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Recently, the term "male gaze" has appeared frequently, referring to the image of women from the male perspective.
This is really just a socio-cultural phenomenon, but the biggest problem is that many men's gaze is not simply aesthetic appreciation, but an invisible violence that does not respect women.
Ordinary women have been deeply disturbed, and the environment of actresses in the entertainment industry is even more bizarre.
However, even in the dark area, there is always a bright existence, compared to those "salty pig hands" who take advantage of people's danger, there are also a few gentlemen and male stars in the entertainment industry, who use their behavior to tell everyone what is the real respect for women.
1. Xu Jinjiang: The real gentleman behind the actors of the Fengyue film
Xu Jinjiang, this name is not unfamiliar to many people, he once became famous as "Jade Regiment" and was known as the "King of Hong Kong Wind and Moon Films".
On the screen, Xu Jinjiang often plays some obscene and explicit villains, such as Ao Bai, Golden Retriever Lion King, etc., and his hideous expression and unbearable dialogue have left a bad impression on female audiences.
However, when we pull away the camera and walk into the set, we will find that the heart of this big man is actually extremely soft.
The actresses who have worked with Xu Jinjiang are all full of praise for him, publicly praising him as a "male star with the best reputation", Weng Hong even revealed that "filming with him is the most assured, he knows how to respect women the most".
What exactly makes Xu Jinjiang so highly rated?
It turned out that during the filming process, Xu Jinjiang was extremely considerate of the actress, and before the scene that may cause physical contact, he took the initiative to use tape to wrap the sensitive parts tightly to avoid directly touching the actress's body.
If there is a physiological reaction, he will immediately propose a pause to give himself time to calm down, and the most touching thing is that for more intimate rival scenes, Xu Jinjiang will first consult the actress's opinion and never force it to be completed.
In order to support his family, he had to take over the Fengyue film that he originally avoided, but even so, he never indulged himself to step half a step over the bottom line, such a big picture and cultivation, which is really precious.
In addition to his acting career, Xu Jinjiang also has an unknown identity - he is a veteran painting enthusiast.
Xu Jinjiang, who studied under the master of Chinese painting Guan Shanyue, is now an artist with high painting skills, and many of his works are worth more than 800,000 yuan, which is at the collectible level.
Maybe when Xu Jinjiang quit the entertainment industry, he can concentrate on developing his painting career and live a leisurely life,
Second, Andy Lau: The gentlemanly demeanor of an ageless male god
The key to Andy Lau's longevity lies in his modest and steady style and respect for women.
When Andy Lau and Wang Zuxian collaborated on "God of Gamblers", there was a scene where two people sat face to face, and Wang Zuxian wanted to sit on Andy Lau's lap with his legs spread.
If this posture is other actors, they may take the opportunity to get their hands up and down, but Andy Lau always keeps a distance, his hands are always on his legs, and he never takes a step beyond the thunder pool, which shows Andy Lau's strong self-control and gentlemanly demeanor.
And during the filming of "Fuchun Mountain House", Andy Lau and an actress had to drink from the same glass.
After each NG, Andy Lau would first take out a tissue and carefully wipe the rim of the cup, for fear that the saliva residue on the cup would make the other party uncomfortable, and then hand the cup to the actress.
This meticulous thoughtfulness makes the actress feel respected, which also reflects Andy Lau's excellent professionalism.
In 2017, Andy Lau, Liu Qingyun, and Ni Ni took promotional photos of "Bomb Disposal Expert 2", Andy Lau chose to put on Liu Qingyun's shoulder, while keeping a distance from Ni Ni to avoid unnecessary physical contact.
On stage, when sexy female companions dance closely, Andy Lau will also avoid their key parts and always maintain a gentlemanly demeanor, even after many years, Andy Lau is still strict with himself, never crossing the thunder pool half a step due to the exposure of the actor's costume.
