A while ago, Tong Liya became a shareholder of Chen Sicheng's company and appeared on the hot search.
It seems that even if the reason for the divorce is unbearable, as long as there is a relationship of interest, they can still get together to do business, which is really in response to the sentence "Breaking up friendships and not breaking up business".
Not to mention the profitability, it is impossible for a divorced couple to completely sever the connection just because they have children between them.
But there is really a couple in the entertainment industry, even if they have children, they have never been with each other.
They are Song Dandan and Yingda.
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When Song Dandan and Yingda met, they were already married for the second time.
Yingda was born in a famous family, and was later admitted to Peking University, and also went to the United States to study Xi drama, and is a top student.
He met his first wife at Peking University, and after graduation, they registered their marriage and went to study abroad together.
However, in 1987, when Yingda chose to return to China, his ex-wife wanted to stay abroad.
As a result, two people who pursue differences can only choose to divorce and be free for each other.
Song Dandan also had a marriage before she met Yingda, and she got married in a flash not long after she met an outsider.
But after getting married, the two found out that each other's personalities were incompatible, so they soon divorced.
At the time of the divorce, the other party asked Song Dandan never to mention his name in public in the future.
For decades, Song Dandan has kept her promises, and she has always been silent about her first marriage in public.
In 1987, Song Dandan and Yingda met while filming "Arsonist".
At that time, both of them ended their respective relationships, and such an experience made them have a lot in common.
So after filming, the two often talk together, and after getting along for a long time, they naturally developed feelings and started a relationship.
After two years of getting along, the two registered their marriage.
may be because people are in good spirits on happy occasions, and it was also in this year that Song Dandan began to gradually become famous with the sketch "Blind Date for Lazy Men" on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
The following year, Song Dandan gave birth to her son Batu.
After Batu was born, Song Dandan appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala again and became famous through another sketch "Superborn Guerrilla".
Suddenly, no one in the north and south of the country knew the comedian Song Dandan.
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When Song Dandan ushered in the spring of her career, Yingda's attitude towards her and her son had quietly changed.
Because Yingda once said on the show: "Yingda is only two words, and it is not difficult to remember, probably because my father is very famous, I didn't have my own name since I was a child, and others called me: 'Yingruocheng's son'".
It can be seen that because Song Dandan is popular, but Yingda is unknown, the audience's address to him has changed from "Ying Ruocheng's son" to "Song Dandan's husband".
Anyway, no one remembers his name as Indah.
This incident obviously touched the man's sensitive self-esteem, so it triggered a series of events later.
During that time, Yingda often refused to go home on the grounds that he was busy with work, and his attitude towards his wife and son was extremely cold.
It wasn't until the explosion of the family sitcom "I Love My Home" that Yingda became famous as a director.
It is precisely because of the filming of this drama that the marriage between Yingda and Song Dandan began to crack.
During the filming of this drama, Yingda got acquainted with screenwriter Liang Huan.
Liang Huan is a talented girl from Peking University, born in a family of performing arts, her two elder brothers are engaged in acting-related work, the eldest brother Liang Zuo is a well-known screenwriter, and the second brother Liang Tian is a well-known actor.
And at that time, Liang Zuo and Liang Tian participated in the creation of "I Love My Home".
When Yingda was in the crew, she had always been unclear with Liang Huan.
When the rumors reached Song Dandan's ears, Song Dandan wanted to divorce, but Ying Ruocheng wanted to keep her grandson and never agreed.
Because she didn't want to bear the pressure of public opinion, Yingda refused to admit that she had an extramarital affair with Liang Huan, and dragged Song Dandan not to divorce.
But during this period, Yingda never went home, so Song Dandan, who was alone in the empty room every day, also found someone outside.
On the third day after having an extramarital affair, Song Dandan called Yingda and said, "I have an affair, let's divorce!"
Because now Song Dandan said this, the fault was not his own, so Yingda quickly agreed.
In January 1997, Song Dandan finally went through the divorce procedures with Yingda, ending the marriage that had consumed her for many years.
Thinking about it now, maybe Song Dandan made such a choice at that time just for divorce.
03
A month after divorcing Song Dandan, Yingda couldn't wait to marry Liang Huan and enter the door.
Not long after, Liang Huan gave birth to their son, and Yingda named the child Ying Rudi.
Also as a father, he never asked Batu, and when the child was young and crying for his father, Yingda never appeared.
After the divorce, he never went to see his son, and even when Batu's grandfather died, he did not inform Batu.
It can be said that Yingdah, as a father, cast a heavy shadow on Batu's childhood.
For Batu, Yingda never even felt indebted, and said unashamedly on the show: "Don't come to me if you're divorced, I can no longer play the role of his father, it's unfair to my current position." ”
However, for Ying Rudi, when he was a child, he wanted to learn Xi skating, Yingda didn't say a word, bought him equipment, found a coach, and personally accompanied him to the United States, which has the best ski training resources, to learn Xi.
Later, in order to establish a "good father" character, he also said on the show: "I will treat all children equally." ”
After Song Dandan heard this, he was immediately unhappy, and directly scolded Yingda on Weibo.
Whether it is appearance or status, Liang Huan is actually inferior to Song Dandan, why would Yingda rather bear the infamy and choose Liang Huan?
Regarding this issue, Yingda also hinted in the show that because Liang Huan has a good personality, the most important thing is to make fun of her, and she is not angry.
For Yingda, such a woman will be easier to control, and she will take him as the backbone of everything, which can make him realize the value of being a man.
On the contrary, Song Dandan has a status and strength, and his wife oppresses him everywhere in all aspects, which makes him feel very uncomfortable.
To put it bluntly, women are strong and men are weak, which stimulates a man's self-esteem and makes him desperate to escape.
It can only be said that Yingda chose the wrong way, not only cheated on herself, but also used cold violence to force Song Dandan to divorce.
The most important thing is that he doesn't care about his own son. No matter what happens to the couple, the child is innocent.
Moreover, the name Ying Rudi, no matter how you hear it, seems to be a bit of a reference to Song Dandan and Batu?
But yes or no, the past has long gone with the wind.
Later, Song Dandan also remarried and married Zhao Yuji, who made up for Batu's lack of fatherly love to a certain extent.
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Today, Song Dandan is in semi-retirement, and Batu is also married to Wang Bogu and has two sons. Batu and Wang Bogu's live broadcast career can be regarded as a small achievement.
Song Dandan's later years can be regarded as full of children and grandchildren, and the family is very happy.
On the other hand, Yingda immigrated abroad for his son's family, but he did not live well, and was once sued in court because of 5 million yuan in arrears, and he reluctantly repaid the money, otherwise he would have to go through a prison sentence.
It is said that after Batu had his first son, Yingda called Song Dandan and said, "I want to see my grandson."
However, Song Dandan scolded him back with the words "I don't have a son, and I still want to see my grandson".
For Yingda, as a spectator, we can only say that we knew this was the case, so why bother in the first place?