You can't give him the life he wants, he will hate why you gave birth to him, you feel guilty for not giving him a good life, he hates you for giving birth to him because of your bad conditions.
I don't even have two days off, and I'm still busy with work in the thirties of the Chinese New Year's Eve, so I don't have time to have children.
The cost of raising a child is prohibitive!
If you study in college, you will have at least 10,000 or 20,000 yuan a year, and your salary of less than 3,000 a month will be said to be low-handed. The investment is not proportional to the return.
Not to mention that the desire to have children is low, I even have a low desire to survive.
It's hard to take care of the children after work.
Today's girls are more sober, and they think that "what I am pregnant with is either someone who discriminates against and oppresses me, or someone who has the same fate as me", so they choose to have fewer children or even no children.
Some girls are unhappy in their original families, they don't want to marry someone like my father, they don't want to be like my mother, they don't want my children to follow my old path. Everyone wants to be happy, but everyone has their own last resort.
Reproduction is the instinct of living beings, and if an organism does not reproduce, it can only be that the surrounding environment is not suitable for survival. There are many reasons why young people do not have children today, such as high work pressure, low income, overpopulation, lack of employment opportunities, and high costs of medical care, childcare, housing, and insufficient social security.
I am grateful to my parents for raising me, but I don't want my children to live like me in the future. People who don't have children easily are responsible people. Do as much as you can, and don't force yourself.
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