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"A woman should be a good wife and mother, and since she married you in, you should take up your responsibilities."
It's hard to believe that it's 2023, and there are still people who hold such traditional concepts.
Can't help but wonder, is there a royal throne waiting to be inherited in the man's family?
Whether there is a throne is unclear, but the person who said this sentence is actually no stranger to us.
She is the mother of "Hanako" in the TV series "Struggle".
It is said that "it is better to tear down ten temples than to destroy a single relative."
However, it was this "old-fashioned old mother" who broke up her son's three marriages one after another.
So that even though Zhu Yuchen has reached the "advanced age" of 44 this year, he is still alone.
This deformed maternal love not only hindered his love, but also almost forced him to death.
Now that he is middle-aged, but Zhu Yuchen, who is still living under the "surveillance" of his mother, really does not "hate" his mother?
01. Life under "heavy pressure on motherly love"
"Classmate, do you sleep and snore at night?"
In the 1998 Chinese opera men's dormitory, a mother pulled several boys in the dormitory to ask repeatedly.
Her son Zhu Yuchen stood aside with an embarrassed face, not knowing what to do.
And this was just the beginning, and then Mother Zhu noticed the creeper on the outer wall of the dormitory.
She carried the kettle and planned to pick up the kettle of boiling water and burn the plants outside the window.
The reason is that creepers give birth to insects, what if they bite their son.
Fortunately, other students quickly grabbed her and told her that such a private treatment was a violation of school rules and would be punished.
Only then did he dispel Zhu's mother's thoughts, and turned around to arrange a set of mosquito prevention gift packages for her son.
However, after this incident, Zhu Yuchen still became famous in a battle.
Everyone knows that a "squeamish man" came in the same class, and the beginning of school was personally sent to the dormitory by his mother to be placed.
But in fact, it is not Zhu Yuchen who is "squeamish", but Zhu's mother.
Such a life imprisoned by love, he has been living for 19 years...
Born in 1979, Zhu Yuchen is an authentic Shanghainese.
Before him, he actually had a sister, but his parents had always looked forward to "having both children".
Therefore, Zhu Yuchen's birth fulfilled his parents' dream for many years.
For this son who has been waiting for many years, they are also extremely loved, and they are afraid to melt in the palm of their hands.
Whether it is food or use, he does his best to provide the best for his son.
When she was six years old, her mother also spent a lot of money to buy a piano for Zhu Yuchen.
In her opinion, only such an expensive and elegant instrument is worthy of her son.
But children are naturally funny, and Zhu Yuchen is no exception, he doesn't want to sit at the piano boringly.
However, his mother, who had always spoiled him in every way, black-faced at this time and insisted that Zhu Yuchen practice enough time.
Perhaps it was also her mother's toughness on the piano that made little Zhu Yuchen realize:
No matter how he resisted, he couldn't resist his mother in the end, and he still had to act according to the original arrangement.
Therefore, Zhu Yuchen did not dare to contradict his mother, and calmly accepted all the arrangements of Zhu's mother.
From elementary school to high school, he had no chance to do housework at all, and everything was taken care of by Mother Zhu.
Until the college entrance examination, Zhu Yuchen decided to apply for the Central Academy of Drama because he liked acting too much.
Zhu's mother was also furious, she could not accept her son leaving her and going to another city to stay alone for four years.
And Zhu Yuchen, who has always been obedient, also fell out with his mother for the first time, and he insisted on going to Beijing to study.
In the end, it was Mother Zhu who understood the authority of Chinese opera, so she let go of her son to study abroad.
Then there was the scene from the dormitory of the Chinese drama earlier.
Because this was the first time that Zhu Yuchen left his life, Zhu's mother personally went to check for her son.
After the official start of school, Mother Zhu did not stop.
Every three to five, I have to come to see my son with a big bag and a small bag, and by the way, I will go to the dormitory to help him tidy up.
Because of this, classmates often called Zhu Yuchen a "giant baby", which made him unable to raise his head throughout his college years.
But that's not the scariest thing.
Later, Mother Zhu even ruined her son's three relationships because of "selfishness"...
02. The extremely picky "evil mother-in-law"
"Why doesn't anyone want to stay with me?"
In "That Kid in My Family", Zhu Yuchen, who has passed the age of standing, questions the camera.
In fact, the culprit that caused him to remain single at the age of 44 was his mother.
If it weren't for Mother Zhu's interference, perhaps today's Zhu Yuchen would have been a father and had his own family.
In fact, when Zhu Yuchen applied for the Chinese opera exam, in addition to the professionalism of the Chinese opera itself.
A large part of the reason is also because of his agreement with Tang Wei.
As early as when he took the art exam, Zhu Yuchen met Tang Wei, who was also an art examiner.
At that time, the two met at first sight and made an appointment to meet again on the campus of the Chinese opera.
But unfortunately, because of the lack of cultural classes, Tang Wei fell off the list.
Until Zhu Yuchen's sophomore year, Tang Wei was late and went to the previous agreement between the two.
Subsequently, Zhu Yuchen also launched a fierce pursuit of Tang Wei.
The two young people who have a good impression of each other also quickly formed a campus couple of you and my nong.
