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My name is Zhang Dachuan, I am 38 years old, and I am a project manager of a foreign-funded company. I was born into an ordinary family, and my parents were ordinary workers. Although the conditions are average, my parents love me and my sister very much and try their best to provide us with the best possible life.
I was very smart and lively since I was a child, and my grades were at the top of my grades. After graduating from junior high school, I was admitted to a provincial key high school, and I was admitted to a well-known university majoring in computer science in the college entrance examination. During my college years, I joined clubs and made a lot of friends. After graduating, I successfully landed a job as a programmer, and later worked my way up to become a project manager.
When I was 25 years old, I met Li Xiaomei through a blind date. Li Xiaomei is a local secondary school teacher, with a mediocre appearance and a steady and introverted personality. At first, I was not optimistic about this marriage, thinking that Li Xiaomei was too unpretentious. However, after a few dates, I found out that Li Xiaomei is a very virtuous girl. She is gentle and considerate, and she is very attentive to me, always taking care of my daily life. I was gradually moved by her, and just like that, we entered the palace of marriage.
After getting married, Li Xiaomei resigned from her job as a teacher to concentrate on her husband and children. She put all her heart into taking care of the family, getting up early every day to do housework and often preparing delicious meals for me. In the first year or two, I was also very touched and felt that I had found a soul in life. Gradually, however, I began to get bored. Li Xiaomei's life is too ordinary, and she has almost no other entertainment activities other than her home. In the evening, I offered to go to the movies or travel, but she refused on the grounds that it was too hard. She also doesn't like to wear makeup and dress up, she always looks light.
"Xiaomei, can't you dress up and dress yourself? I see that the clothes you wear every day are about to wear out of holes. "At one point, I couldn't help but say to her.
"I'm a housewife, who is it right to dress up?" Li Xiaomei said with a smile.
"Yes, don't you dress up for me, do you want to show your neighbors?" I'm a little annoyed.
"Okay, okay, I was wrong. I'm going to buy some new clothes tomorrow. Li Xiaomei hurriedly coaxed me.
However, I know that her personality is hard to change. She said that buying new clothes was just to meet my request.
I began to feel that with Li Xiaomei, my life was monotonous and boring. I crave more passion and excitement. Once, after a company party, I went to a bar with a few friends. Inside, the lights are bright and lively. I was stunned to see a beautiful girl with a hot body and bright makeup dancing on the dance floor.
"I want to know that
That day, I plucked up the courage to walk up to the girl on the dance floor and took the initiative to accost, "Beauty, can I invite you to dance?"
The girl looked me up and down, then nodded with a smile and said, "Yes, handsome man!"
We danced to the rhythm of the music. I found that this girl was not only beautiful, but also danced very well, and her body was soft and charming. After dancing a fast-paced dance song, a slow song played. I put my arms around her waist and swirled slowly with her. "My name is Ali, what about you?" She leaned into my ear and asked. "My name is Zhang Dachuan. "I'm blushing a little.
"Zhang Dachuan, you dance so well, you look like a person who often comes to this kind of place. Unlike my husband, he won't jump when I pull him in. Ali said as she circled.
"You're married?" I was a little surprised.
"Well, but we don't get along, and my husband knows about work all day long and never takes me out to play. Ali pouted.
I thought to myself, Ali's story is similar to mine, we both have boring partners. "Me too, my wife only knows to stay at home, and she doesn't want to let her out to play. I told Ali about my troubles.
"Well, it seems that the problems we have are very similar. Ali looked at me with a smile.
After the dance, I invited Ali to the bar for a few drinks and we had a great chat. She said that she likes to watch movies, listen to music, go shopping, and Li Xiaomei is not interested in all kinds of activities that I dream of. I am even more convinced that Ali is the goddess of my dreams.
"Here you go, here's my contact information. I can come out and play when I have time. As I was leaving, Ali shoved a note into my palm. I was so excited that I quickly typed in her phone number.
When I got home, it was past two o'clock in the morning. Li Xiaomei had already fallen asleep. I lay in bed, tossing and turning, unable to sleep, and my mind was full of Ali's figure. I began to feel that Li Xiaomei and I really didn't have compatible personalities, so it was better to break up.
Li Xiaomei looked at me in shock: "Dachuan, are you kidding? We have only been married for a few years, why did you suddenly say that you want to divorce?"
"I'm serious. I said firmly, "It's not interesting for us to be together, our personalities are incompatible, and divorce is good for everyone." ”
"Okawa, how can you do this? I have paid so much, and you abandon me like this?" Li Xiaomei cried with red eyes.
