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Xie Xingfang and Lin Dan's deep relationship
One spring day many years ago, a young man and woman met in the national badminton team. At that time, 14-year-old Lin Dan was a student of 20-year-old Xie Xingfang, who was responsible for guiding him through rigorous training.
Xie Xingfang devoted herself wholeheartedly to it, not only carefully guiding Lin Dan's skills, but also always paying attention to his every move, giving him warm encouragement and support.
Under the baptism of the years, the young Lin Dan gradually developed a crush on this mature senior sister. Although the relationship between the two is restricted by strict team rules, they still carefully maintain this underground relationship in full view.
For 8 years, they have always adhered to their beliefs and never affected the quality of training because of love.
Finally, in 2010, the "golden boys and girls" in the sports world officially entered the palace of marriage and completed their sweet love story. Even in the days that followed, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang still maintained a loving relationship.
They worked hand in hand on the court and won the World Badminton Championships, achieving outstanding sporting achievements.
Looking back on the past, the emotional journey of this "golden boy and girl" in the sports world can be described as ups and downs, but in the end, they came together and jointly composed a touching marriage song.
From acquaintance and love to marriage, they have gone through too many trials and tribulations, but in the end they still come to this day hand in hand. This deep relationship has undoubtedly become a solid foundation for them to tide over the wind and rain together.
The scandal of Lin Dan's cheating on Zhao Yaqi
In 2016, when Xie Xingfang was about to welcome her first child, the shocking news suddenly sounded - Lin Dan actually had an affair with a model named Zhao Yaqi in a luxury hotel during his wife's pregnancy.
According to eyewitness accounts, the two were so eager that they forgot to close the curtains to hide their shame. What's even more incredible is that all this happened on the eve of Lin Dan's wife about to give birth.
As soon as this news was exposed, it immediately caused an uproar. The majority of netizens have condemned Lin Dan's despicable behavior and accused him of betraying his wife.
And the cheating object Zhao Yaqi himself is not an idle person. She once won the crown in the Miss International contest, with a bumpy figure and a beautiful appearance. thought that with such conditions, he would definitely be able to marry into a wealthy family, but who knew that he would become synonymous with "little three", which is really suffocating.
In the face of strong condemnation from public opinion, Lin Dan and Zhao Yaqi both issued sincere apologies. But people apparently aren't buying it, because they probably wouldn't have acknowledged their betrayal at all without media exposure.
is completely different from Lin Dan, Zhao Yaqi's blow in this whirlpool of public opinion can be said to be worse. Almost all of her work was suspended, and even the TV series she starred in was almost cut out of her footage.
It can be said that since her relationship with Lin Dan was exposed, her reputation has completely fallen like the Titanic.
Even when Lin Dan announced his retirement, Zhao Yaqi still deliberately wrote an article satirizing him, accusing Lin Dan of not being able to control himself back then. She seemed to be hinting that her intervention back then was not what Lin Dan wanted, but was deceived by the other party.
However, what kind of motives her actions were based on may need to be further studied.
Overall, this sensational cheating scandal has dealt a devastating blow to the reputations of both men. In contrast, Xie Xingfang finally chose to forgive Lin Dan, but it was widely praised afterwards.
It seems that in the face of such a marital crisis, forgiveness and wisdom are far more valuable than blind divorce.
Xie Xingfang's choice and inner world
In the face of such a huge family crisis, Xie Xingfang's way of coping is really surprising. Under the strong demand of everyone, she chose to forgive her husband Lin Dan, who had betrayed her.
In the indiscriminate bombardment of public opinion, Xie Xingfang always remained silent without the slightest counterattack. This made many enthusiastic netizens feel incomprehensible, and they accused her of having no bottom line and being able to forgive her derailment.
However, Xie Xingfang's inner world is not as simple as everyone imagines. As a woman, she knows better than anyone what it's like to endure humiliation. From the beginning, she anticipated that her choice would face endless questioning and abuse.
It was only out of consideration for family harmony that she had to barely maintain this apparent peace. When these secrets are finally exposed, she seems to have no choice but to devote herself to that grief and anger in exchange for public understanding and sympathy.
In the final analysis, Xie Xingfang chose to forgive Lin Dan out of deep attachment to him.
If she decisively chooses to leave at that time, although she can temporarily vent the resentment in her heart, how should her newborn daughter deal with herself? This is probably an unbearable pain for a mother.
Perhaps deep down, Xie Xingfang has always hoped that Lin Dan can sincerely repent and rediscover the warm home of the past.
Xie Xingfang's tolerance did not allow her to get the expected reward, but instead exchanged it for years of spurning and misunderstanding. But in the face of the tide of abuse, she never made any counterattack, but silently endured these harsh criticisms, and still affectionately accompanied Lin Dan through every sunrise and sunset.
