The road of life: 3 daughters and 3 endings, Liu Liben has no wife, which is a sobering view of marriage!

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As the saying goes, good women do not go to the house of the unblessed;

What is a good woman, what is a blessed house, there is a standard answer in the TV series "The Road of Life"!

This drama is adapted from Lu Yao's novella "Life", the original Gao Garin is a tragedy, after breaking up with Qiaozhen, he lost everything and returned to the countryside to farm;

On the basis of the original chapter, the TV series added some content of "Lu Yaochuan" and made a more inspirational adaptation;

For example, the replaced part of Gao Garin's college entrance examination, and the two-way contrast of Gao Shuangxing's life trajectory, focuses on portraying the scenes of the three sisters of Qiaozhen and the education method of Gao Shuangxing's parents, interestingly, the original Qiao Zhen's father Liu Liben has a wife, but he does not have it in the TV series;

For Liu Liben, the play summarizes him in one sentence: give him a line, he can see business opportunities in it!

Liu Liben in the original work once said to Gao Minglou: The road leads to each side of the sky, you hold your power, and I earn my money.

Such Liu Li was originally from Qian, and there was no mother-in-law around him, what kind of impact did he have on the outcome of his daughter's marriage?

The marriage endings of Liu Liben's three daughters are different, and from their endings, we see 5 sobering marriage truths!

1. Don't calculate your mother's family after marriage

Among the three sisters of the Liu family, I have to say that Qiaoying, her calculation of her mother's family, hurt her two younger sisters.

In the original work of the TV series "The Road of Life", there are many plots of the three sisters of the Liu family fighting mouths;

For example, for the horse bolt problem:

At that time, Ma Shuan often came to Gaojia Village to see Qiaozhen, and Liu Liben scolded her: Ma Shuo ran towards this for three days and two heads, you are a villain to say a word to others!

At that time, Qiaoying followed her father, and Qiaoling said to Qiaoying very domineering: Big sister, you are less nosy!

Qiao Ling can't look at the three stars, in her eyes, the three stars failed in mathematics, and the Chinese exam was a big zero, and this can replace Gao Garin as a people's teacher, which is really a big joke.

It can be seen from these details that Qiao Ling and her second sister are closer, and the relationship with the eldest sister is not good!

Qiaoying's thinking is the oldest, almost the same as Liu Liben, she perfectly inherited her father's calculating personality characteristics, even after marriage, she has been calculating her mother's family;

She overheard that Gao Garin was replaced, and she knew that Qiao Zhen liked Gao Garin, but she didn't feel sorry for her sister at all, just like Qiao Ling said, if Qiao Ying had told Qiao Zhen for the first time, Qiao Zhen would not have fallen in love with Gao Garin later, and there would be no series of tragedies later;

The point is that Qiaoying even wants to use this handle of her in-laws to benefit herself;

Seeing that Gao Sanxing can make money, she thought of marrying her sister quickly, so that it is simply a double eagle, the fat water does not flow into the field of outsiders, and Qiaoling does not have to spend her father's money to study, so that her heart is also balanced, Qiao Ying is really selfish!

Calculating his father's money, calculating his two sisters, and increasing chips for his marriage, this is the stupidest woman, a woman who does not know how to be grateful, and she can't live well in her marriage.

2. Three sons, what should I do if my in-laws have an uneven bowl of water?

The three sons of the Gao family, Gao Minglou and his wife love Gao Shuangxing the most, and they have been calculating for this son almost all their lives;

In order for Gao Shuangxing to get ahead, Gao Minglou did not hesitate to lose his moral bottom line, risked replacing Gao Garin's college entrance examination results, and lost the second half of his life, which is Gao Minglou's retribution;

Whether this is worth it or not, the couple spent the second half of their lives slowly understanding!

