Time flies, and the once immature little boy Batu has become an adult and welcomes a new chapter in his life. After ups and downs, indomitable perseverance and hard work, he finally succeeded in realizing his long-awaited dream of acting with incomparable perseverance, and stood tall in the film and television industry full of gunsmoke.
Although he has not yet reached the extraordinary status of a household name, Batu has been able to enjoy this ordinary and stable happiness, and what is even more gratifying is that he has successfully found his own happy home, established a stable family, is in love with his beloved wife, and is also the loving father of two lovely children, whenever he witnesses the innocent and bright smiles of the children.
Just as Batu was immersed in the ocean of happiness, the father Yingda, who had abandoned him, suddenly realized the harm he had caused to his son, and re-embarked on the journey to visit his son with endless regret and guilt.
As the years passed, Yingda gradually understood and felt the lack from the depths of his heart, he bravely stood up and sincerely proposed to Batu to rebuild the old friendship, hoping to save this lost parent-child relationship in time, Yingda asked in a low voice: "I sincerely want to meet your children - that is, my own grandson."
However, the pain of the past has cast an indelible scar in Batu's heart, when Yingda humbly asked for a peaceful solution, Batu refused without hesitation, and said firmly and resolutely: "I only have my mother, the only relative, and to me, you are just a strange face" Song Dandan rebuked Yingda dumbfounded: "How dare you dare to be a grandfather if you don't even regard your own son as a nothing?"
In the face of such a categorical rejection of his biological son, Yingda still brazenly tried to explain, saying that all this was caused by Song Dandan, his eyes were full of jealousy and remorse, maybe he had already turned the river and the sea deep in his heart.
Calm down and look back carefully, Batu's growth path is indeed full of twists and turns. From the very beginning of his life, he was in a crippled family environment, and his father Yingda treated him like an insignificant passerby.
In Batu's vague and young memory, the only impression of his father is the image of the old man who always had a straight face and was difficult to get close to.
In the perception of childhood, what children crave most is the deep love and care from their parents. However, for Batu, there is always a sense of loss in the depths of his heart, and whenever he sees other children sharing his family with his kind father, he can't help but envy the rare and precious family affection.
At the age of 7, he childishly asked Yingda to spend a weekend vacation with him, but in exchange for the callous indifference of the other party, at the age of 11, he longed for a mobile phone of his own, and Yingda also refused without hesitation.
What is even more unbearable is that when his grandfather Ying Ruocheng died, Batu tried to see this relative for the last time, but was also stubbornly rejected by Yingda.
The lack of father's love is undoubtedly an unforgettable blow to the soul of a child. Fortunately, thanks to Song Dandan's mother's silent support and encouragement behind the scenes, Batu was able to thrive in the clouds of life.
With the passage of time, an ideal flame of chasing the road of an actor has gradually grown in his heart, hoping to break out of the world in the film and television industry with his own talent and hard work.
In 2009, he met the challenge of his first masterpiece "The War of the Old Niu's Family", and since then he has also emerged in countless wonderful film and television dramas, gradually approaching and realizing his dream.
The baptism of life endowed Batu with a kind and innocent personality. He warmed the people around him with sincerity, and at the same time, he made the love of his life. Today, he has started a family and built a warm and happy life nest for his wife, children and mother.
Whenever he was alone, Batu couldn't help but recall the bits and pieces of those difficult years, and his heart was infinitely grateful for his mother's unswerving support.
On the other hand, Yingda showed a clear difference in treatment of her two sons. For his eldest son, Batu, he used to be so cold and denied. Except for the first years of Batu's new life, when he barely fulfilled his responsibilities as a father, Yingda's subsequent attitude towards Batu was to ignore it all the time.
At the age of 7, Batu asked Indah to go out together, but never received any response! The same thing happened again at the age of 11, when Batu longed for a mobile phone of his own, but Inda still refused indifferently, completely ignoring his son's expectations.
The most heartbreaking thing is that when Mr. Yingruocheng passed away, Batu's heart was full of longing for his grandfather, longing to see the old man's deathbed face, and it was Yingda who blocked his footsteps from visiting his relatives for various inexplicable reasons.
For a while, speculation about the authenticity of Batu's identity came like a storm. In the face of ruthless gossip, Song Dandan could no longer stay calm, and angrily publicly accused Yingda of irresponsible behavior on social platforms.
However, in strong contrast, in the face of Yingda's doting on his youngest son Ying Rudi, he almost tried his best to cultivate Yingrudi's talents. Not only did he spend a lot of money to buy high-end pianos, hire professional tutors for guidance, and even set up an ice hockey rink at his doorstep, just so that Ying Rudi could train anytime and anywhere.
Every time Yingrudi is mentioned, Yingda will always be full of pride and happiness.
Such a completely different treatment undoubtedly brought great psychological trauma to Batu.
At the beginning, Song Dandan's relationship with Yingda sprouted after a dull relationship in 1989. At that time, they had just broken free from the shackles of failed emotions, and the wedding was quietly ushered in under the inspiration of the flame of love.
Despite the extreme hardship of the first few years, the love between the two is like sunshine shining on the hearts of the newlyweds. However, as Song Dandan gradually emerged, he gradually became famous in the entertainment industry with his outstanding acting talents, and his career was in full swing, while Yingda was facing the dilemma of being neglected and even forgotten.
At this moment, his heart swelled with endless jealousy and deep uneasiness.
At this time, Yingda met Liang Huan, the screenwriter of the family sitcom "I Love My Home". Liang Huan is young and moving, and what is even more commendable is that she can give Yingda endless praise and worship to satisfy his deep desire for vanity.
As a result, Yingda often stayed outside with cold violence against Song Dandan in marriage, and the relationship between husband and wife gradually broke down and drifted apart.
What is sighing is that Song Dandan, in extreme disappointment, did not hesitate to choose to deviate from the moral bottom line, retaliated against Yingda with cheating behavior, and finally ended their marriage with the breakdown of their marriage, which had lost its normal track.
After leaving the predicament, the custody of the child Batu automatically returned to the hands of the biological father Yingdah.
However, did Yingda really assume his due responsibility as a father? Unfortunately, he only generously dedicated all his feelings to Yingrudi, the child he later had with Liang Huan.
Judging from the situation before and after the divorce, it is clear that Yingda has clearly revealed the huge difference in her treatment of the two brothers, which is undoubtedly the neglect of the child, which has brought endless regret and guilt for a lifetime.
The road of life is always filled with endless helplessness and regret, but fate will always leave us with a chance to choose again at some point. However, the premise is that Yingda can truly reflect on herself, put it into practical action, and maybe hope to get the children's forgiveness.
But this was not the case, and Yingda did not have any sincere repentance. He tried to repair his father-son relationship with Batu by visiting Sun Li, but sadly, he was not qualified to take on the role of grandfather.
Song Dandan and Batu's resolute refusal is naturally the consequence he deserves.
In this world, there is no miracle drug that can undo the mistakes of the past. Indah's differential treatment of the two sons has long since greatly damaged the already precarious kinship between him and Batu.
Love is love, not love is not love, this is a fact that cannot be easily changed or concealed, his current struggle is just a kind of hypocritical self-consolation, middle-aged people should have their own dignity, not like a lost dog barely survived.