Before reading this article, I would like you to click "Follow", which is not only convenient for you to discuss and share, but also can bring you a different sense of participation, thank you for your support!
Text | whole
Edit | whole
In 2000, when Beijing girl Xie Xingfang was selected for the national badminton youth team, she never imagined that she and her future husband Lin Dan would meet at this time. And how can this ups and downs, ups and downs of the emotional process, be so tortuous and entangled......
Fall in love and propose to the Olympic arena
As soon as the young Xie Xingfang saw this Fujian guy who came out of physical school, she was attracted by his heroic physique. Xie Xingfang's pair of electric eyes involuntarily always followed Lin Dan's heroic appearance, and his thoughts were often fascinated by his strong physique and hard work that was not afraid of losing.
And Lin Dan was quickly impressed by Xie Xingfang's gentleness and generosity and athletic talent. As the first batch of full-time athletes in the mainland, they have taken root in the national team together and are striving for the highest honor in badminton. Gradually, the two were inexplicably "planted" together.
In 2006, at the celebration banquet after Indonesia won the championship, Lin Dan finally mustered up the courage and took the initiative to hug Xie Xingfang's fragrant shoulder. This scene was unintentionally captured, and then it went viral on the Internet, and the sweet relationship between the two was made public. Since then, they have been inseparable, caring for each other on and off the court, and have become the hottest golden boy and girl in the sports world.
In the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games, Lin Dan won the gold medal in one fell swoop. In the cheers of the audience, he proposed to Xie Xingfang without hesitation, and solemnly gave the key, which contained a luxurious villa. Xie Xingfang was so happy that she almost melted into Lin Dan's fiery embrace. At this moment, there were bursts of cheers and whistles at the scene, and everyone was deeply moved by the romantic behavior of this "Yulin fairy couple".
One hundred percent wedding
In October 2010, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang held a grand wedding in Beijing. As the "Feather Altar Fairy Couple" who attracted national attention, their wedding was very grand and 100% attentive. The venue was chosen to be the Beijing Badminton Hall, where Lin Dan won his first Olympic gold medal, making it once again a place to witness an important moment in their lives.
The wedding invitation is very ingenious, made with classic photos of Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang, and matched with a golden pink dark pattern, showing a noble and elegant temperament. On the same day, more than 600 guests witnessed the birth of this "once-in-a-century" sports couple.
The bride Xie Xingfang was dressed in a graceful and luxurious cheongsam, and her curvaceous and delicate body appropriately outlined the gentle and atmospheric charm of oriental women. The groom, Lin Dan, is wearing a crisp black suit, heroic and graceful. The two slowly walked across the long red carpet amid the blessings and cheers of all the guests and friends, and happiness was on everyone's faces.
The grand and general on-site layout, and the careful attention to every detail all reflect the good intentions of the newcomers. A couple worked hard to create this dream wedding, aiming to show their "eternal commitment". Every aspect of the day seemed so full of a warm sense of ceremony, so that all the guests were touched by this enviable romantic scene.
A shocking meat twitch dog blood drama
In the 2016 Rio Olympics, Lin Dan stopped in the top 32. The poor performance of this "Super Dan", who was once in charge of Yulin, has also caused a lot of criticism and questions from the outside world. At the moment when Lin Dan's confidence was severely frustrated and he was under great pressure, he had an intimate relationship with a 27-year-old female fan Zhao Yaqi and was arrested.
Immediately, this "scumbag door" bloody drama kicked off. As soon as the scandal came out, various media followed up and reported it, directly targeting poor Xie Xingfang. At that time, she was pregnant, in the most helpless period of her life, enduring unprecedented blows and painful torture. Everyone is speculating whether Xie Xingfang will "chase his wife in the crematorium" like a group of celebrity wives.
To everyone's surprise, she did not choose to divorce in anger, but showed amazing tolerance and forgiveness. Even though she witnessed her husband Hongxing coming out of the wall and treacherously, she still adhered to this crumbling marriage, hoping to give Lin Dan a chance to be a new person.
However, in an interview, Xie Xingfang still couldn't hide the pain in her heart. For a long time afterward, the paparazzi kept an eye on the whereabouts of Lin Xie and the others.
But what is surprising is that both Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang chose silence and silence as the biggest response at that time. They did not give any explanation to the outside world, but chose to regain people's trust and recognition with actions.
Repair Marriage Queen Transmutation
In the face of this "special period", Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang did not show up, or give an explanation to the outside world. Instead, they chose to regain people's trust with their actions.
In 2017, Lin Dan regained his footing on the field and defended multiple major championships in a row. It can be said that this series of victories has helped him raise his eyebrows and swept away many doubts from the outside world. And after Xie Xingfang gave birth to a child, she gradually came out of the haze and regained her self-confidence and courage.
In addition to family harmony, Xie Xingfang consciously created a new image of herself - a strong woman who has the courage to pursue herself. She founded a mother and baby brand "Yu Zifang" and took on the role of CEO herself, taking the business into her own hands.
In this way, after some precipitation, Xie Xingfang faded away from the image of a greenhouse flower in the past, and grew into a truly independent and radiant woman in the new era. Her personal achievements undoubtedly made Lin Dan impressed and sincerely admired her.
epilogue
"There is a kind of love, which has nothing to do with glory and wealth." This sentence is used to describe Xie Xingfang's philosophy of life, which is really appropriate.
She could have divorced when the scandal broke out and enjoyed Kuota's life. But she didn't, but chose to stick to the last ray of hope in her feelings and give Lin Dan a chance to be a new person.
From 2016 to now, their marriage has gone through 7 years. Once upon a time, the outside world was waiting to see the jokes of the "Condor Heroes". But in the end, with tolerance, understanding, hard work and perseverance, they finally came out of the haze and reunited into a resilient force.
This episode undoubtedly benefited both Lin Xie and the others. After experiencing this extramarital affair, Lin Dan completely realized the importance of family and cherished his wife's tolerance and dedication even more. And Xie Xingfang has also achieved a lot of results: she has not only achieved self-independence, but also regained her self-confidence and dignity, becoming a model for contemporary women.
As it is often said, marriage is a process of restoration. Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang interpreted the philosophy of this point with practical actions. What setbacks and blows they have suffered, but in the end, understanding and tolerance have rekindled the flame of hope in this marriage. This is the most precious life insight.
Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang experienced a thrilling battle to defend their marriage. From falling in love to getting married, from falling into the trough to regaining their strengths, they have gone through it step by step with tenacity and courage. Perhaps it was this ordeal that made their marriage more dazzling and icing on the cake. The story of this "Condor Heroes" will undoubtedly become a good story and will forever be passed on in people's memories.
(Disclaimer) The process and pictures described in the article are from the Internet, and this article aims to advocate positive social energy and no vulgar and other bad guidance. If it involves copyright or character infringement issues, please contact us in time, and we will delete the content as soon as possible! If there is any doubt about the incident, it will be deleted or changed immediately after contact.