Share a revelation. It is often said that "brothers settle accounts", but conflicts and disputes within the family are often the most difficult.
However, when we understand and respect each other and face family problems with a tolerant attitude, we may be able to find solutions.
My name is Wang Xiaoming, a child from an ordinary family. Grandma or grandma?
Every Chinese New Year, I will go to two homes separately and enjoy different care and love.
I began to reflect on myself. Perhaps, the kindness shown to me by the elders is not entirely due to me, but also to the emotional entanglement of the family in which they live.
This accident has made me more aware of the intricacies of family. The relationships in the family are so delicate that the emotions between each other are passed down from generation to generation, forming an intricate network of emotions.
As a junior, I only need to treat each elder with my heart, and their love for me will naturally occupy a special place in my heart.
Perhaps, it is not only me that parents should reflect on, but also themselves. Don't let your child worry about the choice, but give more love to your child so that they don't have to make difficult choices about family choices.
At my family gatherings, I noticed more subtleties. Every time relatives are reunited, there are some topics, some topics that touch on the sore spots.
I overheard their conversation. The father said to the uncle, "How can you do this to my father? He is old and needs our love and attention."
The father thinks that the uncle is not taking good care of the grandfather, but the uncle insists that he has been trying his best. The whole family fell silent, and the atmosphere became a little awkward.
This scene made me more aware of the conflicts in the family, not only between me and my grandmother or grandmother, but also between my parents and even other relatives around me.
I thought, maybe that's family. Family is a warm haven, but also a place full of challenges and grinding. There will always be some seemingly insignificant but irreconcilable conflicts between family members.
My relationship with my parents also conflicted. I was deeply shocked that my parents mentioned the divorce in an argument.
I can't accept the news that they are getting a divorce. They have always been the strongest fortress in my heart, and now that they are separated, it makes me feel like the whole world has changed.
I could only suffer this pain in silence.
All of this made me feel uneasy. I don't know what to do, maybe I should find someone who understands me and talk to me, maybe I should be more rational about the problems between parents.
In the coming days, I will continue to observe and think about the problems that may arise in the family, and I will do my best to create a more harmonious family atmosphere.
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