Can you believe this is 60-year-old Xu Yajun?
If you go back 40 years, his appearance can completely kill the current little fresh meat.
It's a pity that the handsome guy also gets old one day, and now Xu Yajun's favorite thing to do is to cook for his family.
And share the process of cooking with fans on social platforms, often talking about his wife, family, and old mother.
No matter how you look at it, he is a rare good man.
But in the entertainment industry, handsomeness is often linked to the heart of flowers, and Xu Yajun is not exempt from vulgarity, he has a total of 4 wives, and one is more beautiful than the other.
If that's not a lot of heart, who believes it?
But Xu Yajun said that he really wasn't a flower, but was only responsible for his marriage.
And the beginning of Xu Yajun's "flower heart" starts with his early death of his wife, when he was only 20 years old.
If it weren't for the early death of his wife, perhaps he would not have been married four times.
01
Xu Yajun's father is a soldier, with rough hands and face, and a bold personality, and he never eats for more than five minutes.
But when it came to Xu Yajun, the situation changed.
Xu Yajun is the youngest child in the family, since he was a child, he has delicate facial features and fair skin, like a doll.
Maybe this is a bit like describing a girl, but that's the truth, Xu Yajun when he was a child,
Looks even more beautiful than a girl.
Because of his parents' work, the family moved to Beijing shortly after he was born.
Later, out of doting on him, his mother took the initiative to send him to a key literary primary school to study.
I hope that he will be able to engage in literary and artistic work in the future, and not rely on physical strength to eat.
And Xu Yajun also lived up to expectations, because he was too good-looking, he joined the CCTV children's performance team when he was in elementary school.
In addition to performing on stage, they will also learn to sing and dance.
This has to be mentioned, Xu Yajun is indeed very talented in literature and art, and his waist is softer than many girls.
When practicing the basic skills of dance, many children cried heartbreakingly, only he was like no one.
There are a lot of difficult movements that can be done with ease.
When he was 8 years old, the movie "Beacon Boy" went to the performance team to select young actors, and Xu Yajun also actively signed up.
However, in the end, he was too short and was not selected.
This blow may not be anything to others, but it is difficult for Xu Yajun, who has always been smooth, to accept.
He went home and told his parents:
"What's so great about making movies, you can see it, I can definitely become a movie star. ”
Parents smiled, only thinking that this was a child's words, but more than ten years later, Xu Yajun not only became the hottest male star at that time,
and also became the first male star to appear on the cover of "Popular Movie".
Three years later, Xu Yajun finally realized his dream of being an actor and starred in the first movie in his life "Youth Like Fire".
After returning home, he excitedly shared his feelings about making a movie with his family, watching him look elated,
The parents began to believe that maybe their son could really become a movie star.
At the age of 12, with the support of his parents, Xu Yajun was admitted to the children's class of the Central Academy of Drama and became classmates with Cai Guoqing.
It is said that the two still live in the same dormitory, and it is a bunk bed relationship.
At that time, Cai Guoqing became the target of bullying by his classmates because he was too handsome and his figure was relatively thin.
And Xu Yajun helped him fight a lot, and until now, the two are also very good friends.
At the age of 16, Xu Yajun graduated from Chinese opera and was assigned to the China Children's Art Theater as an actor.
At a young age, he got an iron job bowl and got a salary.
It was here that he met his first wife, Huang Jianping.
02
In the children's theater, Xu Yajun can be said to be a piece of fragrant bait, and he is very particular about life and work.
At that time, he often acted in children's dramas such as "The Mermaid of the East China Sea" and "Paul Kochakin", in order to improve his acting skills,
He also went to the library to borrow the original novel in order to have a deep understanding of the characters in the book.
Thanks to his tireless efforts, he soon became a pillar of the theater.
In addition to being meticulous in his career, he is also very delicate in life.
Wearing the most popular bell bottoms at the time, a white shirt that is always washed and clean,
The hair is combed and shiny, and I like to spray perfume on my body.
Who doesn't love such a self-motivated and beauty-loving young man?
And Huang Jianping is one of Xu Yajun's many suitors, she, like Xu Yajun, is also the pillar of the troupe.
And he has a gentle personality and beautiful appearance, and his favorite thing to wear is a white dress, which is like a small white flower.
Standing with Xu Yajun in a white shirt, it was quite a match.
In those days, falling in love was still an unspeakable thing, but this was difficult for the subtle and intelligent Huang Jianping.
