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"Old Zhao, I'm especially glad I'm single now, so I can pursue Xiaotian in an upright way!"
In "Bright Sword", Li Yunlong fell in love at first sight when he met Tian Yu, and said excitedly to his iron brother Zhao Gang. And his wife Xiuqin, who was once infatuated with him and died under his fire, is estimated to have forgotten everything.
But in real life, Li Yunlong's actor Li Yunlong, when he met his true love Shi Langya, he fell into the negative news of abandoning his wife and son for his lover.
At that moment, it is estimated that he wished that he was single like Li Yunlong!
What is the charm of Shi Lanya, who has been divorced twice and has a 7-year-old son, so that Li Youbin cleansed her house?
16-year-old Shi Langya starred in "Siege" and became a hit, and his debut was the peak!
01. Her father is like a beacon that guides her to the pinnacle of her life
Shi Langya, born on December 2, 1971 in Yuhang District, Hangzhou City, Zhejiang Province, is an artistic family.
Her father is the famous director Shi Jianfan, who graduated from the directing department of the Beijing Film Academy in 1966 and published many papers. "The Aesthetic Characteristics of TV Series", "On the Director's Improvisation" and so on.
In 1981, "The Cave Room" won the second prize of the first Feitian Award. In 1983, "Lu Xun" won the Special Award and the Director Special Award of the Third Outstanding TV Series Feitian Award.
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In 1990, "Crime and Punishment" won the second prize of the National Film and TV Series Award and was nominated for the Feitian Award. "Iron-Blooded Republic" won the national "Five One Project" award.
Her mother, Xi Peilan, is also a well-known female director and graduated from the Beijing Film Academy in 1966.
His famous works include "The Voiceover of a Female Reporter", which won the first prize of the 4th Excellent TV Series Feitian Award in 1983 and the Excellence Award of the 2nd National Golden Eagle Award.
"Tundra" won the third prize of the 1988 National Reform TV Series. At that time, she was known as one of the famous "Nine Female TV Directors" in the mainland.
Grandpa Shi Xing was even more amazing, he was the director of the Cultural Bureau at that time and the director of the Yan'an Luyi Experimental Drama Troupe.
He is a teacher of the art school of the Yan'an left-behind corps, the commander of the second corps, the deputy head of the cultural and labor corps of the General Political Department, the director of the Zhejiang Provincial Bureau of Culture, and one of the founders of the Zhejiang Little Hundred Flowers Yue Opera Troupe.
His works include "Defending the Great Henan", "Going to the Front Again", "Metamorphosis", and was rated as the only "drama artist with outstanding contributions to the country" in Zhejiang Province.
Grandma Zhu Weizhe is also an excellent actor, who has starred in "Mu Guiying Hangs the Commander", "Brother and Sister Open the Land", and participated in the "Yellow River Cantata" conducted by Xian Xinghai himself.
It is said that when Shi Langya was born, the grandfather in the rural area at that time was very happy to learn that his granddaughter was born, and personally named her, hoping that the child would grow up like a young shoot!
Shi Langya has perfectly inherited the family's good genetic genes since he was a child, singing and dancing, and playing a pipa. When she was a child, Slanya's most enthusiastic thing was often going to her father's theater to watch them film, and she loved acting since she was a child.
Opportunity always favors those who work hard, and when Qian Zhongshu's "Siege" was ready to be made into a TV series, the other characters were settled, but Tang Xiaofu could not settle.
One day, when the director accidentally saw the smiling Shi Langya on the cover of the magazine, it was she who immediately clapped.
When she was selected to star in "Siege" Tang Xiaofu, she was only 16 years old, and she was excited and uneasy at that time, lest she not act well. And Tang Xiaofu has short hair in the play, and she is very reluctant to have beautiful long hair that is hard to grow.
Shi Jianfan advised his daughter: "With such a good role, you have to know how to cherish it, and the appearance of an actor has never been your own." If you want to play a good role, the first step is to change at any time to meet the needs of the plot in terms of appearance. ”
With such a family background, if you think that she just needs to lie flat and wait for her family to pave the way for her, you are wrong. In fact, when Shi Langya was filming later, not only did he not receive special care, but he also suffered a lot of grievances.
