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Editor|Distant clouds
"I used to be suicidal by my mother" "I don't even have the freedom to drink two sips of water"
Zhu Yuchen once had a great future and was one of the "four big and small students in the mainland". also had a beautiful relationship, and Tang Wei had a young love when he was on campus, and later had a relationship with Huo Siyan, and was also with "model girlfriend" Jiang Yan.
But he is 44 years old and unmarried, known as "Ma Bao Man", lying in the dog kennel in the variety show and collapsing and crying, all of which is the "credit" of his mother.
Is it "maternal love" or "desire to control"?
«——[Crying in the kennel, emotional breakdown and wanting to commit suicide ·] ——»
In a variety show, it was Zhu Yuchen's friends who got together, and they chatted about "we have servants left who are not married" in the push cup change, which made Zhu Yuchen stunned.
After his friend left, Zhu Yuchen looked at the empty home and suddenly had an emotional breakdown, lying in the kennel and crying, "How come no one stays by my side."
This is not the first time that Zhu Yuchen has lost control of his emotions, and he has also tried to commit suicide by "touching the electric door" to get rid of this pain.
The source of his pain is his mother, as the "old man" in the family and the only son, Zhu's mother can be said to regard him as an "eyeball".
He sent him if he wanted to learn the piano, asked the teacher's son about his performance every day, and interfered with his friendship, resulting in Zhu Yuchen not having a friend at that time, let alone going to other people's homes to play.
"Food, clothing, housing and transportation" must be under the control of Zhu's mother, she feels that this is my love for my son, but she does not know that Zhu Yuchen wants to escape this love every moment.
So he chose to leave his family and go to school in Beijing. But her son's resistance made Zhu's mother very sad, crying and begging her son, wanting to go to Beijing with him to accompany him.
Zhu Yuchen did not beat Zhu's mother, which also led to his "inability to raise his head" in front of his classmates in college.
Zhu's mother entered the bedroom and began to work, Zhu Yuchen was a little embarrassed and wanted to make the bed by herself, but was quickly snatched by Zhu's mother's eyes, and asked him to "leave it alone, I'll come."
After that, he asked his roommate, "Do you sleep and snore?" "You can't let them disturb your son's rest.
Seeing that the window was full of creepers, Mother Zhu was even more dissatisfied, not to mention that the lighting was not good, and insects crawling over would affect her son's health.
She wanted to scald these "annoying" plants with boiling water, but was stopped by the school, and Mother Zhu stopped. It was also stipulated that Zhu Yuchen would call her every day before leaving Zhu Yuchen's dormitory.
Zhu Yuchen once also recorded his life on social platforms, which is one of his few pleasures, and he didn't expect his mother to write down every one.
After he knew it, he had no interest in recording, but he didn't expect that Zhu's mother would come over to him specifically to ask him if he had encountered something and why he didn't write it.
In this way, Zhu Yuchen spent his college life, and finally became famous for filming, but he didn't expect his mother to come to "insert a foot", which also affected his career.
«——[·Love that cannot be refused, drinking water is a luxury.] ——»
Zhu Yuchen became popular as Huazi in "Struggle", and also received various acting invitations, which was very bad for Zhu's mother.
My son's nutrition couldn't keep up, so he prepared healthy meals and healthy fruit and vegetable juices at home, and went to visit the class to see his son drink it before leaving.
However, the long-term diet did not taboo caused Zhu Yuchen to frequently "rotten face", and his mother's strict requirements for diet also made him increasingly rounded and unable to find a chance to lose weight.
Not to mention food, even drinking water mother must ensure that the water he enters is "harmless", sometimes even pure water cannot be drunk.
The change in image made it difficult for him to take on the play, and Zhu's mother's "concern" also made him restrained.
In the face of "martial arts" and "fighting", the actors are always inevitable to bump, and Mother Zhu began to cry when she saw her son take this kind of play.
Zhu Yuchen's drama path became narrower and narrower, and slowly lost its original scenery. Some people will say, why didn't Zhu Yuchen resist?
He once replied on the show that his mother had been involved with him since he was a child, and he was "domesticated" and had no signs of resistance.
This also caused Zhu Yuchen to become more and more "mom bao", and there was no way to be spoiled by his mother for three loves, as if no star could enter Zhu's mother's "eyes".
«——[·————
He met Tang Wei when he was a student, and the two agreed to be admitted to Chinese opera together, worked hard together and got along with classmates day and night, and their relationship was very stable and lived together.
However, Zhu's mother was very dissatisfied with Tang Wei, and a woman ran over to live with the man before she was married, and Zhu's mother thought that she was "shameless".
More importantly, the only point of soup is not "good wife and good mother". When he took off his clothes, he threw them in the washing machine, and he didn't wear makeup, which was Tang Wei's shortcomings in Zhu's mother's eyes.
And in the face of the quarrel between the two, Zhu Yuchen became a "dumb" and "blind", which disappointed Tang Wei and finally proposed to break up.
Later, during filming, Zhu Yuchen and Huo Siyan had frequent scandals, but the relationship between the two had not yet been determined.
When she went to Zhu Yuchen's house for dinner, Zhu's mother heard Huo Siyan praise her good craftsmanship and was happy, feeling that she had the qualifications to be her "daughter-in-law".
So the "test" began, and Huo Siyan served Zhu Yuchen a meal. As soon as Huo Siyan saw this, she understood everything, Zhu's mother was going to find another "mother" for her son.
Huo Siyan felt that such a other half was not what he wanted, so he politely rejected Zhu Yuchen and quickly dissociated himself from him.
And in 2012, Zhu Yuchen met a beautiful and virtuous girl Jiang Yan. Jiang Yan likes to cook and often shares delicious food with the people in the crew.
Zhu Yuchen brought the rice made by Jiang Yan to Zhu's mother to eat, and praised the good taste, Zhu's mother saw that her son liked it, so she told her son that Jiang Yan was a suitable girl to be a daughter-in-law.
Zhu Yuchen then pursued Jiang Yan, and soon captured her heart, and the two also came to the step of "meeting parents".
No one expected that Jiang Yan had just stepped into the gate of the Zhu family, and before she sat down, Zhu's mother began to scold her.
"How can you wear that? Do not abide by the way of women", Jiang Yan endured it, but did not expect that Zhu's mother was getting more and more excessive, what "three from four virtues" and "husband and godson" spoke.
Later, Jiang Yan and Zhu Yuchen had a big quarrel, and when she found that Zhu Yuchen actually agreed with his mother's point of view, she couldn't bear to break up.
In this way, Zhu Yuchen became a "bachelor". However, he was not the only one who was poisoned by his mother, and his sister decided not to marry because of her mother's influence.
She said that she felt sorry for her mother alone, but she was indeed partial, and she also felt sorry for her brother who worked hard and faced her mother's entanglement, I can't be the good wife and good mother she said, I am still alone.
«——[·Epilogue.]——»
Although it may be possible to understand that single mothers' love for their children may be deeper, Zhu's mother's love has made it difficult to distinguish between love and control.
And Zhu Yuchen, we don't know if he is "numb" or dare not resist, maybe he will find his true self without his mother.