"Four marriages and cheating in marriage, this is not a flower but a responsibility" It was the "ageless male god" Xu Yajun who said this.
Now he is 60 years old but no different from young people in his 30s, he once became popular because of "In the Name of the People", so why did he say such a thing, is he distracted or responsible?
Xu Yajun's rich emotional history
Xu Yajun's appearance is very good, with thick eyebrows, big eyes and delicate face, with a temperament that is not inferior to Gu Tianle, and talented, so he is quite popular with girls, and he has also experienced four marriages.
His first wife was Huang Jianping, Xu Yajun was less than 20 years old at that time, the two met in the children's theater, and Huang Jianping, who was also an actor and colleague, was fascinated by Xu Yajun at a glance.
In addition, the two often cooperate in filming, so they have been together since they came and went, and the family is very satisfied with them, so they organized a wedding for them.
But the good marriage did not last long, his wife Huang Jianping was diagnosed with cancer and it was terminal, although after many treatments, but unfortunately passed away.
Xu Yajun grieved for a long time after this, and at this time a girl named Zhang Ya appeared in front of him, Zhang Ya is also an actor in the children's theater, and fell in love with Xu Yajun early, but Xu Yajun was married at that time, so he had to hide this love in his heart.
When she saw that Xu Yajun, who was immersed in the pain of losing his wife, couldn't come out, she mustered up the courage to approach Xu Yajun and comfort him, encourage him, and accompany him through the emotional trough.
The two soon received a marriage certificate, but Xu Yajun at this time was at the peak of his career, and Zhang Ya was also busy filming, the two couldn't be together for a long time because of work, and their relationship slowly became estranged, and Xu Yajun met Xu Qing, the "goddess", because of filming at this time.
He was soon fascinated by He Qing and fell in love with her, so he honestly told Zhang Yajun what he thought, but Zhang Ya couldn't accept Xu Yajun's empathy.
But she also knows that once a man's heart leaves, it will be difficult to turn back, and Xu Yajun did not act sorry for her in marriage, so she had no choice but to divorce Xu Yajun.
After the divorce, Xu Yajun turned around and expressed his love to He Qing, and He Qing was also moved by the handsome and infatuated Xu Yajun in front of him, and the two quickly got married and had their own children.
Xu Yajun, who was filming outside, could only find time to call He Qing who was at home with the child every day, shushing the cold and asking for warmth, which was very painful, and everyone was also moved by Xu Yajun's deep affection for He Qing.
There were even rumors that Xu Yajun was afraid of He Qing, but Xu Yajun just smiled and said that it was love, but this envious love in the eyes of outsiders soon came to the end, because the child was already old, so He Qing wanted to go back and do what he liked.
But Xu Yajun wanted her to watch the children at home, and didn't want He Qing to be so tired, the two argued endlessly for their ideals and the other for their lovers, and no one could convince anyone, and finally the two divorced.
After the divorce, Xu Yajun could only relieve the sorrow in his heart by playing golf, at this time Zhang Shu walked into Xu Yajun's sight, and after the two had more contact, they had a good impression of each other.
Soon got together and got married, the two have now walked the road of marriage for 14 years, but there have been no scandals and family conflicts.
Throughout Xu Yajun's four marriages, the first was because his wife died, the second time he did not cheat in marriage, but frankly told his wife to divorce, and the third time divorced because he loved each other too much.
He loves his wife very much in these marriages, and it is no wonder that Xu Yajun will say that he is not a flower.
epilogue
There are a lot of scandals in the entertainment industry, but there are not many stars like Xu Yajun who have been married four times but have not collapsed, after all, he has given all his love in every marriage, and his acting skills are also very exquisite, bringing everyone a lot of visual enjoyment.
Hopefully he can get better and better.