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The child's chest is swollen into small steamed buns, ignorance ah this is, the child will be killed by your ignorance sooner or later, the doctor just untied his granddaughter's clothes, and after seeing his granddaughter's red and swollen nipples, he accused his daughter-in-law.
Doctor, please save my child, the daughter-in-law plopped down on the ground despite the doctor's accusations and begged the doctor to treat her granddaughter, crying with snot and tears, for fear that her little granddaughter would die soon.
I couldn't stand it, walked over and tapped my little granddaughter's nipples with my fingers, and the little granddaughter twisted her body reflexively and cried, I said what is this? Which girl is born does not have to milk the nipple, it will be good after a while.
I just finished speaking, the doctor turned his head to look at me, and then said: you are not the mother of the child, you have no right to do these things to the child, now the child's two nipples have been infected, the nipples are still flowing yellow fluid, you say not serious? It is also bad luck to have such an ignorant grandmother.
How do you talk about it? Didn't your mother teach you how to respect your elders? I was naturally not happy to be scolded by the doctor, so I educated the doctor.
Just as I was talking, my son walked in angrily, and then took my hand and walked out of the consultation room, don't pull me, I have to educate the doctor, what is great about being a doctor, isn't it milking the child's nipple? Is it necessary to say so seriously? I said as I broke free of my son's hand.
Mom, I can't help you this time, when the child was not yet born, we told you not to take the bad habits of the older generation to bring the child, the times are different now, we have to keep up with the changes of the times, but you don't listen, what do you want to milk when the child is good?
Look at the fact that you are now infected and hospitalized with a high fever after you express your milk, don't your consciences hurt when you see your child suffer? And you are also a mother, if my grandmother is like this to us, will you feel comfortable in your heart? Why are you educating that doctor? People know more than you do.
You are simply vexatious now, you don't complain that my wife is angry, I don't care if she will bring you children in the future, I told you before, you must listen to our young people, but you are different, behind our backs to do things.
After pulling me out, my son kept counting me, and the people passing by around cast curious eyes at us, people are asking for face, I scolded my son at that time, I said that this child I am not rare to bring, so pretentious, in the future cold and sick still said that I hurt it!
After saying that, I carried my bag and left, after returning home, I did not receive any calls from my daughter-in-law, my son did not call me, my granddaughter was hospitalized for a week and finally went home, I was still a little afraid to see my granddaughter hospitalized for so long, in case my granddaughter has three long and two short, I can't get rid of it.
Finally came back, my little obedient, came to grandma to hug, saw my daughter-in-law holding her granddaughter into the house, I quickly put down the work in my hand and walked over.
Well, came back, the daughter-in-law returned and went upstairs with her granddaughter in her arms, what's wrong? Still angry? So petty? It's really not generous, after seeing my daughter-in-law carrying her granddaughter upstairs and not holding the child for me, I said to my son.
Don't talk first, the son also went upstairs after speaking, and after a while, the son and daughter-in-law walked down with their granddaughter, and after seeing me sitting on the sofa, the daughter-in-law came to me and said: Mom, I just got out of confinement, the child is still young and needs, I can't help you do anything at home, I take the child back to my mother's house to live for a while.
I didn't want to bring me children, so I said that I would go wherever I loved, and after hearing my daughter-in-law say that she would take her granddaughter to live with her mother's house, I was instantly angry, and I felt that my daughter-in-law was targeting me.
Mom, if she wants to go, let her go, anyway, she can't do any work at home, and she is also with children there, and her son spoke at this time.
At that time, I didn't say anything, and after watching my son and daughter-in-law pack up a big bag of things, I felt a little lost, is my daughter-in-law really going to take her granddaughter away? Why?
In this way, the daughter-in-law took the granddaughter away and went back to live with her mother's house, and my son sent the daughter-in-law and granddaughter to work after she also went out to work, and then after the granddaughter grew up to 6 months, the daughter-in-law also went out to work, and the child remained with her mother for her mother to take with her.
I went to her mother's house to pick up my granddaughter after my daughter-in-law went out to work, but my granddaughter seemed to recognize people, crying every day, I had limited energy alone, and later sent the child back to her grandmother's house.
Strange to say, after the granddaughter returned to her grandmother's house, she did not cry or make trouble, obediently drank milk and slept obediently, at this time the mother-in-law said: Although the child is small, she knows everything.
After returning from my mother's house, I couldn't sleep at night, I couldn't eat, I didn't know what I did wrong, obviously I also love my granddaughter, but why doesn't my granddaughter want me?
Now my granddaughter is 6 years old and goes to school, but my granddaughter and I are not close at all, and now she is at her grandmother's house when she goes to school, and when she comes back from the New Year holidays, she will not stay for a few days and cry for her to go back.
Whenever I see my granddaughter crying like this, my heart hurts for a while, I feel like a failure, obviously this home is her home, but she doesn't seem to treat this home as a home, which made me suspect that my son was a son-in-law.
I want to apologize to my daughter-in-law, I know I did something wrong, but I just can't open my mouth, I know that my ignorance almost hurt my granddaughter, I know that my stubbornness almost caused my son and wife to be separated.
But it's too late to regret it now, because my granddaughter will slowly grow up, she will slowly leave this house, and in the future she will get married and have children, and then she will leave this family.
I feel very uncomfortable when I think of this, in fact, I don't blame my daughter-in-law for sending the child to her mother's house to bring it to her mother, if I want to blame myself, I don't give my daughter-in-law a sense of security.
Obviously at that time, my granddaughter was only out of confinement, why did I have itchy hands to milk my granddaughter, I was really too ignorant, I almost killed my granddaughter, so now my granddaughter and I don't kiss me and I don't blame anyone, I resent myself.
Friends, when we bring our grandchildren, don't apply the old bad habits to them, I just didn't listen to the advice and almost killed my granddaughter.
We must not believe that what is milked to feed the child when it grows up, there is no scientific basis, we must believe in science, and then the child does not say that it has to drink breast milk after birth, right? Children who drink milk powder still grow fat, don't they?
I'm really repentant now!
Written at the end:
With the changes of the times, today's parenting style is completely different from before, today's young people advocate scientific parenting, as elder parents, we should not use our self-righteous "experience" to take care of children.
Although our intentions are good, some of our "experiences" lack scientific basis, and sometimes our so-called "experiences" may harm children's lives.
Most importantly, as elder parents, we should listen to our children, after all, we are not mothers of grandchildren, and we have no right to do something to our children.
Today's young people are assertive, they have not experienced as much as ours, but they have their own ideas, our elders must keep up with their thoughts, keep up with the pace of changes of the times, only if the heart of the family is in one place to make this family happy.
The protagonist of the story is my aunt, when the aunt squeezed my cousin's daughter's nipples without authorization and was hospitalized with fever, in the face of the doctor's accusations, the aunt was unconvinced and quarreled with the doctor, and then the cousin sent the child to her mother's house to bring it to her mother, and now the aunt regrets seeing that the child is not close to herself, and often secretly cry alone. This article is dictated by the aunt, and the memories are sorted out, the original story, please do not carry it!!