Gao Shuangxing went to college, spent his family's savings, and hollowed out the family wealth of his parents and brothers when he got married, but when he got married, he didn't even have the courage to fight for a place for his parents;

From going to college to working and having a baby, he has not returned to his hometown for more than ten years, his mother has not seen him until death, even the funeral is returned by himself, and his wife and son have not been brought back, which is really unfilial piety;

Selfish to the extreme, he will only please his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and even the name of the new house is only written with the names of his wife and son, and his parents and brothers do not care about it at all.

This really corresponds to the old saying in the countryside, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, parents intervene excessively, children may not remember your good, but only think about your life;

Therefore, in marriage, when you encounter many children in the family, your in-laws have an uneven bowl of water, you can only force yourself to live your own life, and thinking about others will only increase your own troubles;

Sooner or later, the in-laws will see clearly which son is truly filial to him!

3. Don't talk about everything between you!

When Qiaoying and Qiaoling did concubinage, the most wrong thing they did was to start talking about everything with their sister;

She understated the dirtiest things of the Gao family to Qiaoling, what do you let your sister think, she didn't love Sanxing in the first place, and after knowing the truth, she even picked her nose and raised her eyes at this family, how it was not pleasing to the eye;

It can be seen that talking about everything will only increase right and wrong, and the East and West families are short, and it will not help their own small family!

4. If you can't control your husband, your in-laws won't do justice for you

Qiao Ling's marriage, there is a very interesting setting that is, Gao Sanxing's domestic violence is not the first time, under the same roof as his parents, brothers and sisters-in-law, why has he become a habitual offender?

Qiaoling's cowardly character will tolerate on the one hand, her sister ignoring jokes is one thing, and to a large extent, Gao Minglou and his wife do not act;

Gao Sanxing's mother is the kind of master who does what her son does right, bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, getting along with this kind of mother-in-law, managing her son, she will be respectful to you, can't control her son, she won't have a trace of respect for you;

Many mothers-in-law in the countryside are like this, snobbery, from Qiaoying can also see that Qiaoying's strength, in the in-law's family to say one thing, her husband weak and obedient is the first step, the mother's family is rich and strong is the second step!

5. Marriage cannot be tempted, marriage cannot be made up, and marriage cannot be left without considering gains and losses!

In fact, Qiaoling's marriage failure cannot be blamed on others, only herself;

Originally, Gao Sanxing loved Qiaoling very much and was also very motivated, and the two of them could live a good life even in the countryside;

But what does Qiao Ling do every day?

She is still reading books to review the college entrance examination, does not run a household, and has no heart to care about her husband, and it is conceivable what kind of marriage can be lived in the end.

Compared with Qiaoying, Qiaozhen's feelings are too careless about gains and losses, and there is almost no self in the relationship!

Gao Garin in the original book had this inner monologue in the face of Qiao Zhen's confession at that time: My current situation is not the time to talk about love at all, and I have to be tied to this land in my life.

And Qiao Zhen faced the rejection, or faced the difficulties, and sent eggs to Gao Garin in the middle of the night: Those of us who work all day long, we don't want to eat when we come back, if you don't come to me, I have to send it to your house.

This kind of sending, men will never cherish, mature emotional relationships in marriage must calculate their own gains and losses, men are narcissistic and late maturity, you don't say, he will always take everything for granted, he is attractive, bad men are good mother-in-law and aunt!

Now I understand why this version of Qiao Zhen is so black and so thin, because she has been paying, moths to the fire, love to the depths is a touch of passing, which is also the driving force for Qiao Zhen's counterattack.

Written at the end:

The editor is 85 years old, and I feel that "The Road of Life" is very well adapted after seeing it, retaining the essence of Lu Yao's life, and it is very wonderful and positive!

Finally, what Gogarin's life mentor said to him is also a question for the audience:

First: Is the struggle between conscience and future unsolvable?

The second is that every step or two taken on the road of life may affect a period of life, or even affect the entire life. If you go right, you are lucky, and if you go wrong, you must be prepared to bear the ordeal.

Is this really just a step or two?