Preface
She gave up the road to stardom, just to grow old with her beloved him, and more than 20 years later, she is still in love
A love song that spans 10 years, have they found the answer to true love?
Speaking of Sun Li, many people may not know much about it, but they only remember that she has a famous work "The Legend of Sword and Fairy" that is popular all over the country, and the role she plays is wonderful.
But after that, Sun Li faded out of the entertainment industry for a long time and lost people's attention.
In fact, since she was 18 years old, she has known a man 6 years older than her - Huang Lei.
This popular young singer took Sun Li's hand because of the scene, and since then the fate of the two has come together until marriage.
Now 20 years have passed, Sun Li has chosen to give up a lot for her family, but their relationship is still as sweet and hot as when they first got together.
So, what kind of mental journey did Sun Li and Huang Lei go through? Why did they love each other deeply and enter the palace of marriage? Now that time has passed, they are still loving and warm, how do they manage love and cross the wall of the world of two people?
The dancing girl was fascinated by the "great god" Huang Lei and held the hand of love on campus
In 1977, Sun Li was born in an ordinary family in Dalian, Liaoning.
The parents were very open-minded and did not neglect the nurturing of her just because she was a daughter.
At the age of 11, Sun Li was admitted to the High School Affiliated to Beijing Dance Academy with her super high dancing talent.
Growing up in such an artistic atmosphere, Sun Li gradually developed a strong interest in acting.
After graduating from high school in 1995, Sun Li gave up her dance career and was admitted to the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy instead.
This turning point made another man appear in her life - Huang Lei, who is 6 years older than her.
Huang Lei was studying for graduate school at Nortel at this time and served as a teaching assistant at the school.
His handsome and golden image is deeply loved by girls and is known as the "campus god".
The picture of the coincidental encounter that day seemed to travel through time and space, and Huang Lei was deeply attracted when he saw Sun Li's pure and gentle appearance.
So, he took the initiative to help Sun Li, a freshman, adapt to campus life, and the two got close from their Xi to all aspects of life.
After coming and going, 18-year-old Sun Li was also deeply attracted by Huang Lei's gentle and thoughtful and talented side.
In October 1995, the two officially fell in love and became a pair of beautiful people on campus.
Love comes suddenly and goes in a hurry.
After Huang Lei obtained his master's degree in 1997, he wanted to leave the school to develop his career, but he resolutely chose to stay, just to accompany Sun Li through the last year of college.
Sun Li was touched by his affectionate love, and the relationship between the two became stronger and stronger.
As a post-90s generation, I deeply understand the sweetness and timelessness of that kind of campus love.
Or, it is precisely because of the experience that he will continue to ask "what is true love" on the road of life later.
Sun Li and Huang Lei are no exception.
The moment love blossoms and bears fruit, they are integrated; However, when you really have to face the circumstances of life, you will re-examine the relationship between the two in the grinding.
Fortunately, the "campus couple" finally chose to grow old together.
In their words, love is like a glass of red wine, which will become more and more fragrant after the mellowing of time.
struggled to fight in the entertainment industry, but encountered twists and turns in the marriage proposal
After graduating from university in 1999, Sun Li officially entered the entertainment industry.
She did not rely on her boyfriend Huang Lei's network resources, but chose to develop her strength independently.
After several years of accumulation, Sun Li, whose acting skills are becoming more and more mature, finally ushered in the pinnacle of her life in 2004's "The Legend of Sword and Fairy" and became famous in one fell swoop.
While her career is successful, love also makes her fascinated.
In 2001, Sun Li, who had been in love with Huang Lei for 6 years, finally received a marriage proposal from the other party.
Originally, they planned to hold a wedding that year, but they did not dare to take risks in the first year of the new century because they listened to superstition, so they had to postpone it.
In 2002, the two prepared again, but they heard that it was the "Year of the Widow in the Blind Spring", and in 2003, they encountered the SARS epidemic...... It wasn't until March 8, 2004 that they finally entered the palace of marriage after 10 years.
