xu Guiying fell in love again.
Public opinion once rumored that they would enter the palace of marriage. However, the good times did not last long, and this sister-brother relationship ended after less than a year. Although the result was not satisfactory, this still became the most unforgettable sincere love affair in Xu Guiying's life.
Today, 62-year-old Xu Guiying is in a semi-retired state. Looking back on the ups and downs of her acting career, she has not only won the success of her career and the recognition of the audience, but also several destined difficult but unforgettable emotional experiences, which have enriched the thickness of her acting career and life.
Previous Career: This Life
For Xu Guiying, Huang Renzhong is not only her second ex-husband, but also an inseparable fate in her life.
In 2004, Xu Guiying's wealthy ex-husband died of illness. On his deathbed, he was involved in a multi-billion dollar tax evasion case and had to spend his last days in prison.
This is in stark contrast to the extravagant life of a playboy during his lifetime. The only one who always accompanies him is not Xu Guiying, but his henchman housekeeper - Xiao Panpan.
Huang Renzhong's other new love, Chen Baolian, also chose a tragic direction in 2002. After giving birth to a baby in Shanghai, she wrote in her suicide note due to depression that "Pauline has always loved him when he is dying, and no one is allowed to slander him", and then committed suicide by jumping off a building.
To this day, 62-year-old Xu Guiying recalls these two important men with mixed feelings. Huang Renzhong, who was once extravagant, was finally sent to the end by Xiao Panpan, a woman who had never made her relationship public; And Chen Baolian, the rival in love who once broke into her marriage, has also passed away with love and hate for many years.
The years cannot be reversed, and Xu Guiying's several emotional experiences have finally become the past of her life.
6. Life Experiences Enlighten Lessons
Looking back at Xu Guiying's life, it is not difficult for us to find that her emotional world is magnificent, but there are also ups and downs, and the harvest is limited after all.
Liu Dekai, his first love who started at the age of 22, was sweet in his youth, but he ended in a breakup; Huang Renzhong, a wealthy man who married at the age of 30, lived a luxurious life but tortured her; Middle-aged and idol Qin Han fell in love, and in the end it can only become a good memory...... In every relationship, throughout her life, Xu Guiying has given her sincerity, but she has also experienced the pain.
In life, the gains and losses of feelings are such two sides. Perhaps it is the accumulation of these encounters that has made Xu Guiying, who is now 62 years old, able to make achievements in her career, see more in life, and have a more transparent understanding of human nature.
Her experience also makes us understand that giving sincerity and having no regrets is the most worthwhile attitude towards life in the face of feelings.