Preface
Did she really give birth to a daughter out of wedlock? The daughter of the Xie family, one boyfriend after another from childhood to adulthood, finally became a mother at the age of 37
"I haven't seen my sister for more than a year, and I only found out that she gave birth to a daughter after watching the news. When Nicholas Tse said this in a media interview, everyone was stunned.
Is this the daughter of the famous Hong Kong artist Xie Xian - Xie Tingting?
For a while, the news of "Xie Tingting's unmarried daughter" exploded on the Internet like a bomb.
Everyone is talking about it, and they are all speculating about who the biological father of this illegitimate daughter is.
And the source of all this has to start with Xie Tingting's different growth experience from ordinary girls.
The imperfect childhood of the little princess: the contrast between dreams and reality is too great
Xie Tingting was born in 1983.
It is not an exaggeration to say that she is the darling of heaven.
If your father is the romantic Xie Xian, and your mother is the sweet and touching Deborah in the face of the national crisis, how lucky is this?
Princess-like worry-free food and clothing, star-like flower applause, respected identity and eye-catching sight, this is Xie Tingting's daily life from childhood to adulthood.
For her, it all takes for granted that she was born "as it should be".
This is the trajectory of her life that has been fixed in the dark.
When she was a child, Xie Tingting liked to watch those princess fairy tales the most.
Gorgeous castles, luxurious outfits, delicate elves, gentle princes...... It all seemed to be tailor-made for her.
In her beautiful fantasy, she will inevitably find her own Prince Charming, and then live happily ever after, never changing.
However, the reality is cruel after all.
When Xie Tingting was 13 years old, her fairy tale dream was shattered.
That year, she witnessed the whole process of her parents' fierce quarrel and finally towards a breakup.
The breakdown of her marriage was like an earthquake, which not only destroyed the fairytale kingdom in her heart, but more importantly, even her home was gone.
My mother parted ways with her and came to Canada in a foreign country to start a new life.
His father and brother stayed in Hong Kong.
It was from this moment that the little princess Xie Tingting understood that fairy tales do not exist forever, and nothing in this world will be "forever".
Since then, she has never had the simple happiness and happiness of her childhood, but has been replaced by a gradually worsening alienation and loneliness.
The mother soon started a new family, and Xie Tingting was not happy about this, but felt like an abandoned child.
She misses her father and brother very much, but they are far away in Hong Kong, and they are drifting away from her.
All these changes were too sudden for a naïve little girl to be at a loss.
Perhaps, this is the reason for the lack of security in her personality, she is inadvertently used to facing loss and separation at any time.
Hurt in the family: Her parents' and her brother's views on marriage have a profound impact on her
If before the age of 13 is Xie Tingting's happiest day, then after the age of 13, it is the darkest time in her life.
Parents separate, mothers start new families, all this is too cruel for a child.
But what's even more cruel is that she understands her parents' attitude towards marriage: as long as the relationship is not good, you can break up in two.
This kind of thinking is deeply embedded in her worldview and outlook on life.
Xie Tingting's father, Xie Xian, has an arrogant and free style.
In the entertainment industry, his relationship history is extremely rich, but he has never officially married.
He first married Taiwanese actress Zhen Zhen, and then had a relationship with Xie Tingting's mother Deborah.
The marriage to Deborah lasted only 16 years.
In the end, he actually spent 12 years with Coco, who was only two years older than his eldest son Nicholas Tse, after the divorce.
To outsiders, this already constitutes a de facto marriage.
However, this proves once again that in Xie Xian's heart, marriage is not of great significance.
And her mother, Deborah, found a new partner immediately after the divorce and soon formed a new family.
This was extremely avant-garde and trendy at the time.
If you want to talk about Xie Tingting's closest family, her brother Nicholas Tse, his relationship history is also wonderful.
When Nicholas Tse was 20 years old, he fell in love with Faye Wong, a singer who was 10 years older than him, and lived with her for 5 years.
Subsequently, he married the popular actress Cecilia Cheung in lightning.
However, the good times did not last long, and the two announced their divorce after 6 years.
After the divorce, Nicholas Tse returned to his old dream with his ex-girlfriend Faye Wong.
Today, the two have been living together for many years.
It can be said that in the Xie family, the significance of marriage does not seem to be great, and it cannot stand the test of feelings at all.
This undoubtedly also deeply affected Xie Tingting's views on marriage and relationships.