The relationship between them also developed to the stage of cohabitation.
But at this moment, Mother Zhu sensed that something was wrong.
She found that her son seemed to be in love, that the phone was always busy, and that she was reluctant to let herself learn to find him.
So, Mother Zhu concealed her son and secretly boarded a flight to Beijing.
And she really didn't guess wrong, her son was indeed hiding from her and secretly falling in love with girls.
Mother Zhu also immediately prepared a "Hongmen Banquet" to examine her future daughter-in-law.
At the dinner table, she learned that Tang Wei had fallen off the list several times and was not good at housework,
Although the surface is quiet, but there is a secret cross in the heart.
Later, Mother Zhu began to constantly pick on Tang Wei in front of her son.
And as a woman, Tang Wei also noticed that Mother Zhu did not like her.
Thinking that there would be such a mother-in-law in the future, Tang Wei chose to break up without thinking.
At that time, Zhu Yuchen knew that this breakup was inseparable from his mother.
But when he was young, he did not take this seriously, but temporarily put aside the idea of falling in love and began to develop a career.
After that, Zhu Yuchen's acting career really improved.
At the same time, his second love followed.
In 2009, when he cooperated with Huo Siyan to shoot "Love Must Have You to Be Perfect", there was an ambiguity between the two of them.
It happened that Mother Zhu also noticed the beautiful Huo Siyan during the visit to the class, so she took the initiative to encourage her son to chase this beautiful girl.
But Huo Siyan is obviously a sober woman, and she found out in her relationship:
Mother Zhu does not want to find a daughter-in-law, but wants to find a new "mother" for her son.
For example, in such a trivial matter as eating and adding food, Mother Zhu always asked Huo Siyan to help Zhu Yuchen.
In addition, Zhu Yuchen himself is also accustomed to this and enjoys his mother's care very much.
Therefore, Huo Siyan only had one thought left: run away!
As a result, this budding love once again died because of his mother.
After that, in 2012, Zhu Yuchen met another actress, Jiang Yan.
Frankly speaking, Jiang Yan is very much in line with Mother Zhu's daughter-in-law standards.
Not only beautiful, but also superb cooking, very good at taking care of people, proper good wife and mother.
However, Mother Zhu was still not very satisfied.
When she first met, she pointed out to her face that Jiang Yan's clothes were too revealing.
Although he is an elder, such words are still too impolite.
Coupled with Zhu Yuchen's indifference on the side, he didn't mean to help his girlfriend solve the siege at all.
Jiang Yan also chilled her heart and broke up with Zhu Yuchen soon after.
In this way, Zhu Yuchen, who was ruined three marriages, has completely become a love insulator and has been single so far.
But in fact, it was not only Zhu's mother who caused him to be single, but also himself.
03. A stagnant business
Influenced by Zhu's mother, it is not only Zhu Yuchen's love.
At the same time, there is also his acting career, which was also delayed because of this heavy maternal love.
Speaking of Zhu Yuchen, it may be rare to hear about it recently, but his early works are indeed many.
There is Huazi in "Struggle", and Chu Mu in "The N Power of Home", and "Who Decides My Youth"...
Once upon a time, Zhu Yuchen also fantasized that when he became famous and economically free, he would completely get rid of his mother's control.
But what he didn't expect was that his mother had been secretly "watching" him.
"From my first Weibo post to now, she has copied down every one, what time is it."
In a variety show, Zhu Yuchen complained that his mother had been paying attention to his social account.
Not only did he realize that Zhu Yuchen was unhappy and wanted to call over to ask what happened, but even if he didn't update for a few days, he also had to ask what happened.
After repeated inquiries, Zhu Yuchen really lost patience and never updated his social platform again.
But Mother Zhu was very unhappy, her son didn't update the news, what did he copy?
And this is only the most insignificant point in the "cage of maternal love".
Later, during the filming process, Zhu's mother was worried that her son would suffer hardships in the crew, and she had to accompany her to the hotel every time.
Not only will he bring cooking utensils and cook for his son in his hotel room.
will also go to the crew to accuse the director of whether the scene arranged for Zhu Yuchen is too dangerous.
Especially when shooting some beating shots, Mother Zhu rushed directly into the set to protect her son.
Afterwards, he begged Zhu Yuchen not to take these scenes, he would feel distressed when he saw it.
In fact, there is no need for Mother Zhu to explain more.
After this incident, the directors also have a tacit understanding that they will not easily invite Zhu Yuchen.
In this way, a young actor who originally had great potential finally became a "mom boy" that everyone avoided...
04. Conclusion
"I spent my whole life with my son."
Many people say that Zhu's mother's love is too strong, and she "ruined" Zhu Yuchen.
Even Zhu Yuchen himself felt so.
But is this really the case?
While complaining that her mother's love is too heavy, Zhu Yuchen naturally enjoys her mother's care.
Perhaps when he was young, he was really powerless to resist.
But now, he is a 44-year-old adult man!
It is not so much that his mother "imprisoned" him, but that he is used to such a comfort zone.
It was Zhu Yuchen himself who chose to be the "mom boy" under his mother's wing.
So such a "good eater and lazy to do" man does not deserve sympathy.
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