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Celebrities have no private lives, and they are exposed to the spotlight because of their "celebrity" status in and out of the play.
Xu Yajun's nearly 40-year star career, compared to his acting skills, the marriage of four marriages and two divorces is more talked about.
Although there is a widely circulated saying on the Internet that "falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan", he does not think so.
In Xu Yajunnian's words, every relationship is serious! Every lover is married home.
People can't help but think: Is love a "fast food" fast food, or a long stream of water that needs to be "slow cooked"?
At the same time, I can't help but ask, who gave Xu Yajun the courage to make him say such a "scum" thing?
The "innocent" little prince has a smooth career
Xu Yajun can be so proud and confident, in addition to his excellent appearance, it also has a lot to do with his childhood experience.
Xu Yajun, who was born in a proletarian family in Handan, Hebei Province in 1964, has been the darling of the family since birth.
As the youngest child in the family, Xu Yajun has two older brothers, although his arrival has destroyed the brothers' "sister dream", but this does not affect the love of his brothers and parents for him.
Later, the family changed with their parents' work, and the family went to Beijing to start a new life.
Xu Yajun, who grew up in love, not only lived a "little prince" treatment in front of his family, but also captured the hearts of many neighbors and aunts through his cute appearance.
This also created his "proud and confident" character, but he does have this self-confidence, when Xu Yajun just turned eight years old, he was selected by CCTV for his excellent appearance, and since then he has started the days of "child star".
The selected Xu Yajun was arranged by CCTV to be an actor in the youth performance team of this station, and Wu Gang was also on the same team.
In 1975, Xu Yajun, who was in the youth team, played the younger brother of the heroine Liang Dongxia in the movie "Youth Like Fire", and played the younger brother of the heroine Liang Dongxia in the movie "Youth Like Fire" at the age of 11.
It wasn't until 1976 that the China Children's Art Theater and the Central Academy of Drama jointly founded a class for young professional actors, because Xu Yajun, who had an outstanding performance in the movie "Youth Like Fire" before, was directly remembered by Chang Li, a teacher of Chinese opera.
Taking this opportunity, Teacher Chang Li first thought of Xu Yajun, a young actor, who was in elementary school in Beijing, and was named to enter the Chinese opera, and became a classmate with Cai Guoqing.
In the performances of the students, Xu Yajun often plays the image of some princes and sons in the campus dramas rehearsed by the school because of his outstanding appearance and unique temperament.
Among the female classmates, he was a heartthrob, at that time, although he was still an innocent teenager, he was still in a state of half-understanding of feelings.
But he has a special affection for his female classmate Huang Jianping, and Huang Jianping is also not bad, one of the best "beauties" in the class, so the two of them fell in love with each other, and the two fell in love.
First love is like the warm sun of early spring, warm and short, no one expected that the death of the first love Huang Jianping brought this love to an end, leaving Xu Yajun with endless thoughts and pain.
Expose the true face of the "flower man".
In 1986, Xu Yajun starred in a TV series "Looking for the World Back", which was rare at that time to depict work-study school students, and played the chic and dignified "Earl" Xie Yue in the play, this role is simply tailor-made for you and him.
Even after Xu Yajun himself read the original novel, he thought that this protagonist was himself, so he had to play it, and it was with this that Xu Yajun became popular all over the country overnight, and he also tasted fame for the first time since he became an adult.
This drama had a great impact at that time, and for a while, fan letters from all over the country filled Xu Yajun's mailbox, especially female fans, who almost reached a state of "close to madness".
Even these female fans tracked down the place where Xu Yajun worked in Beijing, just to meet the "male god in his dreams", but this incident also had a great impact on Xu Yajun, in order to avoid these fans, he hid at home for several days and did not dare to go out.
His popularity back then was unimaginable, and even the cover of the 1986 magazine "Popular Film" used Xu Yajun's.
Before that, this magazine was all shot by popular female stars, and he was the first male star in history to appear in "Popular Movies".
It was during the rise of his career that Xu Yajun met Zhang Ling, and her appearance was like a beam of light, illuminating his world and accompanying him out of the shadow of his first love.
However, the road of love is not always smooth, Xu Yajun and Zhang Ling's marriage, because of their respective busyness, gathering less and leaving more makes the two quarrel constantly.
"Flower Heart Big Radish" lost to his 12-year-old wife
It was also on the way to follow the "Interpretation of Dreams" that at the scene of the filming of "Wind and Lotus Resentment", Xu Yajun met He Qing, and a new relationship quietly sprouted.
He Qing is not a simple actor, he played half of the "Four Masterpieces" at the age of 24, and Xu Yajun, as the "male god of dreams", is still "climbing" the "popular goddess" He Qing in the eyes of fans.
But what you must know is that Xu Yajun at that time had not divorced his wife Zhang Ling, but Xu Yajun was like iron, very persistent, and at the same time he had already had a relationship with He Qing, so there was no way for Zhang Ling to choose divorce in the end.
Although the relationship between the two heated up rapidly, because Xu Qing had a boyfriend at that time and had been living together for five years, because he couldn't withstand Xu Yajun's gentle offensive of "soft grinding and hard bubbles", he still fell under Xu Yajun's "pomegranate skirt".
He Qing did not hesitate to choose to break up with her boyfriend at the time, and she didn't care that Xu Yajun had already had two marriages at that time, so she received a marriage contract with Xu Yajun at the speed of light.
After marriage in 2001, the crystallization of their love "Xu He" came to this world, and it can be seen that Xu Yajun and He Qing love each other deeply.
But with the passage of time, this relationship ended in a hurry because of some trivial things in life and the disunity of the three views of the two, Xu Yajun's view of love always seems to be so direct and straightforward.
After the end of the third relationship, Xu Yajun seemed to have begun to give up on his feelings, and even deliberately avoided falling in love.
He slowly began to focus on his life, and in addition to working and spending time with his children, he developed a hobby of playing golf.
Xu Yajun will go to the court if he has nothing to do, fate is such a coincidence, he always meets actress Zhang Shu, the actress who is 12 years younger than him, has become a new chapter in his life.
Their marriage, although it was not favored by the outside world at first, they proved everything with time, and now they are a happy family of three.
epilogue
In this uncertain world, we may not be able to predict the direction of love, but we can choose how to love.
Is it a momentary passion, or a lifelong commitment?
Everyone's answer is different, but in any case, we should respect love, respect our partner, and respect ourselves.
Information sources:
Baidu Encyclopedia: (Xu Yajun's personal experience, main works)
Xu Yajun: From heartthrob to charismatic male Phoenix TV [Citation date: 2014-04-16]
Revealing Xu Yajun's Four Marriages and Forcing His Wife Out of Heart Disease Sohu for the Third Lady [Citation date: 2021-06-07]