There is such an actress, who is obviously the most qualified to be a sister, but she never poses like a big sister.
Wang Lin, as the oldest of this Sister Lang, not only has no predecessors, but also dismantles herself throughout the whole process and makes fun of herself.
I inquired
I'm the oldest
Not a "grandma who rides the waves"
is also a "big aunt who rides the wind and waves".
Don't be jealous of pink and delicate, and don't care how old you are.
After watching the junior performance, she turned into a fan girl with stars in her eyes on the spot, and said that she asked others to bring her to play.
Dare to love you, in private, it's not Aunt Xue, but Xue...... Snow Treasure?
This contrast became the reason why I locked "Sister Lang" as soon as it was broadcast.
From Wang Xueqin to Ye Chuanping, Wang Lin has always played the mean and evil mother of the unified road, which causes people to think of scheming and scheming when they see this face.
But Wang Lin herself is obviously not in this way.
When you see a junior running towards you, you will respond with a warmer hug than the other person.
When the other sisters cheered for her, she subconsciously covered her heart, with a kind of "praise shame" in the workplace.
Compared with the "sister" who controls the situation, it is easier to find a "sister" personality in her.
And when it comes to this dissonance, it may have something to do with her experience.
In Wang Lin's upbringing, there was an aunt who played an important role.
My aunt is a petty bourgeoisie, she pays attention to food and clothing, and she also pays attention to education.
In her, Wang Lin saw that some people would deliberately change into high heels and bring a small gold watch for a meal.
When she was in elementary school, her aunt also taught her English and dance.
This kind of starting line, which far surpasses her peers, has given Wang Lin more confidence to face life since she was a child.
She said that there were foreign guests visiting the school at that time, and she was mostly the one who received her.
Superiority is often used as a derogatory term, but in other contexts, it can also promote progress and strength.
Because I know that I deserve a better life, it is difficult to accept that I am going downhill.
In high school, she wanted to become an actor because of vanity, so she did it when she thought of it, and immediately applied for the play.
When I was in college, because I wanted to continue to improve my major, I studied hard, and after winning a scholarship, I was sent to the former Soviet Union to study acting.
During this period, her life was like an upward kite string, straight and without any stagnation.
The good fortune continued until her return.
Not long after returning to school, she encountered the casting of "Love in the Pearl River".
coincided with the fact that the original pending actor Shi Ke was going to make a cameo appearance in "Beijingers in New York", and the schedule collided.
In this way, she had not graduated from college at the time, and successfully starred in this epochal TV series.
At that time, she was only 23 years old.
Wang Lin in "Love in the Pearl River".
Young people who have aspirations are often more confident in the outside world.
Regardless of whether it was in the years when Weibo was rising, scolding Internet trolls, or now in variety shows, Wang Lin is quite herself.
In those years, she would often forward the trolls and reprimand them mercilessly
But confidence is also a double-edged sword.
On the one hand, it does allow her to be herself as she pleases, but on the other hand, because that "self" is too unguarded, it often attracts a lot of misunderstandings and public opinion.
The most representative incident in her is probably the undecided attitude in the face of the male guest's confession in that love drama three years ago.
Facing the designer, she first said that she was attracted by the other party's eyes.
After taking a big sip of wine, he changed his mind and said, let's finish.
So in the eyes of some spectators, this has become evidence that she is "tea" and not consistent enough.
However, I feel that being able to show truth in front of the camera is precisely her self-consistency.
If you know enough about her entire dating experience, you will find that Fang Lei is really not suitable to be her lover.
It can't be denied that she had a good impression of the other party in the early days, after all, the conditions and attitudes of others are okay.
Her change of mind came after watching a private speech.
Fang Lei was originally introducing the business in a flat manner, but after discovering that Wang Lin arrived, his painting style changed abruptly, turning the scene into a large-scale self-recommendation show.
Wang Lin keenly felt the discomfort at this moment.
As a person who has made a lot of achievements in his own industry, he emphasized that he is looking for so-called "cross-border" opportunities throughout the whole process.
So is he his ideal lover, or a springboard for cross-border?
Wang Lin only said the possibility, but still chose to cut it all off.
But with a little social experience, you can see that her words are not only difficult to verify, but she is handing knives to others.
As smart as Wang Lin, she won't not understand.
However, she didn't intend to fool herself because of this.
When the two finally had a chance to sit down again, she cautiously asked her doubts.
Do you usually shoot a lot?
Is it because of your handsomeness?
Next, she is also constantly testing her suspicions.
