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What to shout? I don't have the money to take you to the hospital, I want to go to you to ask your daughter to come back and take you, one day last year I was crying in bed with a recurrence of my old illness, and my daughter-in-law kicked open the door and said viciously to me.
My daughter has no money, she is now living alone with two children, she has no food, where can she have the money to take me to the hospital? Please take me to the hospital!
In the face of my daughter-in-law's anger, I endured the pain in my body and cried and begged her, then wait for your son to come back, I still have something to do, don't cry wolves all day, the daughter-in-law walked out after speaking.
You bad woman, you will have retribution in the future, after seeing my daughter-in-law walk out, I picked up the flashlight next to the pillow and threw it at the door of the room, and the flashlight fell apart on the floor with a click.
It really hurts, does anyone know? The body was so painful, I continued to cry in bed, but no matter how I screamed, I didn't call my daughter-in-law, at this time I really had no choice, I picked up my mobile phone to call my daughter, I told her that my old disease had recurred, and now I was lying in bed and couldn't move, so I asked her to come back and take me to the hospital.
Don't you know to call me sister-in-law? My sister-in-law doesn't take you to call me brother, you don't know what my situation is, I still have to take the child to work now, there is no time to take you to the hospital, it really can't be you just endure, your disease is not the first time it has recurred, just endure it, my daughter picked up the phone and said so.
Your sister-in-law ignored me, your brother is still working in Guangdong, I am really in too much pain, what should I do? I cried.
What to do? My sister-in-law's ignorance of you is also your own cause, 10 years ago, if it weren't for you blocking my brother from paying medical bills, my sister-in-law's mother would not have died, so she hated you as she should, and her daughter hung up the phone after speaking.
Hearing the beeping sound from the phone, I fell into despair, at this time I called my son again, I said that I was too painful, let him take leave to come back, my son may not be working well, so I said indifferently "got it".
Because our family is in Guangxi, my son works in Guangdong, far from home, it is difficult for my son to take leave, and when my son finally returned home, it was already the fifth day after my old disease recurred, and I endured physical pain for these five days.
I cried the moment I saw my son come back, I cried and told my son that I almost died, that he almost didn't have a mother, and I told my son that my daughter-in-law is not a good woman, and she will be punished in the future.
I thought that my son would be on my side, who thought that my son would immediately scold me after hearing my complaints, and my son said that I did it myself, and if it were not for my own doing, he would not have let him run back from so far away from Guangdong in person.
On the way to the hospital, my son kept telling me how difficult it was to take leave, how expensive it was to travel back, and that there would be no salary to take these days.
I'm your mother, you can't leave me alone, money is so important? Is it more important than my life? Faced with my son's complaints, I asked him in tears.
Then my mother-in-law's life is not life? Why did you hide your money without permission? If you hadn't hid it, my mother-in-law wouldn't have died, and my wife wouldn't have been without her mother.
So now that you are sick, my wife does not care about you, you have no reason to blame her, it is you who is the first of the first year, you can't blame her for being fifteen.
It's been 10 years, do you want to talk about it again? Is it because your mother-in-law's life is not hard enough, is it caused by me? Did I make her sick? Faced with my son's mention of what happened 10 years ago, I was in a very bad mood, so I replied to my son.
Speaking of the death of my own mother, in fact, it is not entirely because of me, when my own mother had a serious illness, at that time, the daughter-in-law's brother was too lazy to eat, owed a lot of money, and there was no money to treat my own mother.
At this time, the daughter-in-law took her own mother to the hospital for treatment, and our family did not have much money at that time, when I heard the doctor tell my daughter-in-law that this disease needs to be treated with surgery, and only surgery can maintain life, I told my daughter-in-law to consider again, after all, surgery requires a large amount of money, and her brother has no money.
The daughter-in-law said at that time that she would do surgery on her own mother no matter what, even if she borrowed money, her brother could not count on it, she could not see death or save it, after all, it was her own mother.
Seeing my daughter-in-law's resolute eyes, I panicked at that time, at that time, I took all the money in the family, and the wages of my son and daughter-in-law going out to work were also taken by me.
Seeing that my mother's physical condition was enough for surgery, my son and daughter-in-law told me to go home and get money, saying that after curing my mother's illness first, I would talk about the future things slowly.
That day I went home and withdrew the money, and on the way back to the hospital, the more I thought about it, the more wrong it became, I felt that my own mother would not live for many years even if she had surgery, and I would definitely not be able to recover the money if I spent it, so I got out of the car on the road and returned home.
When I got home, my son and daughter-in-law called me and asked if I had got the money, at which point I lied that I had lost the money and could not find it.
Knowing that the money could not be found, my son and daughter-in-law panicked, so my son ran back overnight to look for money with me, but on that night, my own mother suddenly vomited blood and died.
After my mother died, my daughter-in-law had a big fight with me, and my daughter-in-law said that my mother's death was caused by me, and if I hadn't brought the money home, her mother would have been able to perform the operation in time, and she wouldn't have died so soon.
I am also heartbroken by the death of my own mother, but my daughter-in-law said that I caused it, and I don't admit it, firstly, I did not make her sick, and secondly, it was caused by her own lack of money to treat her own illness.
After dealing with the fate of my own mother, my son and daughter-in-law took the child and went out to Guangdong to work, and after that year, my son and daughter-in-law never sent me money back.
When I was sick and hospitalized, she didn't take care of me, let my son do everything, sometimes I told my son to let my daughter-in-law take care of me, and my son would say "think beautifully".
Later, when I was ill and hospitalized for surgery, my daughter-in-law collected her own money, and my son had no money on him, so I asked my daughter to take money to treat me, but at that time my daughter still had some money on her.
The year before last, my daughter divorced, living with two children, she didn't have a penny on her, she called me and asked if she could give her the medical expenses she had paid for me before, and she said she couldn't eat.
My son was very embarrassed when he found out, and he cobbled together 2,000 yuan for my daughter, but my daughter-in-law didn't pay a penny.
Now I often have old illnesses that recur, but my daughter-in-law is indifferent to me, and when I asked her to take me to the hospital, she said that I should ask my daughter or son to take me.
Everyone in the village knew the gap between me and my daughter-in-law, and everyone was on her side, saying that I was selfish and that I would seize my daughter-in-law's money when I saw death and could not save me.
Whenever I hear these words, I feel sad in my heart, I don't know how to explain, anyway, no matter how I explain it, it is useless, because my own mother is gone.
Today, my daughter and son blame me, saying that I caused the death of my own mother, so my daughter-in-law ignored me and increased their living burden.
Now, I really regret it, I shouldn't have brought that money home, I was wrong, I shouldn't have pinched my daughter-in-law, I shouldn't have seen death and not saved, so everything I am experiencing now is my own doing.
I hope my story can give you a little warning, treat your daughter-in-law well, treat your daughter-in-law's family well, because it's not a family that doesn't enter a house, only if the daughter-in-law's maiden family lives well, the daughter-in-law can live well, and the daughter-in-law has a good life.
Written at the end:
Love is mutual, only sincere dedication will be rewarded, in the face of life and money we must cherish life, because life is really gone, money can be found when it is gone.
It is not easy for our own mothers to help us raise our daughters-in-law, daughters-in-law are their daughters, so it is not wrong for daughters-in-law to honor their parents, and as father-in-law, they should not interfere in the life of their daughters-in-law.
The protagonist of the story is my colleague's mother, this article is dictated by a colleague, collected and organized, original story, please do not carry it!!