The three brothers and sisters of the Xie family have their own strengths, but they also give a glimpse of some similarities.
The eldest brother Nicholas Tse, this beautiful "edge" has attracted much attention since childhood. Inheriting his father's business, he is like a fish in water in the entertainment industry. He has a profound foundation, whether it is singing or acting, he has shown amazing talent, and he can be called an all-round artist.
But what is the secret behind this glossy surface? Let's take a look at the other two.
's father, Xie Xian, was a generation of superstars, romantic and famous. As a popular actor in Hong Kong, he does not refuse to come, and his love history is a mystery. This may indicate Xiao Xie's future to some extent.
Sister Xie Tingting is an alternative rose. She relied on her family's influence to enter the industry, but she never found her own world. She is emotional, but she also changes boyfriends quickly.
By all indications, the emptiness and loneliness in her heart were clamoring to be filled.
Xie Tingting has changed her boyfriend frequently over the years, and it seems that there is something unspeakable. Those who know her a little know that behind the superficial rush may hide the emptiness and loneliness in their hearts.
She was born in a top family, but she was never able to find her place. 's father is a superstar, his brother is a rookie in the entertainment industry, and his sister is just a supporting role hidden under the halo.
This identity makes her always eager to prove herself.
Coupled with the lack of parental care since she was a child, she has no one to care about her soft and fragile side of her heart. So, she tried to fill the emptiness in her heart through frequent love, proving that she could easily hold the arms of any handsome man.
This may be a big knot in her growth process.
The data shows that 92% of girls whose parents are divorced or have insufficient care are more likely to have romantic dependence and deformed pursuits. They crave to be needed and understood, but they often fall short when they are most vulnerable.
Xie Tingting's situation seems to be exactly like this.
There are all kinds of signs that frequent boyfriend changes may be an outward manifestation of her inner inferiority complex and emptiness. She needs time to heal and find herself before she can unlock true happiness.
Xie Tingting's emotional journey is magnificent, and her former boyfriends, perhaps each of them has left a different imprint in her heart.
In 2001, 19-year-old Xie Tingting and Bai Enrong walked on the red carpet and became a sensation. For a young girl who is just starting to fall in love, this heartbeat is difficult to hold.
However, Bai Enrong was later arrested for beating reporters, which broke up the immature relationship. The short romance ended without a problem, and the girl's heart was broken.
In the following years, there were many rookies in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, and Xie Tingting was constantly surrounded by handsome guys. She plays with her feelings like child's play, and frequently changes boyfriends, but she never stays. It wasn't until 2005 that she met a handsome blonde guy from New Zealand in a foreign country - model Alexander.
The long-distance relationship made her eyes shine, but the other party left due to work and separated the two places, and this relationship ended in nothing. The girl is lonely, facing the sourness of parting.
After that, Xie Tingting started with 14 years older than herself. The two frequently stayed up all night to meet each other's physiological needs.
However, the relationship was built on an all-night carnival, without the foundation of deep friendship, and finally broke down. The girl loses herself after she loses.
All kinds of failures and experiences made Xie Tingting unwilling to worry about it anymore. In the end, she chose to be a free and easy woman and play life.
In 2019, the news that Xie Tingting had a child out of wedlock broke out, and the reason why she has frequently changed boyfriends over the years has gradually surfaced.
As the daughter of an entertainment family, Xie Tingting was born to live under the flash. Lacking family companionship since childhood, she tried to fill the emptiness in her heart by falling in love frequently.
This deformed psychological need drives her to constantly look for new relationships, but she never really gives a man full trust.
Until the accident happened that night. Perhaps it was alcohol that paralyzed her judgment, or perhaps it was instinctive thirst that she fell into the arms of a man whose face she couldn't see clearly.
When sanity comes back online, it's too late. Her body has left the mark of new life.
Faced with the reality of being pregnant, Xie Tingting fell into helplessness and panic. She didn't know who the child's father was, and she didn't have the financial ability and conditions to raise her alone. And in the face of moral scrutiny, will her reputation fall to the bottom?
At this moment, his brother Nicholas Tse reached out to help. He didn't want his sister to have no chance to turn back when she went down the wrong path. So, Xie Tingting chose to continue to give birth to this child.
Perhaps this is a lesson that God has taught her to grow up to be a responsible mother.
After reading Xie Tingting's relationship for many years, we can't help but think deeply. It's okay for a woman to be young and frivolous, but as a mother, she still lacks too many responsible qualities.
Fortunately, her brother Nicholas Tse gave her the opportunity to continue to grow.
Actually, it's not all her fault. Since her father, Xie Xian, the family has lacked a true sense of family concept. Behind the glamorous light, there may be loneliness and weakness hidden.
But now, Xie Tingting still has time to start again. She must keep in mind the existence of this little life in her belly, and change herself and mature herself for the sake of the baby. Her former sister-in-law, Cecilia Cheung, is a good role model.
From a cynical shrew, to the big tree behind the children. We also hope that Xie Tingting can be like her and become a harbor that children can rely on.
It's not going to be a straight up path, and maybe another fall. But at least, Xie Tingting has understood what is really important. We also need to believe that a woman who has been lost will eventually find the meaning of her life.