What kind of ugly act is love? Before I read Tolstoy's quote, I read a quote from Einstein in which Einstein said, "Marriage is indeed slavery in the guise of civilization." "Then throughout our time, in fact, we do not have to read Einstein's quotations, nor do we have to read Tolstoy's quotations, we can also feel the ugliness of modern love.
You see our modern love, how many real ingredients? They all looked at each other's conditions and interests before choosing to be together. Of course, there are some who are really for love, do not care about conditions, do not care about money. But that's all naïve and immature.
Because once a person matures and understands things, he finally has to look at reality and has to lose to reality. In the end, there is no money, no benefits, only suffering and torture, then you have to share, even if you love, you can't be together anymore.
Really, some people because they love together, do not complement each other, but do not work hard for each other before, are together decadent, degenerate, love has become lazy, love makes men lose their struggle, then together, the end is the endless abyss and hell, together, each other will be more and more painful.
So in the end, love becomes ugly, all caused by various factors of reality, unlike in ancient times, everyone was safe and self-kept, being a farmer, male cultivator and female weaver, and also embracing happiness. Now this era is different, most people are living their own lives, envious of the lives of the people in the video, satirizing the pillow people.
In this way, there is no happiness to speak of naturally, you see our modern people get married, not all are clearly marked, people without conditions, they can only be single, do not dream of marriage. Speaking of which, if you are not very satisfied with the above answers and analysis, we may wish to read a quote from Tolstoy together, which shows that love is an ugly act, as follows:
Love is about choosing a man or a woman from among many people, and then never paying attention to the behavior of other people of the opposite sex. —Lev Tolstoy #Tolstoy Quotes #
After reading Tolstoy's quotation, we can see that love is really like this, it has been like this throughout the ages, it is one-on-one, once they love each other, they are not allowed to love each other anymore, even if they are intimate with other people.
You see in our era, how many men meet with their female classmates, have a meal, and as a result, their wives divorce. You see in our day, how many women have a meal with their ex, or with a rich man, or with a client, and their husbands suspect that women are cheating.
This is ugly behavior that leads to mutual distrust. This is very bad, most marriages do not go to the end, because each other began to doubt, and finally to distrust, it is difficult to get along together. Marriage, only by trusting each other and giving each other a personal space, will not love so much that people feel tired.
You see how many men want to see their wives' WeChat chats and look at phone records. How many women are the same, out of a curiosity and excessive love, too much love, will love very tired, always suspicious of the ghost. Men travel on business, but also have to follow, even 24 hours to let men video, he is at ease.
Love is selfish, and everyone can see it. The more selfish the love, the more it ends up hurting each other. Only by looking at love as ordinary and looking down on it, can love go further. There is a saying that marriage is the graveyard of love, and the truth is obvious, after marriage, there is almost no love, and it is flat.
But in ordinary life, if you are restless, feel that the other party does not love themselves, do not love in their own way, like to quarrel, make distrust, divorce, this is also a lot of love has experienced wind and rain, experienced a lot of setbacks, can withstand suffering, but can not withstand the ordinary reason.
Tolstoy: I have to admit that love is such an ugly act!