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The teenager Xu Yajun has had a strong interest in acting since he was a child. In 1977, at the age of 13, he was successfully admitted to the children's acting class of the Central Academy of Drama, and became friends with the famous singer Cai Guoqing.
Xu Yajun's parents looked at his love for acting and resolutely supported and encouraged him to pursue his dreams, which undoubtedly paved the way for his future.
In 1980, Xu Yajun officially graduated from Chinese opera and was assigned to work at the China Children's Art Theater. Although he has excellent talent and outstanding family background, he did not take advantage of this to be flamboyant and domineering, but chose to hone his acting skills in a down-to-earth manner.
With his excellent performance skills and tireless efforts, Xu Yajun soon grew into a leader in the field of stage plays, not only with a qualitative leap in salary, but also into a new stage of career development.
In 1984, Xu Yajun became famous by playing the role of the cold and rebellious Xie Yue in the TV series "Looking for the World Back", and his popularity skyrocketed overnight, and he also won the honor of "Golden Eagle Emperor".
This is undoubtedly a great affirmation of his excellent acting skills, and it also marks his official ascent to the pinnacle of the entertainment industry. However, starring in the play also brought some obstacles to Xu Yajun's career, and he was banned from taking over any drama for three years.
Although he suffered such a blow, Xu Yajun did not collapse. Instead, he used this free time to conduct in-depth self-analysis and reflection.
Finally in the 1987 TV series "Wind and Rain Beauty", he created the role of the gentle and kind Wei Ning, which was once again widely recognized by the audience. Since then, Xu Yajun has starred in many popular TV series and movies, such as "Urban Emotion" and "In the Name of the People", etc., his career is thriving, his reputation is famous, and he has become a bright star in the entertainment industry.
Marriage was bumpy
While his career reached the top, Xu Yajun's married life was not all smooth sailing. In 1984, he became famous overnight in the TV series "Looking for the World Back" with his excellent acting skills, and won the honor of "Golden Eagle Emperor", which is gratifying.
But at this time, he was heavily fined by the theater and banned from taking over any drama for 3 years, which undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to his career and life.
During these difficult days, Zhang Xi, an actor from the same theater, gave him meticulous care and help, and accompanied him through the most difficult time. The two fell in love with each other, and finally came together and started a second marriage.
But the good times didn't last long, as Xu Yajun's career flourished, the two spent less and less time together, and the contradictions increased day by day, and finally it was difficult to escape the end of divorce.
In 1995, during the filming of the movie "Wind and Lotus Resentment", Xu Yajun met He Qing, the "first classical beauty", and a deep relationship immediately developed between the two.
In order to stay with his beloved, Xu Yajun resolutely decided to divorce Zhang Xi and marry He Qing as his wife. However, this decision was not only criticized by the people around him, but even He Qing's boyfriend Liu Wei was gritting his teeth and opposing it.
After going through all kinds of hardships and public condemnation, Xu Yajun and He Qing finally officially entered the marriage hall in 2001 and had a son, Xu He. It is a pity that this marriage came to an end in 2003, and He Qing admitted that the contradictions in their married life could not be reconciled in the end, and finally chose to part ways.
After three failed marriages, the 39-year-old Xu Yajun has become more and more indifferent to the idea of finding a other half, and he has devoted all his energy to the study of acting, hoping to shine a new luster in his career.
Happy life
After three failed marriages, the 39-year-old Xu Yajun has become indifferent to the idea of finding a other half, and he has devoted all his energy to the study of acting, hoping to shine with new brilliance in his career.
The goddess of fate seems to have other arrangements, and during the filming of the TV series "Days Together", Xu Yajun met the new actor Zhang Shu. At that time, Zhang Shu was full of admiration for the veteran star, and often asked him for professional knowledge about acting.
After getting along day and night, the hearts of the two gradually got closer, and a spark of love was generated.
At first, Xu Yajun did not have a strong interest in the sport of golf, because each swing takes a lot of time, which is undoubtedly a torment for him who is impatient.
However, an accidental fracture gave him the idea of learning golf, and he hoped to be able to shoot related works in the future.
Under the guidance of a professional coach, Xu Yajun gradually fell in love with the sport, while the beginner Zhang Shu relied on his careful guidance to improve his skills. It was during those days of playing together that Zhang Shu discovered that Xu Yajun was not the "flowery" uncle rumored by the outside world, but a gentle and considerate man.
Soon, Zhang Shu fell into Xu Yajun's gentle trap, and the relationship between the two became deeper and deeper. Although knowing his identity and background is not enough to match her, Xu Yajun still can't suppress his good impression of her, and is eager to care more and take care of her.
Finally, after three years of getting along and getting along with each other, the two finally came together.
When he got married, he encountered strong opposition from Zhang Shu's parents. They strongly disagreed with their daughter marrying a middle-aged man who had been married three times and had one son.
Although Xu Yajun and Zhang Shu tried unrelentingly to persuade, they never wavered from the attitude of the two elders. In desperation, Zhang Shu could only take a tender offensive, and finally got the consent of his parents.
So in 2008, Ms. Zhang Shu did not hesitate to enter the marriage hall with this man who was 12 years older than her.
Happiness and contentment
After getting married, the first problem you face is the trade-off between family and career. In view of the conditions at that time, Xu Yajun's acting career was at its peak, and Ms. Zhang Shu's career opportunities were just beginning, so Ms. Zhang Shu resolutely decided to give up her career and devote herself to family life.
In the face of taking care of her stepson Xu He and handling the trivial matters of the family, Ms. Zhang Shu showed selfless dedication. At first, Xu He was still estranged from this strange "aunt", but under the patient care of Ms. Zhang Shu, the relationship between the two gradually became harmonious, and Xu He finally affectionately called her "mother".
At the same time, Mr. Xu Yajun also showed a stronger and stronger romantic feeling. He often picks up and drops off his children to school, helps Ms. Zhang Shu with household chores, and even quietly takes out part of his private money to buy gifts for his wife.
Every time Ms. Zhang Shu's birthday, he will carefully plan a romantic confession ceremony to express his deep love for her.
On the occasion of the 10th wedding anniversary of the two, Xu Yajun once again prepared an unforgettable surprise for Ms. Zhang Shu. The scene is filled with flowers, balloons and heart-shaped petals all over the ground, exuding a romantic atmosphere.
This scene touched all the relatives and friends. Relatives and friends who had resolutely opposed the two being together at the time rushed to witness the happy moment of this loving couple, and they were full of emotion.
Ms. Zhang Shu looked at her lover, baby son and beloved parents in front of her, and her heart swelled with warmth, feeling that the original decision was so correct, and all the effort and sweat were worth it.