She knew that only through her own tenacity could Lin Dan truly repent and rebuild their happy marriage.
It wasn't until 2017 that Xie Xingfang finally confided her true thoughts in an interview. It turned out that she had already gained insight into the truth of the matter, and only out of consideration for family harmony did she choose tolerance.
After experiencing this marital storm, she knows that women must have their own careers in order to be independent in this world and not be despised by their husbands.
From this moment on, Xie Xingfang resolutely shifted the focus of her life from family to self-improvement. She started her own brand and won the throne of the company's president, and now she shows confidence and independence in her style, speech and demeanor, and fashion taste.
She has successfully achieved the perfect interpretation of self-worth and has become a high-profile female success model.
This transformation undoubtedly stems from the marital tribulations that Xie Xingfang has experienced. She understands that only with their own careers and wealth can women truly take the initiative and no longer be bound by men.
Through these years of struggle, she finally found the direction to rebuild her life, and with the dual support of family and career, she achieved a real balance in life.
Xie Xingfang's career took off
Although Xie Xingfang chose to forgive Lin Dan for her mistakes, this did not give her the reward she deserved, but in exchange for years of spurning and misunderstanding.
In the face of the tide of abuse, Xie Xingfang never made any counterattack, but silently endured these harsh criticisms, and still affectionately accompanied Lin Dan through every sunrise and sunset.
This attitude of silently bearing makes people question whether Xie Xingfang's decision is too naïve and weak. But it wasn't until 2017 that Xie Xingfang finally confided her true thoughts in an interview.
It turned out that she had already gained insight into the truth of the matter, and only out of consideration for family harmony did she choose tolerance.
After experiencing this marriage storm, Xie Xingfang knows that women must have their own careers in order to gain a firm foothold in this world, not to be despised by their husbands, and to be able to take charge of themselves with their own strength.
So she resolutely shifted the focus of her life from family to self-improvement, created her own brand, and won the throne of the company's president.
Today's Xie Xingfang, whether it is her style of acting, speech and demeanor, or fashion taste, all show her self-confidence and independent demeanor. She has successfully achieved the perfect interpretation of self-worth and has become a high-profile female success model.
In contrast, Lin Dan, as the "king of badminton", announced his retirement in 2020 due to physical reasons, lost his source of income from work, and had to rely entirely on his wife's support and care.
In public, people couldn't help but notice that Xie Xingfang's aura had completely suppressed Lin Dan, and the latter's attempt to hold his wife's hand was also obviously refused.
This change undoubtedly reflects a subtle change in the relationship between the two. Xie Xingfang has changed from a passive victim to an active controller and has become the pillar of the family.
Looking back on the past, people can't help but sigh that Xie Xingfang chose to forgive Lin Dan's mistakes and give up her principles and choose tolerance, which was undoubtedly regarded by everyone as a humble and even extremely stupid decision.
However, after the baptism of time, Xie Xingfang's wisdom and courage have been widely recognized. If she had impulsively chosen to leave and take on the responsibility of raising her children alone, I am afraid that her life would be even more difficult and difficult now.
It is Xie Xingfang's unwavering choice that fully demonstrates the importance she attaches to family harmony. She understands that even after experiencing marital betrayal, the cheater should still be given a chance to rebuild trust.
Only by truly stepping out of the inner shadow can the relationship between the two parties be repaired. It is this tolerance and love that has enabled Lin Dan to truly repent, change his mind, and become a competent husband and father again after so many years.
However, the sensational marriage crisis of the year may never have completely healed in the depths of Xie Xingfang's heart. After this ordeal, she was determined to take control of her life with her own hands and no longer rely on her husband's status and reputation.
It turned out to be the right and wise choice. Today's Xie Xingfang has become a real strong woman, who can not only fulfill her responsibilities in family life, but also make achievements in her career, which can be called a perfect model for women.
The vicissitudes of their relationship
With the passage of time, the relationship between Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang has undergone subtle changes. As the former "golden boys and girls" in the sports world, they have experienced ups and downs from glory to trough.
And the most critical turning point in this is undoubtedly Lin Dan's cheating scandal during Xie Xingfang's pregnancy.
Looking back at that time, Xie Xingfang chose to forgive Lin Dan, which was questioned and abused by many netizens. People have accused her of having no bottom line and being able to forgive her cheating.
But after the baptism of time, Xie Xingfang's wisdom and courage have finally been widely recognized.
If Xie Xingfang impulsively chose to leave at that time and took on the responsibility of raising her children alone, I am afraid that her life would be even more difficult and difficult now. And it was her tolerance and wise choice that enabled Lin Dan to get back on the right track with the support of his wife.
Xie Xingfang's unwavering choice fully demonstrates the importance she attaches to family harmony. She understands that even after experiencing marital betrayal, the cheater should still be given a chance to rebuild trust.
