Lu Yao spent his life writing "Ordinary World", which is full of sincere narratives and god-like details, which have influenced generations of Chinese. Many classic words, rich in enlightening philosophies for future generations, hide the wisdom of his life.
1. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things
2. No one's life path is straight and there is no fork in the road
3. Of course, money is important! But I also think that people should have something else to live for a lifetime...
Fourth, even the life of a great man is full of hardships, and what is wrong with ordinary people suffering a little
5. Nothing is set in stone, including human relationships
The sentences in "Ordinary World" are very short and simple, but they speak thoroughly about life. Reading it, you can see through the truth of life; Reading it can save you a lot of detours in your life; Read it and know how to face the hardships and setbacks on the road of life; Reading it helps us find the true joy of life. This may be the reason why "Ordinary World" has always been a bestseller.
What is a person's life for?
This is a question that everyone must think about and answer, and no one can avoid it. Because the road is under your feet, your feet are on you, and the direction of your goal is in your heart.
People, what is life for? Is it fame and fortune? Is it money? Is it status? Or what? You must set your own goals and strive for them. But there are some things, no matter how hard you put your heart and effort, no matter how much time you spend, you still can't get it. It means that your pursuit has gone in the wrong direction. Ideally, you are not destined to eat this bowl of rice. For example, if you want to enter the system, but you can't get in no matter how hard you try.
In the vast world of living beings, there are some things that cannot be obtained through hard work. Choose a career that suits you and enjoy the joy of pursuit.
The path of life is different.
Life is a one-way marathon, not speed, but endurance, from the starting point to the end, people who run all the way must adjust their strategies and tactics due to road conditions, endurance, and environment; There is a section of scenery, where the road has straight up and down, there are detours and forks, there are bumps and thorns.
Some of the people who run on the road have a first-mover advantage, and some have the potential to be a latecomer. Don't always look at others going well, but look at yourself that everything is not going well. In fact, behind every smiling face you see, there is an unknown difficult past. It's just that some people like to hide it in their hearts, while others show it on their faces.
Money is important, but it's not the only thing.
Money is a good thing, but you don't bring it in life, and you don't take it away in death. Having money can make a good life, but the process of making money is hard. How much money a person can earn in his life, some people say it is providence, some people say it is opportunity, but it is inseparable from the time, place, and people.
90% of the world's things can be solved with money, but it is not the only one, health, freedom, true love, and spirit may not be able to be bought with money. Therefore, Lu Yao believes that a person can work hard to pursue money, but occasionally he should also stop and pursue something spiritual. After all, a person's life is only a short hundred years, so don't be too bitter about yourself.
Eating from a snack is not necessarily a bad thing
As the saying goes, "only when you eat hard can you become a superior person". There are countless stories of celebrities and great people in ancient and modern times, and there are countless twists and turns, as long as you often read the biographies of celebrities, from their personal growth experiences, you will find the true meaning of "bitterness comes sweetly".
From snacks to bitterness, you can not only hone your will and strengthen your body; And I understand the smell of fireworks in the world better, I am more down-to-earth, and I cherish everything I have that is not easy to come by.
In the world, human relationships are the most complicated
There is an old saying that is very classic: "Eli fellowship, and profit is scattered; Intersect with potential, and tilt when you go; Intersect with power, and abandon power if you lose it; Fellowship with righteousness, the earth lasts forever. "When you are about to retire, open the contacts in your mobile phone, 70% of them are due to work, except for work, you may not be able to find a topic of communication, and deleting it will not affect you at all. The next 20% or so are friendships, most of which are friends you made when you were in office, and most of them are mutual use relationships; Once you leave the circle of interests, there seems to be no reason to go back and forth. There are only a handful of true friends, close friends, and departed brothers who can be established through this bond.
Someone will ask? Whether people are too realistic and snobbish, the answer is yes, there is no need to question. Because man is a fickle animal. The relationships established between people will change with time, environment, status, and cognition. This is due to the variability of the human heart, and human nature is determined by complexity.
Therefore, the most rare word "sincerity" in interpersonal interactions, the standard answer is "time". Because, a person's life is a process of constantly meeting new friends, deleting old friends, and leaving true friends. Accompany you from knowing lifelong friends, there are so few, enough!