The mother is puzzled by her son's viewing of pornographic films, and dares to ask parents, how will you deal with this challenge?
Parent Classes | In the face of our son's watching pornographic films, how should we deal with it?
As parents, we all want to provide a healthy and safe environment for our children to grow up. However, when we find out that our son watches pornography, many parents often feel confused and helpless. In this article, I'll explore how to deal with this challenge, sharing experiences and advice to help every parent better cope.
Dear Parents and Friends,
Today, I would like to discuss with you a sensitive and important topic - my son's watching pornography. With the popularity of the internet, children are exposed to more information, including content that we may not be exposed to them. What should we do when we find out that our son is browsing pornographic content? This is undoubtedly a challenge, but it is also a problem that we as parents must face and solve.
First of all, we need to remain calm and rational.
Faced with such a situation, we may feel angry, worried, and disappointed. However, it is important to know that this is a normal developmental process, and children will develop curiosity and desire to explore these contents as they explore their gender and sexual identity. Therefore, we need to approach it with a calm attitude and see it as an opportunity to educate and guide.
Next, we need to have an open conversation with your child.
First of all, we should find a suitable time and place to sit down with the child and have a good talk. We can ask the child how he was exposed to the content and find out what his thoughts and motivations were. At the same time, we need to explain to him the inappropriateness and danger of these contents, and help him understand that it is not appropriate for his age and mental development.
In addition, we can use some educational resources, such as books, movies or guidance from professional institutions, to provide children with correct knowledge of sex education.
We need to let children understand that sex is a natural and beautiful thing, but it also needs to be explored and understood at the right time, in the right place and in the right way. Such education can help children establish correct values and values, and cultivate healthy sexual cognition and behavior.
In addition to this, we also need to strengthen the supervision of children's online use.
By setting up home network security control software, limiting online time and monitoring online behavior, we can reduce children's exposure to inappropriate content. At the same time, we should also learn to explore the Internet world with our children and teach them the ability to distinguish and resist bad information.
Finally, we need to give our children enough love and support.
My son may watch pornography because he has some inner problems or anxieties, and we need to listen to his needs and troubles, and seek professional help when appropriate. We want our children to feel that we are their most trustworthy people, and that we will be there for them to give them sincere companionship and support no matter what happens.
Dear parents and friends, we are not alone in the challenge of our sons watching pornography. As the editor of Toutiao, I hope to share my experience and advice through this article to help every parent be more calm and rational on this issue. Our goal is to create a safe and healthy environment for children to grow up and develop healthily.
I hope you find what I have shared helpful, and I look forward to further discussions and exchanges with you. [Bikoin] [Light the lantern] [Light the lantern] [Light the lantern]
Conclusion
When parents face the challenge of their sons watching pornography, we need to deal with it calmly and rationally. Through honest dialogue, providing the right knowledge about sexuality education, strengthening online supervision, and giving children enough care and support, we can effectively guide them to establish correct sexual values and codes of conduct. Let's work together to create a safe and healthy environment for children to grow up! [Bikoin] [Bikoin] [Bikoin]