In 1990, she was only 19 years old when she filmed "The Emperor Superstar", and she was the youngest actor in the crew. At that time, the remuneration was 800 yuan, but the crew bullied her young and did not settle for her, and she was angry and went to the crew manager to theorize that she did not want to be beaten upside down, saying that she owed the crew 800 yuan.
When did Slangya, who has lived in the care of his family since he was a child, suffer such grievances? She was angry and annoyed, some people in the crew couldn't stand it, and she gave her a move, and she really wanted to leave in a fit of anger.
She called her father to cry and wanted him to give her a head. Father Shi Jianfan comforted his daughter in a serious way:
"Eat a lot, grow a wisdom, remember to figure out the rules in advance in the future, and learn a lesson!" And repeatedly admonished his daughter:
"As a qualified actor, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you can't just quit, this is the work ethic of an actor!"
Her father's teachings made Shi Langya understand a lot of principles of doing things, and she would ask her father for advice whenever she encountered problems, so her acting skills were getting better and better.
Father is also a teacher, when she faces challenges and retreats, when she is wronged and indignant, when she does not know how to play roles, he is always the first to stand behind his daughter and guide her, let her be herself unswervingly!
With such excellent parents, coupled with her own efforts, it is difficult for her not to be popular!
02. Two marriages and two divorces, a bumpy marriage
Although Slanya's career was going well, her marriage had ups and downs.
"Siege of the City" made her an instant hit, and Fang Hong, played by Chen Daoming in the play, fell in love at first sight with Tang Xiaofu played by Shi Lanya. Although they broke up in the end, Shi Langya secretly felt affection for the mature and stable Chen Daoming.
Some people say that if Chen Daoming had the courage to leave the house for love like Li Youbin, there would be nothing for Li Youbin later.
But this relationship is destined to be just wishful thinking, Chen Daoming is 17 years older than Shi Langya, and his wife Du Xian is a strange woman with both talents and appearances, and the husband and wife have a deep relationship.
Despite his youth, his family's superior wealth, and his crush on him, he finally chose his wife who shared hardships. There are countless beautiful women in the world, if you see one love one, won't your feelings flood?
His first love died, and Shi Langya devoted himself to studying acting and was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama. After graduation, she went to the Beijing Drama Theater, and through hard work, she soon became the pillar of the theater.
There is never a shortage of suitors around her, after all, she is still young, but she seems to have a soft spot for mature, stable and older men.
At this time, she met the actor Weizi, but Weizi has been divorced, as a senior with rich experience, Weizi is very attracted to the beautiful and diligent study of Shi Langya, and takes care of and imparts experience in every way.
Shi Langya has almost no resistance to a delicate, mature and stable man, she falls into the gentleness of Weizi, and the two become a couple.
Later, Weizi's career became better and better, and after the two got along for a long time, various conflicts broke out because of the age gap and personality differences.
Especially Weizi is busy filming outside, and she can't take into account the thoughts of many romantic little daughters of her young girlfriend, and the long-term separation finally made them part ways.
However, the young and beautiful little girl did not worry about marrying, and soon she met her first husband, Liu Bin. The fate is very wonderful, the two turned out to be alumni of the Central Academy of Drama, and Liu Bin is still her senior brother.
With this relationship, the distance between the two was quickly brought closer. At this time, Liu Bin was already a well-known director, and he not only cared for this little junior sister, but also used his connections to create opportunities for her.
Soon after the two dating, Liu Bin proposed to his favorite goddess. Shi Lanya's heart has long been occupied by Liu Bin, isn't such a mature and stable man who spoils her in every way exactly what she longs for?
She accepted his marriage proposal without hesitation, despite her family's suggestion to observe the run-in for a while.
After entering the marriage, Shi Langya regretted that she was too hasty in marriage, she found that she did not know her husband, and the two became chicken feathers and quarreled after the initial sweetness after marriage.
Until Slanya felt exhausted, the first marriage came to an end two years later.
After the pain, Shi Langya put all her energy into work, and her friends around her were anxious for her.
At a party, a friend dragged her to an elite party, where she met her second husband, Dr. Turtle, who was both good looking and knowledgeable.
People always learn to behave after hitting the south wall, and so does Slangya, who no longer rushes into marriage. This time, she began to slowly run in with her boyfriend, and gradually she found that his boyfriend was of good character and knowledgeable, and the key was that she really couldn't be picky about herself.