Stepping into the entertainment industry at the age of 26, he has a three-dimensional and rich emotional experience
Like her brother, Xie Tingting did not have a good time before the age of 26, she was just an ordinary person, living a 9-to-5 working life.
At the age of 26, she finally decided to enter the industry and embarked on the road of no return to becoming an artist.
However, it was too late for her, the most beautiful and brilliant years had passed, and she did not gain too much popularity in the entertainment industry.
However, her colorful relationship history has always been the focus of attention from the outside world.
As early as the age of 19, Xie Tingting was photographed dating her boyfriend Bai Enrong.
Unlike the average girl, she doesn't care about public romances, and even takes them for granted.
Later, Bai Enrong beat the reporter and caused a lawsuit, and she did not choose to cover up, and finally broke up.
Before entering the entertainment industry, she had scandals with many male stars.
For example, a carnival with Jackie Chan's son Fang Zuming nightclub, as well as a new student Chen Hongye and so on.
In 2005, she and a man named Alexander were also revealed to be in love, but less than a year later, the man returned to New Zealand to study, and the two announced their breakup.
After that, Xie Tingting was briefly entangled with Hollywood actor Oleido.
Every time the relationship lasted less than a year before they parted ways.
This has always been a feature of her relationship journey.
Until 2009, 27-year-old Xie Tingting began to date An Zhijie.
This relationship lasted for 4 years, breaking the curse of the length of her relationship.
Everyone thinks that Xie Tingting has finally found true love and will enter the marriage hall with An Zhijie.
What's even more gratifying is that her father Xie Xian also favors An Zhijie.
However, the good times did not last long, and they announced their breakup in 2013.
This is undoubtedly a major blow in Xie Tingting's emotional journey, and she began to question whether she could really have a happy marriage.
At the age of 37, he suddenly announced the birth of a daughter, and the biological father of the child was unknown
After 6 years, in 2019, 37-year-old Xie Tingting announced on social networking platforms: She has a daughter, and her daughter has been 100 days old.
This news instantly caused an uproar in the entertainment industry and society.
There is a lot of talk about who the biological father of this child is.
And the most shocking thing is that this incident is not even known to her relatives.
In the interview, his brother Nicholas Tse said that he "hasn't seen my sister for more than a year, and I only learned that she gave birth to a daughter after watching the news."
Father Xie Xian was even furious when he learned about it, and couldn't accept that his daughter was an illegitimate daughter.
So, who is the father of the child? Why did Xie Tingting give birth to this daughter without telling her relatives?
There are endless speculations about the child's biological father, but Xie Tingting has always kept silent and has not revealed any information.
In fact, her choice is not surprising.
You must know that she has lived in an insecure environment since she was a child, facing changes such as the divorce of her parents and the establishment of a new family.
She simply had no stable mental sustenance.
Boyfriends are also passers-by, and every relationship ends after only a few months.
My brother's marriage also failed.
In her heart, in fact, she has long assumed that marriage and family are fragile.
So, when she finally decides to have a child, does she care if the child has a father? Does she care about the opinion of her relatives? The answer is no.
After giving birth to a daughter, Xie Tingting regained her happiness: she wholeheartedly raised the pearl of her palm
After giving birth to a daughter, Xie Tingting seemed to be a different person.
She no longer has a love affair, and all her thoughts are on her daughter.
She will take her daughter out to play, and often post photos of her daughter on social networks.
Every time, I can feel a strong maternal love and happiness from her words and expressions.
Xie Tingting described her daughter as the "brightest light" in her life.
Perhaps in her, her daughter has replaced the sense of security she never had, replaced the missing family warmth, and became the real sustenance in her heart.
Even the relationship with his parents and brother, who had been estranged for many years, improved after the arrival of his daughter.
She reached out to her family and got them involved in her daughter's life.
Because she doesn't want her daughter to go back to her old ways and live without a home.
Although Xie Tingting has not disclosed the information of her daughter's biological father so far, we don't seem to be in a position to criticize her.
She is making up for her past regrets in her own way, and letting her daughter live in a world of deep love and care.
Maybe she will play the role of a father in front of her daughter, and the family will eventually be different for them.
After all, she has found the light in her life and the motivation to live and be happy.
That's enough.
epilogue
The trajectory of her life is different from that of ordinary people, and her choices are incomprehensible.
However, as a mother, Xie Tingting is happy.
No one can deny this.
In her caring eyes, we saw the most beautiful appearance of the Xie family's daughter.
This is also the most memorable moment of her life.