The scene after the death of Da Gege in "The Gate of the Mansion" revealed the secret she had hidden all her life

01 The truth about Da Gege's unmarried pregnancy

Da Gege is the daughter of Zhan Wangfu, but her life has not been easy since she was a child.

Eniang died early, Zhan Wang Ye led the troops to fight, was not in his hometown, and later lived in Beijing City, rarely caring about Da Gege.

Later, when his daughter was talking about marriage, Er Gege replaced Da Gege into the palace, and Da Gege, who was far away in Inner Mongolia, was ignored and was not brought to Beijing until he was 29 years old.

29 years old is the age when a girl hates to marry, and Da Gege hates to marry even more.

Because she has lacked love since she was a child, she is eager to find the lover of her life to complete her life.

The more loveless a girl is, the more she yearns for love, not to mention that her twenties are the age when a girl longs for love.

After coming to Beijing, Da Gege came into contact with Guiwu, and Guiwu's sweet words filled her yearning for love, and also made her get pregnant before marriage.

After being pregnant, Da Gege not only didn't wait for Guiwu's promise to her, but this negative man was afraid of setting fire and hiding.

Da Gege secretly gave birth to the child, but was found out by Prince Zhan and kicked out of the house, and gave away the dragon and phoenix fetus she gave birth to, Da Gege began to run around in order to find his child.

02 Da Gege doesn't recognize his daughter's secret

Da Gege left King Zhan's Mansion for the sake of her two children, and she did find two children at her own insistence.

But Da Gege only took away his son Huang Li, not his daughter Huang Chun.

Is it because Huang Chun is a girl, and Da Gege is patriarchal?

In fact, because Da Gege is a girl, she clearly knows the plight of a girl who is outcast, so she would rather take her son to suffer than let her daughter suffer.

What's more, raising two children by one person is really difficult for Da Gege.

Although Da Gege did not take away her daughter, she let her son secretly protect Huang Chun to prevent Huang Chun from encountering unladylike people or suffering accidents, and she did not stay away from her daughter, but just lived silently in the place where her daughter lived.

Until his daughter married Bai Jingqi, Da Gege never showed up to find his daughter.

Because when her daughter was a child, she didn't recognize her daughter because of various difficulties, and she married into a mansion and lived a rich life, Da Gege never thought of letting her daughter help.

She is a stubborn and proud woman in her bones, and she will not ignore her face in order to enjoy her daughter's filial piety.

She just wants to stay by her daughter's side silently.

03 The truth of never being married in your life

It stands to reason that after Da Gege left King Zhan's Mansion and found her child, she could re-enter the marriage, why didn't she marry in her life?

Is it because Guiwu, a negative man, made Da Gege lose hope in marriage?

Or is it because Da Gege loves Guiwu deeply in his heart?

The person Da Gege hated the most in his life was Guiwu, it was Guiwu who made Da Gege lose face, and it was also Guiwu's irresponsibility that made Da Gege driven out of King Zhan's mansion, and it was Guiwu who made Da Gege lose hope for marriage.

In the process of looking for the child, she did not forget to look for Guiwu.

It wasn't until she was dying that her son Huang Li brought Guiwu to Da Gege.

The reason why Huang Li wanted to bring Guiwu to Da Gege was because this was what Da Gege told him to do.

Da Gege raised her children alone and spent her life, but she was unwilling in her heart.

She is such a proud and stubborn person, unwilling to be betrayed by Guiwu, and unwilling to see the wrong person.

She wants to find this man to make it clear and ask to understand, time has passed, they are all old, but this hurdle is still difficult in Da Gege's heart.

It was precisely because Da Gege couldn't let go of this matter, so after Huang Li found Guiwu, she told him that Huang Li was his son.

And this son hated Guiwu's father so much that he kept punching and kicking him.

In fact, it's not that Huang Li hates Guiwu, Huang Li's hatred for Guiwu comes from Da Gege's teachings, and it is Da Gege who hates Guiwu.

Da Gege is hated because of love.

She also loved Guiwu very much, so she did everything possible to let Huang Li find Guiwu and tell him the whereabouts of his son.

When Huang Li punched and kicked Guiwu, the reason why Da Gege desperately stopped him was because she still couldn't let go of this man who betrayed her.

And after Da Gege's death, her son Huang Li buried her with the dead Guiwu, which was also the end of the relationship between Da Gege and Guiwu.

In fact, if you think about this matter carefully, it has a lot to do with Da Gege, Huang Li hated Guiwu under the teaching of his mother Da Gege, but Huang Li has also seen the picture of his mother not letting go of Guiwu since he was a child.

It was precisely because of Da Gege's obsession with Guiwu and her inability to let go that she asked her son to find Guiwu, perhaps it was Da Gege's wish to be buried with Guiwu.

From love to hate in her life, she has never let go of her obsession, and it is precisely because of this obsession that her life is very miserable.

Da Gege's misery not only comes from his character, but also from his own internal friction with himself.

And such women are not in the minority in life.

Lin Qingxuan said: "If you want to enjoy Qinghuan, the only way is to keep your little world, wash your soul, let go of obsessions, not be impetuous, not impatient, not in a hurry." ”

This is the most important mentality that the big Gege should learn, rather than consuming themselves with others, it is better to let go of obsession and live their own life.

After all, time has passed, and what love is not love has long lost its weight in our hearts and has become less important.

But we love the wrong people, and when we take the wrong path, we should turn around in time, instead of going further and further down the wrong path.

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