This twist and turn of the marriage proposal did not shake the relationship between the two, but made their relationship stronger and stronger.
After marriage, Sun Li gave up her career for the sake of her family and became Huang Lei's wife wholeheartedly.
Even so, gratitude did not make her slack off in her duty to have children.
For more than ten years, Sun Li has given birth to three children for Huang Lei, and the family is happy.
I believe that for two people who truly love each other, marriage is not the end of life, but a new starting point.
The trials of married life are far beyond imagination, because you will no longer face a lover, but a responsibility and responsibility.
Therefore, I admire Sun Li very much for the choice she made.
She resolutely gave up her career for Huang Lei and the children, but she never regretted it.
In her heart, family is a lifelong dependence.
Now Sun Li not only has a successful husband, but also three cute and clever children, and the family lives happily.
That's the answer she chose in the first place.
faded out of sight for more than ten years, and it was still her who returned
In 2006, Sun Li gave birth to her first daughter Huang Yici for Huang Lei.
In 2017, she risked having a third child and gave birth to her son at an advanced age.
After that, Sun Li returned to the entertainment industry, but still did not give up taking care of her family.
Now 46 years old, she not only looks more and more charming, but also lives a happy life with Huang Lei and her three children.
Daughter Huang Yici is famous, and she has been the pearl of the family since she was born.
Under the care of her parents, she not only excelled in Xi, but also made her debut on the runway when she grew up.
Today, Huang Yici has grown into the pride that the couple can deliver the aftermath.
And the years have not left too many traces on Sun Li.
Today in 2023, at the age of 46, she is still charming, gentle and generous.
Compared with when she was young, Sun Li at this moment exudes the charm of a mature woman.
She used her own choices to explain what selfless love for her family is.
Many actresses dream of becoming diva superstars, but in the end, it is difficult to gain a foothold in the entertainment industry.
What's more, being a wife and mother is a university in itself, and you need to keep learning Xi and improving.
After I saw Sun Li return to the stage, she obviously matured a lot.
She learned to balance career and family, and showed me the power of a woman's growth.
Whether standing under the halo of the stage or nurturing children outside the lights, Sun Li has never forgotten her original self.
This is the greatest charm of a woman.
I believe that on the road in the future, she will definitely walk more calmly and freely.
Twenty years later, it is still sweet and loving
After marriage and childbirth, Sun Li did not give up her dream.
In 2017, she returned to the entertainment industry and has participated in many film and television works.
At the same time, Sun Li also returned to the stage, and her solid acting skills and rich performance experience made her famous in the drama industry.
The road to acting has been opened again, and Sun Li seems to have found the best state to balance between family and career.
However, what is even more gratifying is that more than 20 years have not worn out her relationship with Huang Lei.
Whether she is in the entertainment industry or on a college campus, Sun Li only has her man in her eyes.
After marriage, she hid herself under Huang Lei's wings, and the worlds of the two became more closely integrated.
It is precisely because they have let go of the past that they are still like young boys and girls in love today.
This love, which continues to burn after 10 years, may be the most beautiful answer in their hearts for each other.
I'm always thinking about what makes the happiest relationship in my life.
Perhaps, it is to be with your beloved, and then watch your children grow up and step into the door of life.
On the road of life, we will all encounter difficulties and twists and turns, but with each other by our side, we can still face them with a smile.
Sun Li and Huang Lei are such a lucky couple.
epilogue
From the time they met to the time they got married and had children, their relationship has been strong for 20 years, which is really rare in the entertainment industry.
The true love that countless people long to have, they have clenched in the palm of their hands.
So I sincerely hope that on the road of life in the future, Sun Li and Huang Lei can walk hand in hand and go through this life happily.
The most rare thing in life is to live with the person you love the most.
It has nothing to do with Fengyue, just ask for the white head not to be separated.
Now, Sun Li and Huang Lei are the best proof of each other.
For the rest of their lives, may this fairy couple continue to walk hand in hand.