43-year-old Aunt Zhang, for a poor boyfriend who drove a motorcycle, was willing to live in the mountains for 20 years, and never went back to see her four children.
Now 63 years old, Aunt Zhang unfortunately fell seriously ill, and her boyfriend sent her to her son's house under the pretext of having no money, and asked her son to contribute money for treatment.
Unexpectedly, the son didn't let her enter the door, but lived in a small shed next to the toilet, and said: If you think about the beauty, the mother can't go to the hall again. Aunt Zhang explained aggrievedly: I have a hard time.
What is the problem?
The eldest daughter-in-law
45 years ago, Zhang Zhengxiang, who had just turned 18, went out to work alone from his hometown in Jiangxi, and accidentally met Luo Qiang on the way.
Luo Qiang is a native of Hunan, 23 years old at the time, a full 5 years older than Zhang Zhengxiang, the two fell in love at first sight, and lived together on the day they met.
After that, Zhang Zhengxiang naturally followed Luo Qiang back home and simply held a wedding, because she was too young to get a marriage certificate.
After marriage, the relationship between the two was not bad, and Zhang Zhengxiang gave birth to 4 sons one after another, including 2 sons and 2 daughters.
However, when the eldest son had just turned 16 years old, after Luo Qiang went out to work as usual, Zhang Zhengxiang suddenly said nothing and ran away from home.
She walked along the mountain road for two days, penniless, and when she was about to faint from hunger, she saw a man eating on the side of the road.
This man's name is Li Ming, he makes a living from Kaimo, he saw that Zhang Zhengxiang was pitiful, and took the initiative to ask her to come over to eat together, and after eating, Zhang Zhengxiang, who had nowhere to go, followed Li Ming home.
In the blink of an eye, 20 years have passed, until 3 years ago, Zhang Zhengxiang was diagnosed with a serious illness, and he had to undergo surgery in time, and he had to do dialysis 3 times a month, which required a lot of money.
Li Ming's monthly income and maintenance of the basic life of the two of them were difficult, and he couldn't come up with money to operate on Zhang Zhengxiang, so he directly left Zhang Zhengxiang in the hospital.
Zhang Zhengxiang had no choice but to cry and find his two sons.
The two sons are now married and have children, but because of the family's poor economic conditions, they still live in the same house.
After seeing Zhang Zhengxiang, the two sons stopped at the door and didn't let her in, Zhang Zhengxiang had nowhere to go, so she could only squat pitifully at the door and not leave.
The two sons had to find a temporary residence for Zhang Zhengxiang, but after only two or three days, Li Ming suddenly angrily found the TV station for help, saying:
"The children are so unfilial that they let Zhang Zhengxiang live in the toilet. ”
In order to find out the truth of the matter, everyone soon came to Luo's house.
The eldest son of the Luo family explained: instead of living in the toilet, he built a temporary shed and put a bed next to the toilet for Zhang Zhengxiang to live temporarily.
Because, in the eyes of the two sons: the mother has been away from home for 20 years, and she has never come back to visit her children, and she has not fulfilled her obligation to support her children, and emotionally, she is even more sorry for her father.
Therefore, after his father came back for the New Year, he decided not to let Zhang Zhengxiang enter the house.
Subsequently, everyone came to Zhang Zhengxiang's residence, it was December, it was very cold, it was still raining, the shed was leaking, and the bedding was already more than half wet.
Because of the proximity to the toilet, there was still a bad smell in the shed, and Zhang Zhengxiang was shrinking in the corner of the bed, his frozen face and lips were blue.
Seeing Zhang Zhengxiang's miserable appearance, Li Ming couldn't help but start crying, and while crying, he accused the four children of the Luo family of being unfilial.
Although the economic conditions of the two sons are not good, at least there is a 2-story house, can Zhang Zhengxiang move in first?
The two sons categorically refused, and at this time, the eldest daughter-in-law came back from outside, and she suddenly revealed: It's not that we don't want to take care of our mother-in-law, but this is not the first time.
It turned out that three years ago, after Zhang Zhengxiang fell seriously ill for the first time, he was sent to his son's house by Li Ming, and the four children contributed money and efforts to take Zhang Zhengxiang to the hospital for treatment.
After several months of treatment, after getting better, Zhang Zhengxiang quietly left his son's house and went to find Li Ming, which made the children very dissatisfied.
Now it is the second time that Zhang Zhengxiang has fallen ill, and his condition has become more serious, and he was abandoned by Li Ming in the hospital, and his children are unwilling to take care of it anymore.
The eldest daughter-in-law also bluntly said: The mother of the next house, since she chose to leave back then, she is not a member of this family, she should not come back, and she can't go to the church again.
Hearing this, Li Ming couldn't help but quarrel with his eldest daughter-in-law.
The mediator asked Li Ming: What is the relationship between you and Zhang Zhengxiang? Why do you care so much about Zhang Zhengxiang? Li Ming said hesitantly: We are just ordinary friends who have known each other for 20 years.
The eldest daughter-in-law sneered and shouted: You are not her ordinary friend, but her boyfriend who has lived with her for 20 years. Li Ming bowed his head in embarrassment and did not refute.
In this weather, if you continue to live outside, it will definitely aggravate the condition, and after the persuasion of the mediator, the eldest daughter-in-law took a step back and proposed:
If I have to let Zhang Zhengxiang live in, then I must pay 1,000 yuan per month for rent and living expenses in the name of the tenant, and I will take care of her, laundry and cook for her...
Before he finished speaking, Li Ming angrily retorted: Why do you have to pay money? Since she has given birth to a son and has the grace of nurturing, her son has the obligation to take care of her.
