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My name is Xiaohong and I am an ordinary rural girl. Three years ago, I fell in love and married Xiao Ming, the son of the old Li family, and became the new daughter-in-law of this family. In the days after marriage, I was very filial to Lao Li's amiable uncle, and took care of his daily life and diet. But the old man always complained about me, I didn't understand what I had done wrong, why he was always upset with a straight face.
"Xiaohong, bring this bowl of white rice. One day at lunch, the old man instructed me with a displeased face.
I hurriedly picked up the rice bowl and handed it to the old man: "Uncle, you use it slowly." This is the rice I specially chose to make rice, brown rice is more healthy. ”
The old man frowned and glanced at the rice, and said, "Don't you know that I like to eat refined white rice?" I can't even do this little thing, and I said that you, a village girl, are not worthy of being our daughter-in-law. ”
My heart sank and my eyes welled up with tears. My uncle's words were like a slap in the face to me, and I felt very humiliated.
"Dad, you're talking too much. Xiaohong is so filial to you, can't you be considerate of her?" Xiao Ming saw that I was sad, and hurriedly persuaded the old man.
"I can't just say anything, can I? I just don't like this village girl!" The old man dropped the bowl and went back to the room angrily.
I couldn't help but burst into tears, Xiao Ming hurriedly came over to comfort me: "Hong'er, don't cry, my dad's temper is like this, don't take it to heart." ”
I wiped away my tears and barely squeezed out a smile: "I'm fine, isn't it just rice, I'll pay attention to it later." ”
Husband and wife can get along harmoniously, all depends on the likes and dislikes of the elderly. That's true. But I have tried so hard to please the old man, and he still always has a lot of criticism for me, looking at me with contempt and disdain in his eyes, as if to say, "A rustic village girl is not worthy of our family." My heart was like a pinprick, aggrieved and sad. What do I have to do to make my uncle accept me? I thought about it for a long time and decided to have a showdown with the old man. On this day, Xiao Ming went out shopping, and I mustered up the courage to walk up to the old man and kneel on the chair in front of him.
"Uncle, you have always disliked me very much, and every time you criticize me for no reason. I want to have a good talk with you, what do you really dislike about me, and I can correct it, and I hope that there will not be such a stalemate between us. ”
The old man had a cold face and a very disdainful tone: "What are I dissatisfied with you? I'll just say it bluntly, I don't think you're a village girl with any talent, and you're not worthy of our family!
"Don't pretend to be pathetic to me!" The old man's face sank, "I just don't like you! Hurry up and let me out, my son will only lose face if he finds such a mother-in-law as his wife!"
At this moment, Xiao Ming returned. As soon as he entered the door, he saw me kneeling on the ground and sobbing, and the old man sat on the chair with a blue face, and was immediately shocked: "What's wrong with you two? Why are you arguing again!"
I told the old man what he had done, and Xiao Ming angrily asked the old man: "Dad, how can you hurt Hong'er's heart like this? She is so good to you, but you are so evasive!"
The old man became even more irritable, and shouted loudly: "It's a big deal, I will break off the father-son relationship with this mother-in-law!
"Dad!" Xiao Ming was also angry, "Then don't blame me for being unfilial! Hong'er is my wife, and I will always be on her side!"
I hurriedly persuaded Xiao Ming to calm down, but the old man was already so angry that he slammed the door and went back to the room. Xiao Ming hugged me distressedly, the two looked at each other, and the atmosphere at home was heavy and frozen at the moment. The problem between me and my uncle has not been resolved, but has only intensified, which makes me feel more hopeless than ever.
"Call an ambulance!" I let go of all my grievances, successively performed cardiopulmonary resuscitation and position adjustment for the old man, and took care of the old man carefully. Along the way, the old man's condition was good and bad, and he suddenly stopped breathing twice in the ambulance. I held the old man's hand tightly and kept talking to him to encourage him to hold on.
The old man must have experienced a great battle between heaven and man in his heart, and in the end he put down all his prejudices and prejudices, and sincerely bowed to me as a mother-in-law should bow. He said that he used to be so ignorant and discriminated against my family background and identity; Fortunately, I didn't take it to heart, not only saved his life, but also took care of him so carefully. He thanked me from the bottom of his heart for my kindness and vowed never to look down on me again, a rural girl from an ordinary background.
I was so moved that I immediately picked up the old man and said that I had forgiven him a long time ago. We hugged each other like mother and child, tears welling up in our eyes. Xiao Ming was also very excited, and happily said that now our family can finally be united.