In 2022, Andy Lau took a photo with an enthusiastic female fan in the "The Wandering Earth 2" promotional event, and the female fan was excited to get close to the idol, but Andy Lau paid attention to keeping a certain distance and did not act too intimately.
These bits and pieces show Andy Lau's respect for women in his heart, which is also the key to his long-term prosperity in the entertainment industry.
Once upon a time, Andy Lau's "gentleman's kiss" caused a sensation in the city and became a topic of conversation at that time, that is, at a stage event, the host asked Andy Lau to kiss a female guest.
Andy Lau gently touched the female guest's cheek and left, his behavior both complied with the host's requirements and maintained a sense of proportion, allowing people to see what gentlemanly demeanor is.
If an actor wants to be in the entertainment industry for a long time, it is very important to cultivate both inside and outside, both virtue and art, Andy Lau showed everyone with his own life experience.
3. Guo Qilin: Use tutoring to show a gentleman's demeanor
Guo Qilin is the son of comedian Guo Degang, who was taught by his father from a young age and developed a good character.
Once, Guo Qilin and Zhang Tianai participated in a show that required the two to work closely together, during the game, Guo Qilin carefully avoided touching the intimate parts of Zhang Tianai's body, only gently supporting her arm, Zhang Tianai was impressed by Guo Qilin's gentlemanly behavior.
At that time, Guo Qilin's hand held the corner of Zhang Tianai's clothes, and the other hand only touched Zhang Tianai's hair, and when the audience saw such a picture, they all called Guo Qilin's gentleman's hand really amazing.
This is actually not the first time that Guo Qilin has shown his gentlemanly demeanor in variety shows, he participated in an outdoor adventure show in the early years, and needed to complete a task with a female artist.
In order to protect the woman's privacy, Guo Qilin always stands behind the female artist and is alert to whether there are secretly taken shots around.
After completing the task, Guo Qilin politely asked the female artist if she still needed help, and after receiving a negative answer, he took the initiative to leave the scene and give the female artist space to tidy up her appearance.
At another event, when Guo Qilin received the signing pen handed by the staff, he also showed his polite attitude, he held the pen in both hands, bent his head down to show humility, and the audience at the scene were impressed by Guo Qilin when they saw such a scene, and they gave a thumbs up one by one in admiration.
When meeting female guests, Guo Qilin only touches their hands lightly each time, while shaking hands with male guests with the whole palm, this kind of thoughtfulness in detail makes people see the rigor of his tutoring.
On weekdays, Guo Qilin also refers to others as "you", knocks gently and quickly when knocking on the door, and always takes care of women when he sees them.
These styles all stem from Guo Degang's requirements for him, and Guo Degang once proudly said that Guo Qilin is the most satisfying work in his life, and it seems that Guo Qilin has indeed fully played his father's teachings.
Although he is still young, Guo Qilin is different in the entertainment industry with his gentlemanly demeanor, and he has interpreted what is called tutoring with his actions, which has won the love of countless fans.
Guo Qilin is a pillar of the new generation of artists, and we have reason to believe that the future entertainment industry will become more sunny because of artists like him.
4. Wu Lei: A new generation of gentlemen who treat people with sincerity
Wu Lei, a post-90s student born in 1995, has always adhered to a sincere and kind character no matter how complicated the environment he faces, and conveys the positive energy of the new generation of male actors with meticulous behavior.
Wu Lei not only has outstanding acting skills, but also has an emotional intelligence far beyond his peers, and when filming bed scenes that require intimate contact, he always cares carefully for the feelings of actresses.
Even if the plot needs, after the end, he will lightly adjust the clothes for the actress, for fear of any gaffe from the other party, at an age when it is clear that he can take advantage of the opportunity, Wu Lei chooses to respect women and never takes a step beyond the thunder pool, which makes many actresses praise him, calling him "caring and gentleman".
In addition, Wu Lei brought this thoughtfulness to life, no matter what important occasion he attended, he took the initiative to stretch out his arms for the ladies to help them on the stage, for fear that the other party would lose his footing in front of everyone.