She went to the library and sandwiched a small piece of paper in the book Xu Yajun often reads.
Sometimes it's a love poem full of girl's heart, and sometimes it's also a sharing of your own life,
Even, the two discussed the weather at that time in this way.
Finally one day, Xu Yajun found that Huang Jianping actually used the same brand of perfume with himself.
Combined with the handwriting, he was even more sure that the person he had been friends with for a long time was Huang Jianping.
When the last layer of window paper is pierced, everything falls into place.
The two watched the stars on the lawn together, went to the reading hall to read together, and discussed acting skills together.
At that age, Huang Jianping can be said to have completely satisfied Xu Yajun's fantasy of love,
Both also regard each other as their best mates.
In that era, marriage was relatively early, and with the help of colleagues, the two entered the marriage hall early.
While working, Huang Jianping took care of the housework, kept the house in order, and washed Xu Yajun's clothes cleanly.
With Huang Jianping, a virtuous helper, Xu Yajun also ushered in an explosive period in his career.
In 1986, 20-year-old Xu Yajun won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actor with the TV series "Looking for the World Back".
It can be said that he was the youngest Emperor at that time.
With the role of the bad boy "Earl" in the play, Xu Yajun has become the male god in the hearts of countless girls across the country.
So much so that the postman had a headache when he saw that it was his letter, because there were so many people who wrote to him,
Each time he had to carry it in a hemp bag and drive him there.
What's more, a fanatical female fan actually carried her entire net worth of 60,000 yuan,
rushed to Beijing to confess to him that he wanted to marry him, Xu Yajun swore that
Although he is already a big star, he has never seen so much money.
At this time, although Xu Yajun had a successful career, he was not happy at all.
Because his wife Huang Jianping, who had just been married for a long time, died of illness.
03
Not long after getting married, Huang Jianping fell seriously ill, although he tried his best to treat it,
But it still failed to save her young life.
Huang Jianping's departure hit Xu Yajun deeply, and he has been in a slump ever since.
He lay on the couch at home, watching the empty house smoke one cigarette after another.
In the evening, he borrowed wine to kill his sorrows, and when his eyes were drunk and hazy,
It seems that Huang Jianping can still be seen wearing his favorite dress, turning in a circle in front of him and asking him if he looks good.
Seeing Xu Yajun become like this, one person was distressed,
She is Xu Yajun's colleague in the Children's Theater, Zhang Xi.
Zhang Xi is also a very successful actress, when she won the movie "Cardamom Years",
also won the Best Actress Award at the Tong Niu Awards.
Like Huang Jianping, she is also one of Xu Yajun's suitors, but unfortunately, she is not as brave as Huang Jianping.
Later, after Xu Yajun and Huang Jianping confirmed their relationship, she regretted it for a long time.
Now that Huang Jianping has died, Xu Yajun is becoming more and more depressed, which makes her see hope again.
Ignoring other people's gossip, she went to help Xu Yajun pack up her housework and wash her clothes every few days.
Every time before leaving, I will cook a delicious meal for him.
Under her careful care, Xu Yajun gradually walked out of the pain of losing his wife.
Zhang Xi saw that the time was ripe, so he confessed to Xu Yajun,
And Xu Yajun was in a gap period of affection at that time, probably moved by Zhang Xi's true feelings.
agreed to Zhang Xi, and the two soon became husband and wife.
After getting married, Xu Yajun once again focused on his career.
In 1992, he won two awards in a row, the Feitian Award and the Golden Eagle Award, with "Wind and Rain Beauty" with Song Chunli.
Become a powerful actor of the same age.
Although Zhang Xi is also very virtuous, Xu Yajun always feels that their relationship seems to lack something.
But he couldn't tell the truth, so he passed for several years in a daze.
Both have their own careers and have never had children.
Until 1995, Xu Yajun met He Qing, the "first classical beauty", while filming "Wind and Lotus Resentment",
He suddenly realized that the feeling He Qing gave him was the love he wanted.
At that time, Xu Yajun had a wife Zhang Xi, and He Qing also had his own boyfriend, and they had been living together for five years.
But the two are like lovers who have reunited after a long absence, and they still came together without hesitation.
After returning home, Xu Yajun filed for divorce from Zhang Xi, and it is said that the angry Zhang Xi almost died of a heart attack.
As the quarrels between the two increased, Zhang Xi also realized that the twisted melon would not be sweet after all.