My story with my uncle made me understand that people should not judge people by their appearance, and they should not judge a person's origin and identity lightly. Sometimes we need to get to know a person slowly to judge what kind of person he really is. The old man later realized this. I also learned to be tolerant. The four words of repaying grievances with virtue express the wise words of influencing the other party and resolving grievances. Some people may still be prejudiced, but if they are given enough time and space to understand and accept us, everything will fall into place. I was deeply touched by the changes in my uncle. From the initial disdain and discrimination, to the current humility and repentance and sincere love, there must be many unknown mental journeys hidden in between. Sometimes I would sit next to him and ask him softly, "Uncle, can you tell me what made you completely change your opinion of me?"
I whispered with red eyes, "Uncle, I forgive you." I also appreciate your willingness to open up to me. This is more important to me than anything else. ”
The old man nodded, and asked me as if he remembered something: "Xiaohong, I heard Xiao Ming say that when I was sick, you two had a big fight because of me?
When I mentioned this past, I couldn't help but have red eyes. It was the lowest point in our relationship as a couple, and we were almost on the verge of falling apart.
"What?!" The old man's eyes widened, "Could it be that I, a bad old man, almost caused you to get a divorce?!"
I hurriedly prevented the old man from continuing to blame himself: "It's all gone, old man! Fortunately, God has blessed us and brought us back together." I believe this is fate!"
"Great, great, let me touch it, this is my precious offspring!" The old man smiled from ear to ear.
"It's a little princess! The old man was very happy, and personally hugged the little baby girl and looked at it carefully, "She looks like Xiaohong, very beautiful!"
The old man can't put it down. Every little detail of her growth, the old man happily recorded it in his little book. Watching the baby granddaughter grow taller day by day, the smile on the old man's face became brighter and brighter.
In this way, in the harmonious atmosphere of three generations, more than two years have passed. Until one evening, the old man suddenly had a heart attack, and we rushed him to the hospital for rescue. The doctor diagnosed the old man's condition as having reached the end of his life, and it was difficult to treat. Our whole family sat around the hospital bed, and the old man said his last words to us weakly.
obediently kissed the old man loudly on the face, and then tilted his little head and looked at me suspiciously: "Mom, what's wrong with grandpa?"
I picked up my heart and sat down next to my uncle and asked her to hold my grandfather's hand. The old man gave us one last look with satisfaction, and his face was full of happy smiles.
I squeezed my uncle's hand, tears blurring my vision. In a dizziness, I heard the old man's faint last words:
My uncle's funeral was simple, and we invited a few of his old friends to come and say goodbye. I stood in front of the tomb, looking at the photo of the old man on the tombstone, and many past events came to my heart, and I couldn't help but cry like rain.
I wiped away my tears and stood up straight: "The old man has no regrets, he got more happiness than anyone else before he died." The love between mother and son is the most precious treasure in his life. ”
"yes. Xiao Ming nodded, "Fortunately, God favored us and repaired the misunderstanding between us in time, so that the old man spent the best years of his life." It's all thanks to you, Hong'er. ”
Speaking of these, I can't help but think of all the trivialities when I first came to Zhang's house. At that time, I was still young and vigorous, and I was indignant about my uncle's troubles. For example, once I went to the most expensive fruit store in the city and bought a basket of the sweetest dragon fruit to give to my uncle. The old man looked at it impatiently, then frowned and said, "These fruits are not fresh, do you want to fool me?" Then he walked away and ignored it. I felt so bad that I even thought about ignoring this spicy father-in-law again.
When I think back to these details now, I smile forgivingly. My uncle's favorite food before his death was really the dragon fruit I cut with my own hands. He would sit on a deck chair in the courtyard and taste it slowly, with a happy smile on his face.
"Xinxin, come and press grandpa's legs. The old man would beckon Xinxin who was playing to come over, and then instruct her how to properly massage her legs and back, with a smile on her face. Xinxin is also happy to help grandpa massage, and the warm picture of the two of you and me often touches me.
During the Spring Festival of one year, the old man happily announced a good news to us. It turned out that he secretly saved 500,000 yuan, and all his savings wanted to be reserved for his future living expenses and buying a house. Xiao Ming and I were both very moved. The old man said with a smile: "Xinxin is the treasure of our family! What is this savings, when she grows up, grandpa's wish is to see her succeed in her studies and afford a big house!"
