To say that the good men in the entertainment industry, Huang Lei has to occupy the number one.
In everyone's heart, Huang Lei is indeed a good father and a good husband.
Whether in variety shows or in film and television dramas, his image of a divine operator has gained a lot of popularity.
In addition to the success of his career, what makes everyone envious is the harmony of his children and his wife.
In the variety show "Longing for Life", Huang Lei revealed: I regret having three children and having children at the age of 46.
Well, isn't this a bit Versailles?
01, love at first sight teacher-student love
Huang Lei, who was 24 years old at the time, worked as a teaching assistant at the Beijing Film Academy.
Sun Li, who was only 18 years old, stepped into the film school as a freshman and mistook Huang Lei, who was studying for graduate school, as a teacher.
It was also this opportunity that Huang Lei fell in love with Sun Li at first sight.
After experiencing the pursuit of fetching water and delivering food, Huang Lei finally confessed to her in one afternoon.
Every week when Sun Li returns home, Huang Lei will send a letter on Friday. In this way, Sun Li can see this love letter when she returns to school.
After 9 years of sweet love, the two went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate.
Later, Sun Li sacrificed her career as an actress and became a full-time housewife at home.
Huang Lei is also very concerned about Sun Li's feelings, and has never been absent from housework such as taking children and cooking.
When choosing a job, I also try to choose one that is close to home, so that I can go home and cook for my mother and father.
Huang Lei once said: From now on, we will minimize our work, work less blindly, and cook more with our wives and children...
The two married and gave birth to two daughters, but Huang Lei always wanted to have a son, until the age of 46.
24 years, from two people together to a family of five now, ordinary happiness is just like that.
But Huang Lei said that he was older, had limited energy, and was unable to take care of his children.
Many people should be envious of the love between Huang Lei and Sun Li, but there is an episode behind this seemingly perfect relationship.
02, the fourth feeling
Huang Lei and Sun Li were not completely without scandals during their love affair, and there was a period of disagreement between him and Rene Liu.
Huang Lei has publicly stated that there is a fourth kind of feeling beyond love, family affection and friendship with Rene Liu.
This gave Mei Mei a blank stare. Does this feeling really exist?
Huang Lei and Rene Liu met in 1999. The two co-starred in a literary love movie "Night Run".
The 28-year-old Huang Lei plays the male No. 1 Xu Shaodong, and the 30-year-old Rene Liu plays the female No. 1 Ying'er, and they and Lin Chong, played by Yin Zhaode, show a good ambiguity and entanglement between two men and a woman.
The drama between them was continued because of the series "April Day on Earth".
In the play, Xu Zhimo, played by Huang Lei, is gentle and elegant, and Yushu Linfeng.
The original wife of Xu Zhimo, played by Rene Liu, is pure and gentle, intellectually introverted, leaving a deep impression on the audience.
In the play, Xu Zhimo scolded the original match, showing mercy everywhere, like a scumbag who did not compromise.
But outside the play, the two are like-minded.
Huang Lei, with long hair and fluttering, is gentle and elegant, full of bookishness, while Rene Liu is also pure and intellectual, full of literature and art.
The two met and hated each other late.
Inside and outside the play, we have more time to spend with each other.
They find each other simply another self in the world.
They all like to read, write articles, and have a literary and artistic style in their bones.
When Huang Lei's dramas such as "April Day on Earth" and "Orange Red" were still hot, he decided to direct and act in a literary and art film "Like Water Years".
Before filming began, he also called Rene Liu and said:
Successful things, I can find others to do together, are you willing to bear the possibility of failure with me?
Rene Liu, who had a very full schedule, agreed without hesitation and immediately appeared in the crew.
This script written by Huang Lei himself tells the story of Ying, a girl from Taiwan who came to shoot a drama, and Wen Yi, who worked in the Wuzhen Library, fell in love at first sight, and the two began a cross-strait romance.
Obviously, the Ying in the play was tailor-made by Huang Lei for Liu Reuying.
The first sentence in the theme song sung by Rene Liu is:
"Are we lucky to find another self after settling down in life?" Is it right for us to be worthy of such a thing, and is it comfortable to hold on to our desires? “
This lyric is singing about the people in the play, and why is it not the situation of Huang Lei and Liu Ruoying?
The ambiguous relationship between the two naturally attracted the attention of his girlfriend Sun Li.
Angry let Huang Lei make a choice, the answer we can also guess, Huang Lei chose to end the ambiguity.
In "Like Water Years", Huang Lei and Liu Reuying performed a vigorous love story, and the two soul-matching people eventually lost to reality.
Love and can't, this seems to be the end of the two people's reality.
03, bless you
At the concert on March 6, 2004, Rene Liu said:
A boy asked me if I wanted him to get married, and if I said no, he wouldn't tie the knot.
So I can tell you my answer now:
Two days later, Huang Lei and Sun Li were licensed to marry, and the 5-year-long ambiguity between him and Rene Liu finally ended.
Now Huang Lei's family of five lives happily, and Rene Liu is also married to a wealthy businessman. Since then, the two have never intersected.
For what Huang Lei called the "fourth feeling", Liu Reuying responded in this way.
"Huang Lei is so good, so good that I can't bear to break up with him after becoming boyfriend and girlfriend." I wanted to be able to talk to him a lot, a spiritual partner, and I felt that it would last a long, long time. ”
Some people say that Rene Liu's "Later" was sung to her mentor Chen Sheng, and some people said that it was sung to Huang Lei.
Together, you may face a breakup, but you can taste the sweetness of love.
Although they are not together, they are less likely to walk into each other, but they can always be close friends for a lifetime.
This may be the "fourth feeling" between Huang Lei and Liu Reuying.