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May 20, which has ended, is not only a good day for live broadcasting, but also a day of abuse of many single dogs, and many romantic moments appear on the screen.
In today's boom of Internet development, more and more people show affection is known, ordinary people, but also entertainment stars. They show their love life in the most authentic way, but they can't escape criticism.
Zhang Shu, 47, posted a news on social platforms, which was a photo of Xu Yajun, who was 12 years older than himself. It can be seen that Xu Yajun is really old, and some netizens sharply said that "the two are like father and daughter".
But the comment caused the memories of netizens, "I really don't know where He Qing is worse than her" This sentence evokes all kinds of past, and I don't know how many grudges and grudges are hidden behind a marriage.
Maybe the name Xu Yajun sounds unfamiliar to you, but the drama he plays must be familiar to you.
"In this world, no one can judge me, not even God!" With this sentence falling, Qi Tongwei committed suicide, and Qi Tongwei's sacrifice attracted the resentment of many audiences and once became a hot topic on the Internet.
And in "In the Name of the People", Qi Tongwei is played by Xu Yajun, one of the most attractive and personalized male characters in the play.
As a seasoned department-level cadre, he not only performed well in public security work, but also had a unique charm and philosophy of life.
Xu Yajun's interpretation of this role perfectly shows the different aspects of Qi Tongwei, which is impressive. It can be described as his pinnacle and adds another brilliant stroke to his acting career.
But the role he played in this drama also takes care of his life like a fairy tale, in the play Qi Tongwei married Liang Lu, who was ten years older, for his own career, but this kind of love without emotional foundation finally came to betrayal, and when he turned around, he fell in love with Gao Xiaoqin again, netizens sighed, isn't he the realistic version of "Qi Tongwei"?
And in reality, he has experienced four marriages and was once labeled a scumbag, so how does his life's struggle balance with his private life, let's take a look.
The teenager became famous
He has had excellent grades since he was a child, and has also joined the CCTV children's performance team. In the play, Secretary Dakang and Qi Tongwei are mortal rivals, and what we don't know is that outside the play, he and "Secretary Dakang" Wu Gang met when they were children and are very good friends.
When they were young, the two were often naughty and climbed Xiangshan Mountain together to catch clams. Later, Xu Yajun was expelled from the Central Children's Team because he was too naughty, because he took one day off every week, and there were activities every weekend, he didn't go six times, and he was expelled when he secretly went to play.
It is said that a little girl took 60,000 yuan to chase him, 60,000 yuan in his time was not a small amount, and Xu Yajun was also crying and laughing.
Interestingly, at that time, Xu Yajun received love letters from different girls almost every day, and many of them had to be packed in sacks.
At that time, he filmed the play "Looking for the World Back" with Song Dandan, his handsome face and the bohemian image in the play are deeply rooted in the hearts of the audience, with this drama made him red half of the sky, and also won the first person in China on the cover of "Popular Film" magazine, and also won the Golden Eagle Award.
At the age of 22, he gained a lot, and also met the love he liked and liked himself, his first wife Huang Jianping entered the marriage hall, but unfortunately two years later, Huang Jianping died of illness, Xu Yajun was very sad, and this relationship also ended hastily.
Four marriages, two children
But soon after, a girl named Zhang Xi soothed his heart, and the two met in the crew of "Cardamom Years", and in the silent companionship of the two for a long time, the spark of love was ignited, so Xu Yajun began his second marriage.
Due to their shared career pursuits, both are busy and often unable to find time to communicate adequately. Soon after, the relationship between the two gradually faded and finally broke up. Although there are other reasons as a trigger, lack of communication is the main cause of relationship breakdown.
When filming "Wind and Grudge", he was fascinated by the heroine He Qing, He Qing is a typical big beauty in the circle, has played the actress of four famous books, and is also known as the first classical beauty in the mainland, the two are obsessed with each other in the play, and it is inevitable that sparks collide outside the play.
At that time, Xu Qing had a boyfriend of 5 years, and Xu Yajun was also married, the two of them were actually quite ruthless, Xu Yajun's first sentence when he returned home filed for divorce, which frightened his wife Zhang Shu who patiently accompanied him.
The other party, He Qing, endured the pain of cutting his love, and after breaking up with his boyfriend Liu Wei, he also found Xu Yajun's wife Zhang Xi at the time, and said: "If there is no me, there will be Li Qing and Liu Qing, and you will divorce sooner or later!" ”
These verbal blows pressed on Zhang Xi's chest like a big stone, making Zhang Xi breathless, and she almost went to the threshold of life and death because of this matter.
So let go of this relationship, He Qing and Xu Yajun also got married, the two gave birth to the crystallization of love soon after marriage, and named Xu He, although this marriage was not favored and caused countless controversies, but the two still walked together.
The last love
But the feelings that came out of the acting could not withstand the test of time after all, Xu Yajun wanted He Qing to care more about his family, but He Qing, who was so enterprising, was unwilling to give up the rivers and mountains he had laid down, and the two ended the marriage in an unhappy and sentenced the child to the man.
I think marriage is not just a piece of paper, it requires the dedication and dedication of both parties. If we can respect each other, understand each other, and truly value each other, marriage can last for a long time.
Xu Yajun, who failed in love, then concentrated on other aspects, playing golf with his good friend, and while exercising, exuding the charm of a mature man, he met his fourth wife on the course.
Although he is 12 years younger than himself, he is not a shackle that binds love after all. So in a 5-year relationship, they mustered up the courage to be together, and within two years they had their own children.
The long-distance running in his love finally has the answer, and finally Zhang Shu, who has accompanied him for life, may be his only destination, and after marriage, he will not lose his interest, and the room will be full of photos of the two, and confess with heart-shaped petals, love to the depths, the two hug each other tightly.
Xu Yajun's love life has always attracted much attention, and his marriage and divorce have become the focus of media attention. His first marriage lasted ten years, while his second lasted only two short years. His third marriage lasted eight years, and now he has a fourth.
This series of marriages and divorces has led to speculation and evaluation of his personal life. However, both Xu Yajun's personal choice and his love life should be respected and protected.
Everyone has their own lifestyle and choices, and we cannot interfere excessively in the private lives of others. Although Xu's social media accounts are full of the names of his former wife, He Qing, this does not mean that his new marriage is unhappy or unsuccessful.
Xu Yajun has reached middle age, but he does not stop because of this. He is still working hard for his dreams and the appreciation of the audience.
He finally found the life he wanted, and the hard work he put in along the way finally paid off, and although life kept teaching Xu Yajun lesson after lesson, he was not defeated.
Instead, he worked harder, studied and pursued his goals. While succeeding, he is also trying to correct his shortcomings and flaws. Many people still speculate and talk about his personal life. However, we might as well focus on his great achievements and tireless efforts, and set our sights on his future and career.