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It has become the norm for old men to marry young wives in the current entertainment industry, and some even have an age difference of dozens of years.
For example, the famous director Zhang Jizhong, his wife is a full 30 years younger than him, isn't this "old cows eat tender grass"?
However, the actor we are talking about today, his marriage can be described as full of "comedy".
He is a famous sketch actor in the mainland, don't look at him looking very honest and honest, but in fact, he is very "hearty" behind his back.
Because, not only did he marry a girl who was 11 years younger than him, but he also tried his best to get the praise of his father-in-law.
At first, Yadan's father once angrily reprimanded: "Don't beat my daughter's idea, I won't agree to it." ”
However, I don't know what "ecstasy soup" was used for the period, and in the end, the father-in-law treated him as his own son.
What did he do to make the other party's attitude usher in a 360-degree change?
The history of the actor's rise to fame
Maybe many people have not been impressed, who is this actor called full stop?
In fact, if we have seen his works, it is not difficult to find that the works he starred in are quite familiar to everyone.
However, there will still be people who wonder: "The full stop is not good-looking, and he is not tall, how can he become popular?" ”
I don't know if you have watched a TV series "Family with Children", it can be said that this TV series has made everyone know the full stop.
Secondly, in the early eighties of the last century, he participated in many sketches and also appeared in the Spring Festival Gala.
"Cheer Up" with Huang Hong back then was the sketch starring in the full stop, do you remember him when it comes to this?
The full stop can gradually enter the public's field of vision, in fact, it is inseparable from his identity.
Because, when he was young, he was a serious soldier, and later slowly entered the art troupe and became an actor.
And the full stop can be "killed" from the film and television industry, which is inseparable from the help of the nobles behind it.
The person who led him into the showbiz and his first benefactor was called Ye Jinglin, and his mentor was Teacher Liu Lanfang.
Therefore, regardless of experience or identity, this is undoubtedly an invisible help for the full stop.
Not only that, but in fact, full stop's ability to stick to being an actor is inseparable from his talent and hard work.
As early as when he was 15 years old, he had already appeared on TV and participated in a program in Liaoning Province.
His humor is innate, and he can perform comedy to the fullest, especially to attract people's attention.
In 1987, I had already practiced my skills, thinking that if I could perform on a bigger stage, I would understand my wish.
Unexpectedly, his mentor Ye Jinglin didn't say a word, and directly introduced him to the Spring Festival Gala stage in Shenyang that year.
That year, he became a little famous in the Northeast with his work "Examining Actors", which also made him noticed by Zhao Benshan.
However, he expressed his thoughts very firmly:
"I don't think I'm worthy of being an actor yet, and I still need to continue to train."
It wasn't until 1994 that he completely ended his military career and ushered in his first turning point in his life.
After studying seriously in the army, he participated in a movie called "Face to Face Back to Back".
This movie directly made him nominated for the Golden Rooster Award, and also completely opened the bright road for his future interpretation.
In the next seven years, he not only won the Best Actor, but even appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in 1999.
An actor can come to this point, which can be said to have completed the most important stage of life.
The most important things in a man's life are nothing more than career and family.
Now in terms of career, it can be said that he has completed 80 percent, but in terms of love, he has not been able to find a breakthrough for a long time.
It can even be said that his married life is a mess.
Emotional experience with Yadan
In fact, full stop has always had an unbearable marriage, and once had a daughter.
So, this is also the reason why he did not dare to contact new feelings from then on.
It wasn't until he met a girl named Guo Yadan that he slowly opened his heart.
Due to the breakdown of the previous relationship, there is always a hurdle in my heart that I can't get over, but Guo Yadan doesn't mind at all.
Not only do we eat with him every day, but we also share each other's visions.
The full stop also gave her the nickname "Yadan" with special humor.
However, in the face of the girl in front of him, who was 11 years younger than himself, he didn't know whether it was right or wrong for the two to be together.
Until 1996, the two had been ambiguous for a long time at this time, so they made their relationship public with the public.
The friends around them are all happy for them, but this is seriously opposed by Yadan's parents.
Even her father threatened to fight for his life as long as he dared to be with his daughter.
In their eyes, the age of the full stop is not only a problem, but also the appearance and height are particularly mediocre.
What's more, he has also been divorced and has a biological daughter by his side, who can accept this.
In fact, if you think about it carefully, the worries of Yadan's parents are also taken for granted, after all, there is too much dross on the full stop.
However, when she heard her parents belittle her man like this, Yadan was not happy, saying that she must be with full stop.
Moreover, she also took the full stop home privately and told her parents about his advantages in public.
Faced with his daughter's vow, the father couldn't refuse anymore, but he still privately investigated through acquaintances.
However, this investigation can be said to have made Yadan's father grow his mouth.
None of the friends around him said that he was bad, and they all said that his character and virtue were notoriously good.
This also completely dispelled the prejudice of Yadan's father against him, and slowly accepted the son-in-law in front of him.
And the full stop finally let go of the big stone in his heart, and promised his father-in-law that he would take care of the girl for the rest of his life.
In the end, after getting along for a long time, the full stop slowly integrated into Yadan's family.
And the father-in-law also willingly married his daughter to him, and he has completely regarded the full stop as a family.
In fact, the full stop can get the attention of Yadan's father so quickly, and it is inseparable from a very important thing.
In 2007, Yadan's younger brother died in a car accident, and the family suddenly fell into grief.
You must know that there is such a boy in the family, the daughter is married, and now the son is gone, the old couple is very sad.
It was also at this time that the full stop took on the responsibility of his son and took care of their two elders with his heart.
At that time, he didn't say a word, but knelt down in front of them and promised:
"From now on, I will be the son of your second elder, and I will do my filial piety as a son."
After that, the full stop also fulfilled his promise and took the two of them to live in Beijing.
As long as they have needs, he will put down all the work at hand without hesitation to accompany the second elder.
In 2010, the full stop also ushered in his and Yadan's children, and the two old people have had a smile on their faces since then.
And took the initiative to take care of the little grandson, and was busy every day.
Seeing the joy of the two old men from the bottom of their hearts, the full stop was also redeemed in his heart at this time.
And the father-in-law said bluntly: "He is my own son, even better than my own son." ”
epilogue
Full stop was recognized by his father-in-law with his practical actions and integrated into the life of the family.
The age gap may be important for many people, because it is not only the family but also the age.
However, it turns out that even if the two are more than ten years apart, they can also live happily.
Take the full stop himself, he not only fulfilled his responsibilities to his wife, but also took on the burden of the other party's family.
It all stems from the responsibility of being a man and the thoughtfulness and love for his wife.
So, can age be used to measure the happiness of a relationship?
The answer is no, because today's full stop is the best proof of this.