Lin Dan, who was born in a badminton family, pursued Xie Xingfang, the daughter of a laid-off worker in Guangzhou
On a crisp autumn morning in 1983, the Lin family in Linjiang Town, Longyan City, Fujian Province, seemed to be shrouded in a layer of joyful golden sunshine. On this day, Lin Jianbin and Gao Xiuyu's son Lin Dan was born.
As the parents of physical education teachers, they gave their son the word "Dan" with great expectations, hoping that he would be invincible and invincible in the future.
When he was 5 years old, Lin Dan picked up a badminton racket for the first time and missed a hit. At first, he was disappointed with the project that he couldn't even catch with a small feather. However, with the encouragement of his parents, he gradually fell in love with the sport.
In order to let him learn Xi systematically, his parents sent him to a professional badminton training class. Lin Danqin can make up for his shortcomings, and in less than a year, he has become the strongest little athlete in the class.
At the age of 12, Lin Dan shined in the national junior badminton competition and won the men's singles championship. Since then, he has been selected by the Bayi badminton team and received professional training.
At the age of 17, he was selected for the national team as he wished, and his badminton career reached its first peak.
At the same time, Xie Xingfang, who was born in 1981 in a family of laid-off workers in Guangzhou, also chose the path of badminton under the expectations of her parents. The harsh environment honed her tenacity.
After being selected for the national team at the age of 16, Xie Xingfang raised her eyebrows and finally gave her parents the first decent home. In 1999, the two met in the national team. Lin Dan, who fell in love at first sight, took the initiative and began a 9-year pursuit process.
The Condor Heroes are in amateur love, spurring each other on business, and have won glory for the country
In 2003, after several years of pursuit, Xie Xingfang finally accepted Lin Dan's confession, and the two began to fall in love. The outside world regards them as "Condor Heroes", which is a match made in heaven.
It's just that both of them understand that grades are more important than feelings at the moment. So they have three chapters, they can fall in love in their spare time, and training and competitions cannot be affected.
This kind of love affair lasted for 7 years. The two are like a pair of partners who motivate each other, supervising each other at all times and not slacking off. Lin Dan was diligent in training, fought hard and quickly made a name for himself on the international stage.
At the age of 20, he had become the number one in the world and the first peak moment of his life. Seeing her sweetheart flourishing, Xie Xingfang was sincerely proud of him.
On the occasion of the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games, Xie Xingfang was also selected for the national team as the world No. 1 in women's singles. However, fate made her miss out on the championship.
The defeat did not deter Xie Xingfang, who went on to win the World Championships and Asian Games, turning the pain of defeat into motivation. Lin Dan, on the other hand, won the gold medal at the Beijing Olympics as she wished, realizing her Olympic dream.
While the two are raising their eyebrows in their respective careers, their relationship is also getting deeper and deeper. In 2009, Xie Xingfang announced her retirement. A year later, Super Dan proposed to the goddess on his knees, and the Condor Heroes finally became married.
Lin Dan cheated on Xie Xingfang after giving birth, and public opinion condemned him one-sidedly and asked for a divorce
In 6 years of married life, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang have always been affectionate and enviable. In 2016, they were happy to get the crystallization of love. Pregnancy and childbirth were physically and mentally exhausting for Xie Xingfang, and Lin Dan gently cared for his wife and newborn.
However, at this time, the palette of life suddenly overturned, and it was no longer golden sunshine that was sprinkled on Lin Dan, but pitch-black sin.
In September 2016, Xie Xingfang had just given birth for a month, and a video of her husband's cheating appearance in a hotel went viral on the Internet. For Lin Dan and female model Zhao Yaqi's indecent behavior, netizens were excited and condemned.
The original almost perfect image collapsed, and he became the target of public criticism.
"This is the true face of the male god!
"Xie Xingfang must divorce him, we fully support it!"
In the face of condemnation, Lin Dan could only apologize and admit his mistake on Weibo. He understood that it was too late now. As for Xie Xingfang, her heart must be very painful and conflicted.
It was a difficult choice whether to continue to be tolerant or choose to divorce.
Xie Xingfang made a tolerant choice and forgave Lin Dan's mistake
"For the sake of my child, I choose to continue to believe in and support him. This is Xie Xingfang's first Weibo after the turmoil. is a simple sentence, but it shows her amazing generosity.
This is completely contrary to the expectations of the outside world, and people predict that there is a high probability that she will divorce Lin Dan.
In fact, Xie Xingfang's choice was not impulsive. On the contrary, after deep grief and despair, she made this difficult decision after careful consideration. First of all, she takes care of her infant child and does not want him to grow up in a single-parent family.
Second, she believes that Lin Dan will learn from his mistakes and get back on track. Furthermore, there is a need for tolerance between husband and wife, and this great love can overcome everything.
Choosing to forgive does not mean forgiving easily. During that time, Lin Dan paid a lot for his mistakes. He needs to regain the trust of his wife and the public, and it will be a long process.
At first, Xie Xingfang treated him coldly for a long time, and her heart was like a knife every day. Fortunately, her husband's sincere repentance finally touched her. "I believe that Dandan will correct his mistakes and we will definitely get through this. She said frankly in the interview.
After retiring, Lin Dan took care of his family wholeheartedly, and the family was happy
After the turmoil, Lin Dan cherished his hard-won family even more. He took the initiative to take charge of the house and was determined to atone for his sins. After retiring, he devoted more time and energy to his wife and children.
At first, Lin Dan was labeled as a "scumbag", and it was difficult to regain a positive image. But one step at a time, he built up positive impressions and finally rebuilt the public's trust in him. The interviewed netizens said: "I really didn't expect that Lin Dan would become such a good husband and father.
Six years have passed, and the child is already 6 years old. The life of a family of three is getting better, and the days are sweet and stable. Lin Dan took care of his wife and children wholeheartedly, so that Xie Xingfang had a successful career without worries.
Divorce is just a passing moment, and happiness is what they really have now. This turmoil encourages more people: there are bound to be disappointments in life, but courage and tolerance can resolve all regrets
Conclusion: Look at Xie Xingfang again, is it right or wrong to forgive Lin Dan for cheating 6 years ago?
Looking at Xie Xingfang again, the choice she made 6 years ago was wise. Giving up the emotional reaction, she took into account the overall situation and gave the family the possibility to move on. At the same time, it also gave Lin Dan a chance to atone for his sins, so that a hero did not fall in his mistakes.
The story is not over yet, and they will continue to face the bits and pieces of life. We believe that after the storm, the rainbow will always come. Feelings don't stumble forever, and they tend to be better in the run-in of time.
Looking at Xie Xingfang again, we praise her for her courage. This great love also inspires you and me to continue to move forward.