Finally, the two entered the marriage hall with the blessing of their family, and soon after, Shi Langya became pregnant, which made her full of confidence in the future of marriage!
She was glad that she finally met the right person, and she secretly vowed in her heart that this time she must cherish the belated happiness, but unfortunately it backfired.
Soon after, her husband was accidentally diagnosed with cancer, and his husband did not want to affect her and her children, so he took the initiative to file for divorce.
Shi Langya did not agree and insisted on fighting the disease with her husband to the end. But her husband was extremely resolute, and Shi Langya had to live alone with her son who was waiting to be nursed, and her husband died soon after.
Slangya put away her grief and went back to work, now she is not just a person, she is still a child, with a greater responsibility on her shoulders, she has no reason to back down!
Fortunately, the busy work and the company of her children gradually healed her, and she thought that the rest of her life was to accompany her children to grow up slowly and no longer seek love.
Women, when you start to ask inward, your focus is shifted to yourself, your mentality will change drastically, and the whole person will become better and better!
03. Who said that women will drop prices after divorce
Shi Langya, who was divorced twice and had children with children, did not complain about her fate every time, let alone depressed, in addition to taking care of her children, she filmed non-stop.
She knows that her parents are old, and they can't help for a while, and they have to rely on themselves in the end! As for love, I am lucky to gain it, but I am lucky to lose my life!
She met her three husbands, Li Youbin, during filming, and not only regarded her son as her own, but also spoiled her.
It was first learned that Li Youbin, who was 13 years older than her, not only had a wife, but also a son, but the marriage between the two was only affectionate, and the husband and wife had long existed in name only.
But she still doesn't want to base her happiness on the pain of another woman.
While she was attracted by Li Youbin's maturity and steadiness, she felt ashamed of his wife until the media discovered that the two were dating in private. Love someone, be in love, stop being polite, and want to hide is impossible to hide.
Looking at his sweetheart who stood on the cusp of the storm because of his love, Li Youbin finally chose to end his 20-year marriage with his wife Zhang Ruiqi by leaving the house cleanly, just to give her a name.
Li Youbin also collapsed because of this, and finally his ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi stood up and spoke out, proving that their marriage has long been in crisis, and there is only a piece of paper left, even if it is not her, it will end sooner or later!
Only then can they accept everyone's blessings in honor! Many people are puzzled, why Li Youbin does not want to let the same beautiful original wife and biological son go, and he also wants to marry Shi Langya, who is married three times?
Li Youbin is a very enterprising person, but he has struggled for many years and is still not angry. It was precisely because of his confusion that Slangya appeared just right, and encouraged him to shoot the famous TV series "Bright Sword" and "Crossing the Kanto".
This made Li Youbin, who had worked hard but had been stuck in the bottleneck period, feel that Shi Langya was his nobleman.
And Slangya is indeed very good both externally and internally, although his wife gave birth to a son for him and has been silently paying for him for this family for 20 years.
But compared to Li Youbin, who was finally affirmed for many years such as the rise of his career and the rise of his career, Shi Langya is an angel who came to save him, and it was she who allowed him to regain his confidence as a man!
I have to admit that for most men, especially men with a heavy career, career success is even better than family and children, and career is his face and dignity!
Without money, what to take to glorify the ancestors, no career, what to take to feed the family? Conversely, what successful man have you ever met who lacks a wife and children? No matter how crooked he looks!
This also reminds women who give up their careers to stay at home full-time, foolishly boiling into grudges for men, and ending up making wedding clothes for others. Only living as yourself is the wisest choice.
There are also many women who grit their teeth desperately when the marriage is really unsustainable, preferring to survive in the marriage rather than fear of ending.
First, they are unwilling, more afraid that women will drop the price after divorce, especially single mothers with children are even more uncared for, and they will die alone.
But Slangya divorced twice, with children, and was still spoiled as a princess by men. In fact, when women pin their happiness on men, you lose badly, and you lack the courage to leave a bad marriage and live alone!
That's right, men mind a woman's divorce, and they also mind a woman divorced with children. But women who are truly self-reliant are attractive, more mature, more understanding and tolerant.
Such a woman will make them willingly ignore those additional factors, which is why Slanya was treated as a treasure after his divorce. After all, a woman's divorce depends on who you are? What do you live like?