Why is it better not to travel with relatives? These 3 points come to the sore spot
Relatives travel makes it difficult to reconcile the travel preferences of different families
Traveling with relatives and a family should be a happy thing, but who knows, it may cause unhappiness with each other due to everyone's different travel preferences.
Every family has their own expectations and preferences for travel, which is understandable and respectful in most cases. But once multiple families travel together, their preferences are prone to disagreement or even conflict.
For example, Uncle Zhang's family especially likes hiking and outdoor adventures, so this outing, they want to go mountain climbing and camping. Aunt Li's family prefers to enjoy the cultural landscape, especially wanting to visit the museum of the ancient capital. The two have different visions, one likes excitement, the other likes culture, and it is really not easy to coordinate.
This situation can be discussed in normal times, but once it comes to travel, the preferences of each family are often stubborn. Uncle Zhang must go to climb the mountain, Aunt Li must go to the museum, both sides refused to give in, and it was difficult to reach a consensus for a while.
"Home and all things prosper", relatives travel is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships, if everyone does not give in, it will be difficult to continue this trip. Moreover, the quarrels caused by the inability to coordinate can also strain the otherwise happy journey and destroy the relationship between each other.
The so-called "mountains are not high, there are immortals and names; The water is not deep, but the dragon is spiritual." Relatives genuinely respect each other's travel preferences to make this trip a good memory. Otherwise, when you go home and think of this trip, you will only be angry.
Cost-sharing in relatives' travel often causes embarrassment
When traveling, it is inevitable to eat, live and travel, which all cost money. For friends to travel, everyone AA to each other and share the cost, there is no problem. But if you are traveling with relatives, the sharing of expenses can often become very awkward.
For example, eating together, the AA system is not suitable for many people, and they always feel that they are not proactive enough. If someone takes the initiative to entertain, others may feel lost and psychologically uncomfortable. But if you insist on paying for each other, you will inevitably lose your enthusiasm.
Even more so for the accommodation. Either everyone lives in a standard room together and shares the room fee, or they live in their own room and pay for it themselves. Either way, it's hard to avoid calculations.
The cost of travel is also an issue. Everyone rents a car together? Or do you take a taxi separately? This can all lead to whispering.
"If there is a suspicion, there must be a dispute", and the improper handling of the relationship between expenses in the travel of relatives often easily leads to unnecessary disputes. For example, some people feel that they have paid too much money, and they will complain again and again, thinking that they have been taken advantage of. If it really quarrels, it will be even more ugly.
In fact, tourism is a good opportunity to relax and enhance relationships. But once everyone argues over money, the meaning of travel is completely lost.
Expenses are important, but sentimental value is higher. Relatives should be more tolerant and understanding, and do not care about gains and losses. Let this journey be an opportunity to increase camaraderie, not let money damage brotherhood.
The topic of housework in the travel of relatives is prone to disagreement
Relatives traveling together, often unconsciously involve the trivial matters of their respective families when chatting. This is a normal thing, but in a travel environment, the slightest mistake may lead to differences of opinion and ruin relationships.
For example, when it comes to children's education. Aunt Zhang believes that children should learn professional knowledge as soon as possible and move towards social independence. Uncle Li believes that children are still young and should play more and grow up happily. The two educational concepts sparked, and both sides felt that they were right.
Another example is the mention of dressing up. Aunt Wang likes to dress casually and simply, while Aunt Liu advocates dressing appropriately. After some discussion, both sides decided that their clothes were more suitable.
In fact, these family topics are not a big deal, but in the environment of travel, differences of opinion are often infinitely magnified. Tired bodies and minds are more prone to arguments.
The most sad thing is that because of these trivial matters, relatives even quarreled with each other, and they stopped interacting after returning home. At the end of many trips, relatives turn against each other because of these trivial things.
Family affection should not be so fragile. In fact, there will inevitably be differences during the journey, but everyone should be tolerant and understanding, communicate more, and do not care about personal gains and losses, so that the journey can be filled with laughter.
Remember, loved ones are the most valuable asset. Don't ruin this precious family affection for some small thing. Let us work together to resolve differences, enhance friendship and create good memories together.