"Xiaomei, don't be like this, you can start over after the divorce and live your own life. I persuaded.
"I don't want to start over! Li Xiaomei cried even more sadly, "Dachuan, is there another woman in the company? You tell me the truth!"
I was silent, not knowing how to answer.
"I knew it!" Li Xiaomei's eyes were red, "Da Chuan, how can you do this to me? I have paid for so many years, and you abandoned me for a woman who has only known me for a few days!"
"Xiaomei, I really don't think we're suitable, you can't change me, we're only going to get more and more unhappy. "I tried to persuade Li Xiaomei.
"No, I'm going to change! Will you give me a chance?" Li Xiaomei hugged me and cried bitterly, "Dachuan, I beg you, don't leave me!"
Seeing Li Xiaomei so sad, I was also sad. After all, we've been together for so many years, and I can't bear to leave her like this. But when I think of Ali, I feel that I have to be decisive.
"Xiaomei, a decision is a decision, let's divorce. I hardened my heart.
"You bad guy! I love you so much, but you do this to me!" Li Xiaomei slapped me angrily, then hugged her head and cried.
I know she's sad right now, but I'm sure time will heal everything. "Xiaomei, calm down. I will take care of your life and you will come out slowly. ”
"I don't need your care! Li Xiaomei threw out all my clothes.
Seeing her like this, I was also angry: "Xiaomei, I have already decided, if you do this again, I will go directly to the court to sue for divorce!"
I went to the restaurant I agreed with Ali, and she was wearing a red dress, charming and charming. "Okawa, you've finally dumped that boring wife! Ali smiled and hugged me.
I was also excited: "Yes, I'm finally free!
Ali clinked her glass to mine: "Here, let's toast!
I was overjoyed and felt that this decision was too correct. Ali is like a dazzling sunshine that illuminates my monotonous life.
After dinner, Ali offered to invite me to her house for a sitting. I was so excited that I followed her to her apartment. Her home is tasteful, with stylish decorative paintings on the walls and branded furniture. "Welcome to my little world!" Ali poured me a glass of wine, then turned on the music and pulled me into the living room to dance.
We jumped and danced, and we kissed together. I hugged Ali's soft body, and my heart was so excited. At this moment, I felt like I was in heaven.
"Okawa, I love you so much!" After a kiss, Ali looked me in the eye and said.
"I love you the most!" I said excitedly.
"Would you like to marry me, then?" Ali suddenly said this.
I was stunned: "This ...... It seems like it's too early to get married, right?"
"What's too early not to be too early, aren't we in love with each other?" Alisa got up coquettishly, "Okawa, I've been waiting for this day for so long, and now I can finally be with you, I'm so happy!"
Looking at Ali's expectant eyes, I nodded like this: "Okay, then let's get married!"
Ali was so happy that she immediately informed her best friend and started preparing for the wedding. I also informed my family and friends. Everyone was surprised that I was suddenly getting married again after my divorce, but I firmly told them that Ali was the love of my life.
And just like that, Ali and I got married in lightning. At the wedding, when Ali walked up to me with everyone's blessings, I still felt a little unreal. I'm starting to regret making this hasty decision. However, seeing her sweet smile, I told myself that it would be nice to live with Ali.
After I got married, I found that Ali's lifestyle was very different from what I had imagined. She pays great attention to wearing and makeup, and the number of designer socks and bags at home is not clear. She also often dragged me to high-end restaurants to eat and buy the most expensive menus. "Dachuan, you are my husband now, you have to support me!" She said with a smile.
My salary simply couldn't meet her spending needs, and I was under a lot of pressure when I got married. "Ali, can you save some money, we just got married and we owe so much money, and I'm under a lot of pressure. I said cautiously.
"Okawa, what are you talking about? I'm your bride, how can you do this to me?" Ali said dissatisfied.
"I didn't mean that...... It's just that if we want to live, we must have a degree, right?" I explained.
"I don't want to live a frugal life! Either you make more money to support me, or you give me a good life!" Ali said impatiently.
I had a headache and felt that I had been too superficial in my first place. Ali is far from the gentle goddess I imagined.
One day, at a company party, I drank too much, and Ali called me to urge me to go home.
"Hey, Ali, I'm at a company party, don't rush me. "I'm a little impatient.
"What? You still dare to push back? Believe it or not, I'll go straight to you
"Believe it or not, I'm going straight to your boss to sue you?" Ali was angry.