Only in this way can the relationship between the two sides be truly repaired. It is this tolerance and love that has made Lin Dan truly repent, change his mind, and become a competent husband and father again for so many years.
However, the sensational marriage crisis of the year may never have completely healed in the depths of Xie Xingfang's heart. After this ordeal, she was determined to take control of her life with her own hands and no longer rely on her husband's status and reputation.
Today's Xie Xingfang has become a real strong woman. She has successfully built her own brand and become a high-profile role model for women. In contrast, Lin Dan, who went all the way from the peak to the trough, had to rely entirely on the support and care of his wife.
In public, the subtle changes in the relationship between the two have been clearly felt. When Lin Dan tried to hold his wife's hand, he was obviously rejected by Xie Xingfang.
This undoubtedly reflects that today's dominant position has been completely tilted to Xie Xingfang's side.
For this former "golden boy and girl" in the sports world, their story is too turbulent. However, it was through these twists and turns that Xie Xingfang finally found the direction of her life, and Lin Dan also experienced the sinking from the peak to the bottom.
Perhaps in their hearts, they have already let go of the hatred and resentment they had at the beginning, and replaced them with a more rational and indifferent state of mind. Xie Xingfang used her own personal experience to prove that only when the money and wealth in her hands are truly in her hands, can women truly have security and initiative.
For Lin Dan, losing the support of his wife is undoubtedly the heaviest blow in his life.
In general, the once "golden boys and girls" in the sports world have undergone a subtle change in their married life. Xie Xingfang has changed from a passive victim to an active controller and has become the pillar of the family.
Lin Dan, on the other hand, fell all the way from his peak and was completely dependent on his wife's protection. Such a change undoubtedly gives people a profound enlightenment.
Inspiration and reflections
Summarizing Xie Xingfang's story, we can gain some profound enlightenment. Although her original choice was questioned and abused in the eyes of everyone, she eventually won widespread recognition and respect.
Her choice to forgive and give Lin Dan the opportunity to regain trust not only reflects the importance she attaches to her family, but also fully demonstrates her independent and confident feminine charm.
After experiencing the baptism of marriage crisis, Xie Xingfang deeply realized that women must have their own career and economic strength in order to truly grasp the initiative and not be controlled by men.
It is with her own wisdom and hard work that Xie Xingfang has successfully built her own brand and become a high-profile female success model.
In contrast, Lin Dan, who went all the way from the peak to the trough, now has to rely entirely on the support and care of his wife, which undoubtedly makes the relationship between the two have undergone subtle changes.
Those who spurned and abused Xie Xingfang back then are probably ashamed and ashamed of their judgment at this moment. Xie Xingfang's wise choice not only allowed her to reshape her pursuit of career, but also made her achieve outstanding achievements in the realization of her self-worth.
She used her own experience to prove that only with money and wealth in her hands can women bring real security to themselves and their families.
For Lin Dan, losing his wife's understanding and support will undoubtedly be the heaviest blow in his life. Going from the top to the trough is enough to prove that even world-class sports stars need the love and support of their families.
Only with the dual support of family and career can they truly achieve the fullness and happiness of life.
Some people may ask, if Xie Xingfang had decisively chosen to leave, what would have been the end? However, after years of development, we have seen the great gains that her choice has brought her.
Not only did she build her own business, but she also went from being a passive victim to being an active controller. This is the beautiful reward for her tolerance and wisdom at the beginning.
Looking back on the whole story, it is not difficult to find that Xie Xingfang's decision was not a blind compromise and submission, but a very wise and courageous choice. If she had impulsively chosen to leave and take on the responsibility of raising her children alone, I am afraid that her life would have been even more difficult and difficult now.
It was her tolerance and love that allowed Lin Dan to truly repent and become a competent husband and father again during these years.
We have to sigh that Xie Xingfang's wisdom and courage undoubtedly give profound inspiration to all those who are facing a marriage crisis. In real life, we all experience some marital turmoil to a greater or lesser extent.
When faced with a choice, we should approach the problem with a more rational and intelligent attitude, rather than blindly following the emotional drive. Only in this way can we stand firm in the storm and reshape our lives to new heights.
Some may question why a woman should take on such a difficult task, but Xie Xingfang's story shows us that it is only through self-struggle that women can truly have the power to control their own destiny.
Her success has not only brought her own happiness, but also become a role model and hope for countless women.
Overall, Xie Xingfang's story undoubtedly brings us profound inspiration. Although her choice was questioned and abused by everyone at the time, she eventually won widespread recognition and respect.
She used her wisdom and courage to constantly break through herself and reshape the new direction of her life. This is undoubtedly an important topic that deserves serious consideration and study by each of us.