In the greenhouse of love, emotions are those flowers that bloom, beautiful and fragile.
The two souls slowly merge in a warm sunshine and become intimate.
However, in this poetic love song, there are always some seemingly ordinary touches, but in fact they are invisible taboos between lovers, once easily touched, they may cause inexplicable waves, and even shake those warm flowers.
Understanding and respecting each other's boundaries is the foundation for the long-term coexistence of love.
First of all, the taboo that cannot be touched is the other party's past.
Everyone's past is a thick book, with chapters shining with light and pages glowing with melancholy.
Uncovering the scar before it heals will only cause pain.
While it is important for couples to be transparent and honest with each other, it is also important to learn to be respectful and tolerant.
Excessive questioning and probing into the other person's past relationship may inadvertently tear apart the wound in the other person's heart.
You know, love is not about taking possession of a flawless person, but about accepting someone who has a real past.
The beauty of love comes from the co-creation of the present and the future, rather than the chain excavation of the past.
The second is disrespect for personal space.
In the ocean of love, pairs of fish are always inseparable.
However, everyone needs their own sea area in order to maintain themselves and settle emotions.
If you don't give each other enough personal time and space, but stick to each other all the time, this kind of excessive dependence and entanglement will make each other feel suffocated.
Everyone has the right to have friends, hobbies and dreams. Giving each other independent space is not only a kind of trust and respect, but also a kind of intelligent love.
The relationship is not more and more sticky, but in the right distance, appreciate the beauty of the balance of two hearts.
Not only personal space, but also in common life, there are areas that should not be easily touched.
There is always a hidden boundary to each other's family and friends.
Sometimes casual evaluation or criticism may unconsciously violate the other party's emotional bottom line.
Everyone has a heart to protect others, especially family and friends.
Respecting each other's family and friendship is also a part of maintaining harmony in an emotional relationship. Mutual respect and prudence can make both parties feel at ease.
Another very important taboo is the transparency of private life.
In today's highly popular smart devices, call logs, text messages, social accounts... These personal privacy has become a tool for some couples to monitor each other.
There's nothing wrong with being transparent, but excessive surveillance can be suffocating.
In the world of love, trust is more powerful than surveillance. Love is free and should also give the other person the right to privacy.
In the world of emotions, it is not only the words and behaviors that cross the line, but also the tendencies and attitudes in the heart.
Excessive dependence, possessiveness, or a suffocating desire for control are all poisons in love.
These harmful psychology is like an invisible knife that cuts the hearts of two people who should be connected.
Love is not possession, it is not attachment, it is an equal accompaniment, it is mutual promotion.
Letting go of each other and letting love breathe freely on the foundation of trust is the best way to maintain a relationship.
In the same way, sometimes money and material things can become a hidden minefield between a couple of lovers.
Even though money plays an extremely important role in real life, it is inevitable that a reasonable balance is required in the exchange of emotions.
When material things and money become the yardstick by which romantic relationships are evaluated, or when they become tools for controversy and ostentation, it is pure blasphemy of emotions.
The relationship between lovers should not be a transaction, but an invisible spiritual support and sincere companionship.
Reducing the influence of money in love is an important principle for maintaining relationships.
Epilogue:
Every taboo between couples is a forbidden place in the heart, which needs to be guarded by you and me.
Taboo is not a shadow shrouded in love, but a small beacon in the long stream, reminding people who love each other how to love with respect and reason.
Because true love is not about pushing boundaries, but about respecting each other's boundaries in each other's world, and carefully planting the seeds of trust and tolerance.
Only by being kind to each other's hearts and guarding those untouchable forbidden areas can the tree of love thrive and bloom the most touching flowers.