"Okay, okay, I'll be back. I hung up the phone and hurried home from the party.
"Okawa, let me tell you, you can't just go out and play without my consent in the future! As soon as she entered the door, Ali began to preach.
"Okay, okay, I know it's wrong. "I can only coax her.
"Then won't you dare in the future?" Ali asked.
"Don't dare, don't dare. I replied like a child who had done something wrong.
Ali became increasingly unreasonable and often vexatious. She asked me to go home early to spend time with her, not to work overtime at night, and not to go out with friends on weekends. I felt very depressed and began to regret my decision to marry her.
One day, the company had a temporary project that required overtime. I sent a message to Ali saying that the company had an urgent matter and had to work overtime at night, so I asked her to go to bed early. Ali soon called, and her tone was very bad: "Dachuan, you have to work overtime again?" I tell you, you have to come back early!"
"Ali, this is a temporary need of the company, and I can't help it. I explained.
"I don't care so much, the company's affairs will be solved by the company! Ali was excited.
"Ali, calm down. It's my job, you can't control me. "I'm a little annoyed too.
"Dachuan, are you looking for a beating? Ali hung up the phone directly.
I was so angry that I decided to work overtime and take care of her. As a result, when I came home in the evening, Ali threw all my clothes out and kicked me out of the house.
"Okawa, get out of here! Don't come back!" Ali slammed the door and left.
After dealing with the divorce formalities, I went to my hometown alone. Passing by the middle school where Li Xiaomei used to work, I saw a familiar figure. When I looked closely, it was actually Li Xiaomei!
"Xiaomei, it's really you!" I screamed in surprise.
"Okawa, why are you here?" Li Xiaomei was obviously surprised.
"I went back to my hometown to visit my parents. I didn't expect to meet you here!" I say.
Li Xiaomei nodded, looking a little embarrassed.
"Xiaomei, I heard that you remarried?" I asked tentatively.
"Well, I'm dealing with a local teacher. Li Xiaomei said.
"That's good, I wish you happiness. "I'm a little lonely.
"Okawa, I heard that you married that dancing girl and later divorced?" Li Xiaomei asked me tentatively.
I nodded, a little embarrassed.
"When we got divorced, I was really sad. Li Xiaomei said, "However, I have gradually come out." My current husband is very good to me and lives happily. ”
"That's good. I forced a smile.
"Okawa, you were going to divorce in the first place. I beg you to stay, but you are determined to leave. Li Xiaomei said.
"Xiaomei, I'm sorry, I was wrong at the beginning. I couldn't help but apologize, "I shouldn't have left you just because of a moment of novelty." Now I've paid a terrible price. ”
"Forget it, Okawa, let it pass. Li Xiaomei said.
"Xiaomei, how have you been doing all these years? I asked with concern.
"I'm doing well, my new husband is very good to me. Li Xiaomei said, "What about you? I heard that you divorced that dancer?"
"Well, our personalities are too inappropriate, and our emotional foundation is not strong, so we can only divorce in the end. I sighed.
"I advised you to think twice. You have to believe in the so-called love at first sight. Li Xiaomei said.
"Xiaomei, now I have painfully understood that superficial passion is not as valuable as true love. I said helplessly, "I only realize what you paid back then." I really regret it. ”
"Okawa, people always have to go through some setbacks before they can grow. Li Xiaomei comforted me.
"Xiaomei, it should be very hard for you to live alone all these years, right?" I blamed myself and said, "It's all my fault, I shouldn't have left you in the first place." ”
"Okawa, I'm relieved. Li Xiaomei said, "The important thing is that you have also figured it out, and that's enough." ”
"Xiaomei, can you give me a chance to start over?" I plucked up the courage and said, "I swear I'll treat you well this time, and I'll hurt you for the rest of my life!"
Li Xiaomei shook her head lightly: "Dachuan, the past is over, we all have a new life, and we shouldn't look back." ”
"Xiaomei, I know it's hard for you to believe in me, but I will really change myself and give you happiness again!" I pleaded.
Li Xiaomei looked at me and whispered, "Dachuan, I can feel your sincerity. However, now that I am someone else's wife, you have to let go of the past and start over. ”
"Xiaomei, I beg you to give me another chance!" I don't give up.
Li Xiaomei was silent for a while, and then said, "Dachuan, I still need time to think about this matter. However, as long as you are sincere in reforming yourself, I will consider it. ”
My eyes lit up,