One day, Xinxin suddenly jumped up and down to the portrait of the old man, and mysteriously took out a delicate small box from his arms. "Mom, this is for Grandpa!" She said.
Curious, I opened it and saw that it was a delicate silver chain with a small heart-shaped pendant inlaid with two notes inside. One of the notes reads "Beloved Grandpa" and the other reads "Grandpa Loving Heart".
I was moved to pick up my heart and turn in circles: "My heart is the most hearty! Grandpa will be very happy in the spirit of heaven!"
From then on, every Spring Festival or the death day of the old man, Xinxin will send such a small gift to worship the old man. Looking at her immature little face full of respect, I believe that the soul of the old man will definitely smile with satisfaction in the spirit of heaven.
In the years after my uncle left, I often dreamed back to those green years in the middle of the night. I still remember the sweetness when I was newly married to Xiao Ming, and I was hit hard by my uncle's various difficulties. Looking back now, those hardships made me stronger, and I learned to be tolerant and compassionate.
There is no smooth sailing on the road of life, and it is those ups and downs that enrich our life. The story of me and my uncle is a vivid footnote.
It was drizzling on the day the old man left. This cold weather often reminds me of my uncle. When the rain has passed, I will go to the old man's grave alone and faintly recall everything about his life. His ashes are buried here, and his pure heart as a husband and wife and a parent is also buried. This is the most precious spiritual wealth he left us, condensing his thousand words of affection for our mother and son. As long as Xinxin and our husband and wife are still there, the spirit of the old man will always live by our side.
Sometimes I look up at the sky and imagine that the old man is smiling at us on the other side of the blue sky. Or perhaps, when I was alone and quietly crying, it was the old man who turned into a cloud on the horizon and accompanied me through the difficulties.
Life is like a long journey, and there will inevitably be bumps in the road. And gratitude is the most beautiful bridge between heaven and earth. After so many years, the friendship between me and my uncle is like an old wine, the longer it lasts, the more mellow it becomes.
The most precious thing in this world is the family affection between family members. On the occasion of parting, missing is the most affectionate confession; When we get together, cherishing is the most sincere blessing. The days passed, and in the blink of an eye, Xinxin was ten years old. She looks very much like me when I was young, delicate and beautiful, and is recognized by teachers and classmates as a little princess. However, what makes me even more gratified is that the sunny and cheerful personality is simply a copy of the old man.
"Mom, the teacher taught us all kinds of plants in science class today! I memorized seven or eight species!" Xinxin always uses foreign languages mixed with Chinese, because her dream is to become a diplomat when she grows up and travel the world.
"That's great! I smiled and stroked her little head.
"Mom, I also learned an English song, and we'll sing it together after baking the cookies in a while!"
"Okay!"
The crisp and beautiful children's voices echoed in the room, and I couldn't help but redden. This song is so apt to express my old man's support and encouragement to me when I was in trouble, even though he has been dead for many years, I know that he is in heaven to rejoice in our mother and daughter.
"Mom, why are you crying?" Heartfelt concern wiped away my tears.
I smiled and hugged my heart: "Baby, it's okay, Mommy is just so happy!
"Then you can eat a biscuit and try it!" Xinxin sent the biscuit to my mouth, like an old man who learned to take care of people Xi. When I think of this, I'm grateful.
"Mom, do you know, the grandfathers and grandmothers in there are so pitiful, without their children! I want to help them be happy!" There was sympathy and concern in my heart's eyes.
I patted her head approvingly: "If you are so loving, you will surely bring infinite joy to the old people!
"Mom! I told so many jokes to the grandmothers, and they all laughed from ear to ear! I sang and danced to them, and they all said that I was their little sunshine!" My heart happily circled around and shared happiness with me.
"That's amazing!" I'm really proud of her.
"I also made ribbon flowers for each of the grandmothers, and they all said they loved it! I'll bring some snacks for them tomorrow!"
I couldn't help but have red eyes, the kindness of my heart and the virtue of being helpful are simply a copy of my uncle. She is still too young, but she already knows how to warm others in her own way, just as the old man was taken care of by us in his later years. Only gratitude and giving back can make the world warmer.
I believe that the old man is watching the growth of his heart in the spirit of heaven, and I am glad to have such a precious granddaughter. The spiritual blood carried by the heart will be passed down from generation to generation, which is the most precious spiritual wealth left to us by the old man.