She just took advantage of Huang Jianping's sudden death, if the timing was changed, Xu Yajun would definitely not marry her.
After thinking about this, Zhang Xi chose to let go and fulfill Xu Yajun and He Qing.
The combination of Xu Yajun and He Qing is not favored, and both of them have a very bad reputation.
But that doesn't stop them from showing affection.
After getting married, Xu Yajun became a well-known wife, and his friends called him out to play cards, and he said that he wanted to stay at home to cook.
A friend called him out for a drink, and he said that he wanted to accompany He Qing out for a walk.
And he also said that this is not a sign of fear of his wife, but a love for his wife.
In 2001, He Qing gave birth to her son Xu He, as can be seen from the name,
How sweet their marriage really is!
When fans saw that the two were so affectionate, they no longer cared about what happened before.
It is not a good thing that Xu Yajun can honestly collect his heart and live a down-to-earth life.
But in 2005, the news of the divorce of the two suddenly broke out.
At this time, everyone knew that in fact, as early as 2003, the two had divorced.
04
The reason for the divorce of the two may be related to their careers.
After having a son, the two had to face a problem,
That is, there must be a person who makes sacrifices in his career and devotes some energy to his family.
However, He Qing is also a very ambitious person, because of this incident, the two gradually disagreed.
In the end, he chose to break up peacefully, and his son Xu He returned to Xu Yajun.
At that time, Xu Yajun was 39 years old, but he had already experienced three failed marriages.
Even he himself thinks that maybe he will always rely on his son for the rest of his life.
But at this time, a girl 12 years younger than him suddenly walked into his life,
This girl is Zhang Shu.
Zhang Shu is a native of Heilongjiang, a typical Northeast girl, who dares to love and hate.
Because she looks like Anita Mui, she is also known as "Anita Mui".
The two first met in 2004 when filming "Days Together".
At that time, Xu Yajun was already an old-timer in the circle, and Zhang Shu was just a newcomer who had just been in the industry for a few years.
Therefore, the two only nodded at each other in the crew, and did not have much intersection.
But what Xu Yajun didn't expect was that Zhang Shu had the same hobby as him, that is, playing golf.
On the court, the two "don't know each other if they don't fight", and their relationship gradually warmed up.
finally entered the palace of marriage in 2008.
At that time, Xu Yajin was 44 years old, not only with a son, but also married four times.
And Zhang Shu is only 32 years old and is in his best years.
Therefore, almost everyone is not optimistic about them, thinking that with Xu Yajun's past love history, he will soon leave Zhang Shu.
But what is surprising is that now 16 years have passed, Xu Yajun not only did not divorce Zhang Shu,
On the contrary, they lived to be a peerless good man, and their family of three became a family of four.
Soon after getting married, Zhang Shu gave birth to a son for Xu Yajun.
may be to prove his determination to grow old with Zhang Shu, after getting married, Xu Yajun not only paid all his salary,
and also took care of the affairs at home, as big as Zhang Shu went out to film, and as small as paying water and electricity bills at home,
He has to personally inquire about everything, no matter how big or small, for fear that Zhang Shu will be wronged a little.
Regarding his past love history, Xu Yajun did not shy away from it, and even said frankly:
"I have nothing to fear. ”
In his opinion, since it is not suitable for the two to be together, it is better to separate as soon as possible,
Not all divorces are because of heart, on the contrary, it is a responsible attitude towards marriage.
Today, Xu Yajun is 60 years old, and he has publicly shown his love to Zhang Shu.
said that Zhang Shu is a gift and grace from God to him,
moved Zhang Shu to tears.
However, it is not so much that Xu Yajun has found true love,
It's better to say that he met the right person at the right time and under the right situation.
If Zhang Shu had met him ten years earlier, it might have been the same ending as Zhang Xi and He Qing.
As for what Xu Yajun said, getting married four times is not because of flowers, which is the wisdom of the benevolent and the wise.
Some people may think that this is right, but others will feel that it is just a grandiose excuse.
Xiaobian believes that not all marriages are just right and perfect.
Most marriages need to tolerate each other, and then after time polishing, they can become more and more tacit.
If they are all like Xu Yajun, they will directly save the process of running in with each other, and if they are not suitable, they will be replaced directly.
The consequences are unimaginable.
Some people also believe that Xu Yajun did not really find true love,
He's just getting old and doesn't want to toss anymore.
But what is going on, I'm afraid only Xu Yajun himself knows best.
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