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On a sunny day in 2024, I was fortunate enough to walk into the home of Xie Xingfang's family of three. The first thing that catches your eye is the warm atmosphere in the living room.
Xie Xingfang leaned sideways slightly, gently brushing her husband Lin Dan's hair to the back of her head, her eyes full of doting. Lin Dan smiled knowingly, held his wife's hand, and the two looked at each other and smiled, with a happy look on their faces.
At this moment, their 8-year-old son Lin Xiaoyu jumped up and down and threw himself into the arms of his parents.
"Mom and Dad, I love being with you the most!" Lin Xiaoyu said happily, his tone was simple and happy.
Xie Xingfang rubbed her son's hair dotingly, while Lin Dan took him in her arms and kissed him affectionately on the face. A family of three embraced each other, enjoying a warm and happy atmosphere.
"Fangfang, our family is really happy. Lin Dan sighed sincerely, his eyes full of gratitude.
Xie Xingfang nodded, with tears in the corners of her eyes, "Yes, we have been through so much, and now we can finally regain our happiness, it's really good." "
It can be traced back to November 17, 2016, when badminton star Lin Dan was exposed to a shocking cheating scandal, which caused an uproar. And just 13 days ago, on November 4, his wife Xie Xingfang had just given birth to their beloved son Lin Xiaoyu.
Shortly after Xiao Yu was born, Lin Dan posted a high-profile family photo on social media, accompanied by the warm text "Congratulations to Lin Xiao Yu for coming to this world, hard work".
Xie Xingfang in the photo is smiling brightly and beautiful; And Lin Dan was filled with the joy of a novice father. Everything looks so nice and peaceful.
In retrospect, the relationship between Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang has gone through a process of ups and downs. Their encounter dates back to a national junior championship in 1997.
Lin Dan, who was only 14 years old at the time, met 15-year-old Xie Xingfang for the first time, and was immediately attracted by her heroic posture and self-confidence on the court. From that moment on, Lin Dan made up his mind to join the national team, and finally entered the national team in 2000 as he wished, and reunited with his favorite girl Xie Xingfang again.
In the following years, the two gradually got to know each other and fell in love, and their relationship warmed. At the 2007 All England Championships, Lin Dan presented flowers to Xie Xingfang in public after the game, vividly confessing his heart, and the two blazing kissed, and the audience applauded.
In 2012, they got married at the badminton court of Beijing University of Technology, where Lin Dan had won the championship.
Everything seems to be beautiful, who would have thought that on November 17, 2016, just after the honeymoon period of the newlyweds, Lin Dan was exposed to a scandal of cheating with well-known model Zhao Yaqi.
This news was a sensation and made headlines in major media, and the topic of "Lin Dan's derailment" instantly occupied the top of the hot search list on the Internet.
Public opinion was in an uproar, and Lin Dan was fiercely questioned and condemned. In just a few hours, the image of this national player, who was once admired by countless people, was completely demolished.
All the glory and honors he won for the country and his family in the past have been completely covered up by this derailment incident at this moment. Instead, there are stigmatious titles like "scumbag" and "cheating king".
In 2017, after the derailment scandal, Xie Xingfang was not crushed by the ruthless blow of fate, but chose to start anew, and with the enthusiasm of relatives and friends, she resolutely founded her own maternal and child brand "Du Fang".
At first, many people questioned whether the former sports star could survive in the business world. But Xie Xingfang was not swayed by the doubts of the outside world, and she worked the road of entrepreneurship with firm and resolute steps.
Soon, with excellent products and operations, she made the brand "Du Fang" to the point of popularity and became a popular rookie in the industry.
In the face of her husband's cheating behavior, Xie Xingfang's choice of tolerance was not out of a simple concept of "female morality". She made the wisest choice after careful consideration, putting the interests of the family and children first, weighing the pros and cons.
Marriage is important, but it's not black and white. It takes time and patience to resolve conflicts between couples. And she forgave Lin Dan precisely to give her newborn son a complete and happy family.
If you get divorced at that time, the damage to the children will be huge.
Therefore, Xie Xingfang gritted her teeth and endured the cruel words, chose to forgive her husband, and maintained this once happy family. Although she was criticized at first, she was not coerced by public opinion and always remained calm and calm.
Now, after several years of development, Xie Xingfang has become a promising female entrepreneur, who is comfortable between work and family. As long as she has free time, she will accompany her children and husband, share the bits and pieces of life with her family, and the family will be happy.
After the derailment scandal, Lin Dan was bombarded by public opinion. At that time, a wave of abuse and questioning of him was piled up on the Internet, completely pushing his past to the forefront of being spurned.
The memory of the Internet age is amazing, and the cheating scandal of Lin Dan and Zhao Yaqi has been ruthlessly exposed and criticized. Until now, there are still many netizens who are haunted and questioned Lin Dan's past behavior.
The shadow of this incident never seems to be able to completely dissipate.
However, it was this predicament that made Lin Dan deeply reflect and repent. He began to devote himself to the family, taking care of his wife and children with care and care, and trying to repair and make amends for his previous mistakes.
At first, all of Lin Dan's efforts seemed so humble and difficult, but he was not discouraged. He patiently used his actions to win back people's trust and understanding with him little by little.
Today, Lin Dan has completely left his career, retired and put all his energy on his family, playing the role of a conscientious husband and father.
On November 17, 2016, as soon as the Lin Dan derailment scandal was exposed, it caused a storm of public opinion at the first time. In the face of such a major scandal, Lin Dan immediately made a decision and publicly issued a statement of self-reflection on the matter.
"As a man, I feel so guilty about the trauma I have caused to my family. I will be honest about my mistakes and sincerely apologize to my family. Lin Dan's apology was sincere, and his tone also revealed a hint of self-reproach.
However, netizens did not buy it, and scolded and questioned it fiercely. Many people directly called on the Internet to ask Xie Xingfang to divorce and cut off relations with such a "scumbag".
However, under the careful arrangement of the agent, Zhao Yaqi soon held a tearful press conference to try to exonerate herself. She cried that she was innocent, but she was caught up in this turmoil and was the biggest victim.
Just after the storm of public opinion, it was surprising that Xie Xingfang showed courage and tolerance at this juncture. She publicly announced that the whole family would forgive and accept Lin Dan, a "man who recognizes his mistakes and is willing to correct them"
This decision undoubtedly came as a big surprise to the outside world. Many people didn't understand why Xie Xingfang made such a choice, and they dissuaded her, thinking that Lin Dan didn't deserve to be forgiven at all.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, seven years have passed since the once sensational Lin Dan derailment scandal. Xie Xingfang and Lin Dan walked through this difficult time hand in hand, experiencing countless doubts and criticisms, but they finally reached a settlement, and the family of three regained a happy life.
After retiring, Lin Dan completely stayed away from his career, and there were no more rumors of lace news. He put all his energy into his family, taking care of his wife and children considerately, and trying to make up for the trauma he had brought to his family.
And Xie Xingfang's career is also booming, and her maternal and child brand "Du Fang" is booming. As a working woman, she balances work and family against the clock.
The time spent together as a family is always filled with a happy atmosphere and laughter everywhere.
Occasionally, on social platforms, we can also see a group photo of Lin Dan's family of three being shared. Looking at their bright smiles in the photo, and thinking about the turmoil seven years ago, it is really difficult for us to connect the scene in front of us with the scene in front of us.
Now they are trying to repair and cherish the beauty in their hands. The past is getting farther and farther away, and the family is getting happier and happier, which is the most gratifying result. I wish Lin Dan, Xie Xingfang and Xiao Yu happiness and peace.