Once, in order to create a topic, the media openly mentioned the age of actress Tan Songyun, intending to embarrass her, but Wu Lei unexpectedly resolved the embarrassment with wit and humor, and cleverly directed the focus in another direction.
This kind of thoughtful protection allows people to see the innate personability of this new generation of post-90s students.
In fact, Wu Lei's affinity is not only reflected in his respect for women, he also treats the staff equally, and every time he finishes, Wu Lei will take the initiative to hug the team members one by one and say goodbye to express his gratitude to everyone.
Whether it is a star or a group performer, Wu Lei will patiently listen to their ideas and be kind to people, because he treats people sincerely, so no matter who he works with, the atmosphere can be harmonious and beautiful.
5. Wang Kai: Demonstrate the ideal gentleman's demeanor with actions
As early as 2015, Wang Kai became famous for starring in "The Pretender" and "Langya List", at that time, the audience noticed his different behavior from ordinary stars.
Once, filming a kiss scene with an actress, Wang Kai always closed his lips, even if the other party took the initiative to ask, he was still ashamed and embarrassed, until the other party repeatedly promised that he would not mind, Wang Kai did it with a red face.
Another time, he and Liu Tao hugged the camera, Wang Kai carefully held Liu Tao, the other hand only grabbed Liu Tao's wrist, holding hands has never been tried, which shows his inner sense of proportion.
This way of dealing with things as a gentleman, Wang Kai not only practiced in work, but also consistent in life, once in the background of the event, fans asked to take a photo with Wang Kai, even if the fans are close, there is no excessive behavior, maintaining a due polite posture.
Another time when promoting with the actress, the organizer asked them to take a photo with their arms around the waist, and Wang Kai gently put his hand behind the actress, leaving a certain gap between the two without touching the actress's body at all.
Wang Kai's friends recalled that even at private gatherings, Wang Kai always paid attention to his words and deeds.
No matter how much alcohol he has drunk, he can keep a clear head and will never have any gaffe, female friends joke and ask Wang Kai to feed her, Wang Kai just smiled and brought it, and would never really hand food to women's mouths.
At a party, a male guest began to move on a female friend after drinking, and Wang Kai immediately stepped forward to stop the other party and asked him to leave immediately.
It can be seen that Wang Kai's gentlemanly style is not deliberately pretentious, but integrated into the values and etiquette cultivation in his bones.
6. Zhong Hanliang: The low-key style of a gentleman
As a senior artist in the entertainment industry, Zhong Hanliang can be said to be deeply loved by the audience, he has not only created many classic roles in film and television dramas, but also exudes gentlemanly demeanor in variety shows, which is worth learning from future generations.
For example, in works such as "Why Sheng Xiao Mo" and "Brocade Like Jade", Zhong Hanliang has always maintained his own style, whether it is a costume drama or a modern drama, it can interpret the temperament that this character should have.
Unlike many stars, he does not deliberately package himself, but focuses on acting, which also makes him more layered in the play.
In variety shows, Zhong Hanliang also gives people a low-key and restrained feeling.
For example, when taking photos with Yang Zi and Xiao Jingteng in activities, he paid attention to keeping a distance, did not have too much physical contact with Yang Zi, and when dancing with Tan Songyun, he only gently hugged his arms and maintained his due gentlemanly demeanor, which made people see his mature and restrained side.
In fact, whether in the crew or in ordinary life, Zhong Hanliang pays more attention to his words and deeds, he does not make loud noises in public, and rarely participates in gossip news in the entertainment industry.
It can be said that he has maintained a humble and low-key style for more than ten years, which has also made him recognized by the majority of audiences.
VII. Conclusion
The malicious gaze of ordinary people may only be superficial, but some "sexual harassment" behaviors in the entertainment industry are indeed disgraceful.
We need more artists with "gentlemanly manners" like Xu Jinjiang and Andy Lau to create a good atmosphere in the entertainment industry for us,
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