In the world of sports stars, in addition to their sports achievements, there are also some invisible corners, such as Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang, a high-profile couple.
For the betrayal of her husband "Super Dan", it may be Xie Xingfang's unease in this life.
Lin Dan, a legend in the badminton world, is handsome and a man of the year on the court.
And Xie Xingfang is the woman who knows how to perform on stage and live her life offstage.
The encounter between the two is like a classic plot in the movie, one is a man who is good at swinging, the other is a woman who is good at swinging, and their love quietly blooms on the badminton court.
Xie Xingfang, who originally planned to live a good life after retiring, was slapped in the face by reality, when Xie Xingfang had just given birth and was still in confinement, that is, on November 17, 2016, Lin Dan was exposed to cheating on the beautiful actress Zhao Yaqi.
Lin Dan then coaxed, saying on Weibo that his behavior hurt his family, and he was unwilling to explain too much, and his slightly low-key response made people feel like "who said it, I admit it".
Following the derailment incident, Lin Dan returned to the family, but Xie Xingfang chose to forgive, she stood firmly beside her husband and faced the storm of public opinion with him.
But the relationship with Xie Xingfang did not become like a couple in love.
In public, Lin Dan often has a cold attitude of "I am the most handsome, you are the most beautiful".
In April, Lin Dan and his wife appeared together in Gaozhiling in Chenzhou, Hunan Province, but they did not give people a sense of affection between husband and wife. Some netizens feel that Lin Dan's machismo is obvious, lacking caring and considerate qualities.
One detail was noticed: Lin Dan always had his hands on his chest and seemed to have a lack of physical contact with his wife.
Netizens couldn't stand it anymore and criticized Lin Dan's "machismo".
They think that Lin Dan's indifference to Xie Xingfang in public is obviously excessive, as if he is showing off his "appearance", which is really a bit self-aggrandizing!
Such a posture has sparked speculation and questions from the outside world, which is obviously a manifestation of their emotional discord, perhaps this is just a appearance, and there may be more complex reasons behind it.
Psychology experts gave their own interpretation, saying that Lin Dan's posture of holding his hands on his chest may be a defensive psychology, expressing inner uneasiness and defensiveness against the outside world.
This posture may be common in public, but it doesn't mean that there is a problem with their relationship.
Perhaps, behind the camera, their emotions are richer and more real, but we can't see them directly.
As a top athlete, you may be more focused on the event.
Some people say that he reads less and understands less truth, which is why he causes so much trouble.
Athletes' careers are challenging and stressful, and they often need to dedicate themselves to training and competing, which can lead to oversights in other areas.
No one can give a definite answer to this question. However, I believe that as long as they can be honest with each other, tolerate each other, and believe in the power of love, everything will work out.
You can watch from the sidelines, but don't get overly involved, after all, people's private lives are still up to them.