The eldest daughter-in-law immediately asked: Then she has been with you for 20 years, why did you leave her in the hospital, and why didn't you take care of her yourself?
Li Ming said nothing, turned around and strode away.
The mediator followed Li Ming and asked: After all, we have been together for 20 years? Why are you ruthless, regardless of Zhang Zhengxiang? Li Ming replied in a choked voice: I have no money.
Subsequently, everyone came to Li Ming's house, but they didn't expect that Li Ming lived in the mountains, with no village, no neighbors, only a dilapidated earthen house.
Li Ming is in his 60s this year, he has no parents and no siblings since he was a child, and before he met Zhang Zhengxiang, he had always lived alone in the mountains.
Walk into a dilapidated mud house with no furniture in it, just a lame bed and an old-fashioned television.
With such an environment and conditions, Zhang Zhengxiang can still live for 20 years, it is really not easy, why doesn't Li Ming cherish Zhang Zhengxiang?
Li Ming cried and explained: At the beginning of the diagnosis of the disease, I took all the money in my hand to treat her, but then I really couldn't get the money, so I sent her to my son's house.
For the first time, his son accepted it and took care of Zhang Zhengxiang with money and efforts. The second time, I thought that my sons would accept it, but I didn't know that my sons didn't care.
There was no way, Li Ming had no choice but to leave Zhang Zhengxiang in the hospital and ask the hospital to notify his son, but he didn't expect that the sons would not let her enter the house if they didn't treat her.
Li Ming couldn't bear to see Zhang Zhengxiang living in a shed, so he found the TV station for help, hoping that everyone would help persuade his sons.
Speaking of this, Li Ming began to cry again.
But the attitude of the two sons was very firm, and everyone could only contact Zhang Zhengxiang's 2 daughters and ask the daughters to come forward to persuade the 2 brothers to take care of their mothers
The youngest daughter took the initiative to tell everyone: Although I didn't take care of my mother, since my mother fell ill 3 years ago, my sister and I have combined to treat my mother with more than 100,000 yuan.
Both daughters said that they could understand their mother, because their father used to treat their mother badly, and their mother ran away from home. But the two sons couldn't accept Zhang Zhengxiang.
Little daughter
Because, after Zhang Zhengxiang and Li Ming were together, Luo Qiang once led 4 children together and found Li Ming's house to take Zhang Zhengxiang back, but Zhang Zhengxiang refused.
Moreover, the mountain where Li Ming lives is actually only a few hours away from the Luo family, which is not particularly far, but Zhang Zhengxiang has not gone back to visit his children in the past 20 years.
Even, when the two sons got married and had children, they specially found someone to notify Zhang Zhengxiang, but Zhang Zhengxiang did not go back to participate in the life events of the two sons.
After learning of his son's thoughts, Zhang Zhengxiang told everyone aggrievedly: I also have a hard time, so I have to leave.
It turned out that in the first few years after marriage, Luo Qiang was not bad to Zhang Zhengxiang, but later, Luo Qiang was addicted to drinking, and every time he drank alcohol, he would do something to Zhang Zhengxiang, and she couldn't bear it before leaving.
The village committee also persuaded the two sons: After all, it was Zhang Zhengxiang who conceived and gave birth to you in October, and she also has the grace of giving birth to you, so you should take care of her.
The two sons did not speak, but early in the morning of the second day, Zhang Zhengxiang was sent to the hospital for dialysis.
The doctor told everyone: Zhang Zhengxiang's 4 children are still good, in the past 3 years, if there is any problem, the two daughters have paid for it, and the two sons have contributed to send her to the hospital to take care of her.
Since the two sons are willing to take care of Zhang Zhengxiang, can they let Zhang Zhengxiang live in the house? The two sons still hesitated to refuse.
Everyone had to dial Luo Qiang's phone, and Luo Qiang sighed and told about his dissatisfaction.
Since Zhang Zhengxiang left home and he took his children to pick up and was rejected, he has worked hard to make money by himself, raising 4 children alone, under great pressure and living a very hard life.
Later, in order to marry his two sons, Luo Qiang borrowed a large amount of money to build a two-story building, one floor for each of his two sons, and bought a wedding for his two sons.
Now, in order to repay the money, he is 68 years old, almost 70 years old, and he has to go to other places to work to earn money.
Knowing that Zhang Zhengxiang was seriously ill and living in a shed next to the toilet, Luo Qiang thought about it and decided to respect his son's meaning: as long as his son nodded, let Zhang Zhengxiang enter the house.
The two sons nodded and agreed, but the eldest daughter-in-law put forward another condition: Li Ming must be asked to promise that she will never contact her mother-in-law in the future, and after her health improves, her mother-in-law will not be able to go to Li Ming again.
After Zhang Zhengxiang and Li Ming both nodded and agreed, their son and daughter-in-law didn't care anymore, and immediately vacated a room, cleaned it, and let Zhang Zhengxiang move in.
Li Ming was reluctant to let Zhang Zhengxiang go, but he couldn't help it, so he returned home sadly, crying and packing up Zhang Zhengxiang's clothes.
Li Ming is also a poor person, he has no parents and relatives since he was a child, and he has been living alone until the appearance of Zhang Zhengxiang made him feel at home.
If it weren't for the lack of money, he couldn't bear to be separated from Zhang Zhengxiang, but there was really no way, he didn't want to see Zhang Zhengxiang tortured by illness, so he could only send her back.
And Zhang Zhengxiang is a poor person must have something to hate, Luo Qiang did something to her, and it is understandable that she ran away from home.
However, at such a close distance, she didn't go back to look at the children for 20 years, which was really ruthless.
(Source: Before and After People)