When she went to visit Fang Lei's company, she seized the opportunity to ask his driver, colleagues, and subordinates from the moment she got into the car.
She also sensed the other party's impatience:
After just a few dates, he was able to tell the world in the circle of friends how much he loved Wang Lin.
This way of expression, either too naïve, with a dangerous excess of passion.
Or it's too old and spicy, hiding an unpredictable ambition and purpose.
To say that Wang Lin is emotionally unstable just ignores her prudence and thinking power under her words and deeds.
There are doubts because she is calmer and will scrutinize the truth behind the enthusiasm.
There are repetitions, because she is also enthusiastic and will be nostalgic for the beauty and romance of the moment.
In today's society, it is rare to find people who can retain both cold and hot perceptions at the same time.
The disadvantage of the so-called "inconsistency" has always been that a person has hurt others because of inconsistent words and deeds.
But looking at Wang Lin, she is obviously responsible for herself and the other party.
The little girl is just her appearance, and what is behind it is her mature thinking logic.
An adult wrapped in innocence knows how to be good to himself.
If it is a kind of timely satisfaction that she immediately did what she thought of when she was young, then after she became an actor for many years, she put this "good" in managing her own life.
Friends commented on her, shut up Shanghai women, and open up Northeast women.
To put it more colloquially, I am very particular about my daily food and clothing, but I am as bold as a Northeast person.
During the filming of "Deep Love and Rain", the setting of the warlord's wife required her to hold it at all times.
But as long as she played, she took off the wind and discipline buckle first when she was too hot. I was happy to play cards, and I didn't care that I was still wearing a cheongsam, and one foot was already on the bench.
This kind of character of never holding back herself is reflected in many of her interviews.
It is not difficult to find that in many interviews, she is straightforward, and sometimes even ambiguous.
Once I interviewed Kou Zhenhai, who played the "master", the host asked about the opportunity for Kou and his wife in life to meet, and asked if Wang Lin was present.
Result: Wang Lin:
I'm not there
I'm still with her
Or her old acquaintances evaluated her accurately, and there was nothing she didn't dare to say.
And the other side of this kind of courage to be extremely honest is also to hand over the weakness to the outside world in disguise.
Behind this kind of allowing oneself to be emotionally unstable, it is also another kind of pampering for oneself.
Back to Fang Lei and her love show.
During the date, she interrupted the recording several times due to emotional breakdowns.
But this kind of collapse is not angry with anyone or playing tricks, but more of a true feeling.
In the face of Fang Lei's continuous confession, there was a contradiction between her impulsiveness and reason, and her collapse was not because of vulnerability, but because she was afraid of losing herself.
She held on to such a fleeting moment.
The next processing is even more impressive:
When she calmed down, she took off her headphones and had a thorough, heart-to-heart conversation with the other party.
In fact, she didn't have to do this to treat a person who didn't have deep contact.
But she still chose this seemingly uncost-effective "shortcut".
The shortcut was for herself.
After venting, she had the opportunity to meet a more three-dimensional Fang Lei, and she could also face the next date with a more relaxed attitude.
She is such a person who seems to be heavy, but in fact can travel lightly at any time.
Just look at how many things she has done that seem slightly contradictory to outsiders.
said that his career was the most important, and within two years of filming "Love in the Pearl River", he put down his work and went to get married.
said that he would come back to film after giving birth, and then took the initiative to retire for two years.
finally made up his mind to go out to film, and cried all the way because he was reluctant to let the child go.
And this kind of freewheeling planning naturally can't achieve more top-notch careers.
But Wang Lin is actually very sober in the general direction of life.
When talking about how to clean up her mess, she is always self-consistent:
She has been through two marriages.
For the first paragraph, she only sighed that she didn't have time to enjoy love, so she was unwilling.
For the second paragraph, she thanked herself for having a son, which was the best gift.
As for her career, by the time she officially makes a comeback, she will already be 30+.
This is an age that is not friendly to actresses, and it was not her wish to take on the role of Aunt Xue at that time.
But she still adjusted her state and won the role.
not only digests his stereotype of "bad woman" very well, but also makes a distinction between "bad" when he plays similar roles in the later stage, and takes the audience to feel the richness of human nature.
She claims that she wants to rest when she is tired, and wants to film again when she is idle, a character who is happy with what happens.
So in the eyes of outsiders, her predicament will no longer be a hurdle that she really needs to overcome.
"Sister feeling" is actually an image without standards.
Her strength does not need to be supported by personality and style.