In the blink of an eye, Xinxin's eighteenth birthday arrived. We had a little birthday for her and invited a few good friends to come and celebrate her birthday.
"Happy Birthday!
"Happy Birthday!!"
Friends gathered around and put garlands on their hearts. Her shy and bright smile seemed familiar, and I seemed to see my younger self receiving a birthday present from my uncle.
"Open it and take a look. I looked at her with a smile.
"Yes, this is the most precious pendant of grandpa's life. I send it to you now, symbolizing that his blessing and support will always be with you. ”
I helped Xinxin put on the necklace, and she held the heart-shaped pendant and looked at the portrait of the old man with tears in her eyes. The pendant that Xiao Xinxin gave to the old man many years ago is now back in her hand, and at this moment the daughter's mind and the old man's entrustment are integrated, crossing the gap of time and space.
I believe that no matter where he is, he will smile happily. Because in his most precious granddaughter, he will carry the spiritual creed and virtues on which he depends, and will be praised from generation to generation.
Before leaving, he hugged me tightly and whispered in my ear: "Mom, I will definitely cherish my grandfather's last wish, inherit his virtues, and be a caring person." I will definitely live up to expectations and make you and your grandfather proud!"
Looking at the figure of her heart drifting away, I can't help but think of the bits and pieces of her childhood.
I hurriedly comforted: "Uncle, everything has passed, and the deep love between our mother and son is the best comfort." Let's decide on the name 'Xinxin', the meaning is so good!"
The old man was excited, and repeated the name "Xinxin" with a smile on his face, and he couldn't wait to hug his granddaughter.
Sure enough, only a few days after Xinxin was born, the old man began to take good care of this little princess. We were worried that the old man was weak and couldn't hold the child, but he was very quick to get started, and he learned all the things of feeding, changing diapers, and putting him to sleep before going to bed, which was even better than us.
"Come on, come on, let grandpa hug. As soon as he heard the cry of his heart, the old man rushed over in a hurry, and then softly coaxed her to sleep.
Once, in the middle of the night, my heart suddenly burst into tears, and for a while both of us were a little overwhelmed. At this time, I saw the old man rushing over with sleepy eyes, holding his heart in his arms and patting her gently to comfort her, while humming a nursery rhyme softly. After a while, Xinxin fell back asleep, and Xiao Ming and I looked at each other and couldn't help but smile slightly.
Who doesn't feel sorry for his own flesh and bones? The old man regards his heart as the pearl in his palm, and he simply can't leave an inch. Every year on our birthdays, my uncle will be the first to prepare gifts for us to celebrate our birthday.
"Look, this is a gift prepared by grandpa!" Every time, Xinxin would be so excited that she would fly into the arms of the old man and kiss him loudly on the face.
"Thank you, grandpa!
Looking at the happiness on the old man's face, our husband and wife were also deeply grateful. Thanks to God, when the old man came to the end of the rest of his life, he still felt the supreme honor of being a grandfather.
"Uncle, you are blessed by the spirit of heaven and grow up happily. She will learn Xi well and grow up. I whispered in my heart.
In the blink of an eye, Xinxin was eighteen years old, and I was very pleased with the appearance of her as an adult. Today, I gave the most precious silver chain necklace to the old man as a coming-of-age gift, which means that the old man's blessing will always be with her.
This chain has witnessed the transformation of our mother-son friendship, and it is also the spiritual sustenance that the old man relies on for survival. It will be passed down from generation to generation, carrying the entrustment and blessings of the whole family. I believe that Xinxin will cherish the old man's entrustment and practice the virtue of benevolence and kindness all his life.
Now that Xinxin has grown up, her figure looks so tall and tall, like a small tree that is growing up. I believe that under the nourishment of this fountain of love, the heart will surely grow and add more vibrant green leaves to this tree. This is the most precious spiritual wealth left to us by the old man, which will continue to spread and bless the future of the heart.
Sometimes in the dead of night, I would look up at the stars and try to find the star where my uncle was. I believe he is there watching us, smiling with relief at the bright future of our hearts.
"Uncle, Xinxin will definitely study hard and Xi and grow up. Go ahead and go. ”
The wind blows the flowers and falls, gathers and disperses, this is life. Gratitude can make flowers bloom more brilliantly; The fountain of gratitude nourishes the next generation and continues to bloom. The most precious thing in this world is fate. My friendship with my uncle has gone through 12 years of ups and downs, but it is deeper and deeper than before.