The final climax of "The Road of Life" came, Gao Shuangxing was exposed to impersonate and lost everything, and Gao Minglou turned himself in and went to prison. But what impressed me the most about watching this drama was the change in the fate of the two sisters, Qiao Zhen and Qiao Ling.
If you understand the turn of their fate, you can also enter a few fewer pits on the road of life.
01 Abandoned by his ex and married sadly, he just found a happy husband and died
Why do people love people? In fact, to truly love someone, love is the ideal self.
Liu Qiao cherishes Gao Garin, loves without turning back, loves without shame, loves to take the initiative to leave, she only hopes that the other party has a good life, this is true love.
Liu Qiaozhen is a transparent and bold girl, and the reason why she does this to Gao Garin is because Gao Garin's body has an aura that she longs for and cannot reach. Gogarin's knowledge and talent, which Qiao Zhen lacked. Qiao Zhen took up the burden of life prematurely, she is a good hand at work, her mind is delicate, but she can't read a few words. Therefore, Qiao Zhen's love for Gogarin has an element of worship.
Qiao Zhen's mantra: "Brother Garin, as long as it is for me to do anything, I am willing." ”
Therefore, when Gao Garin failed the college entrance examination and lost her qualification to become a teacher, she fearlessly comforted, encouraged and supported Gao Garin. Following Gogarin's advice and wandering around the village entrance in pairs with him, just because this is what Galingo asked him to do, she felt that it was right and she was willing.
However, the most difficult thing for a person is not to know what he pursues, but to know how to let go at the right time.
When the sensitive Qiao Zhen felt that Gogarin began to dislike her and felt that she was rude and uncultured, she actually realized that she might not be far from Gogarin, and she began to work hard to learn culture, but there was still a generation gap between them that could not be crossed.
Gao Garin told Qiao Zhen that he was leaving Kuan County and going to Shanghai, and the smart Qiao Zhen knew that Brother Garin could not stay. Qiao Zhen loves Gao Garin to the bone, she does not want her beloved to be sad, nor does she want him to be embarrassed, she chooses to take the initiative to withdraw.
Qiao Zhen actually did not lose to Huang Yaping, her love was lost to Gao Garin's future.
Gogarin was bent on going to university and getting out of the mountains, and now that he finally had the opportunity, he would never give up. And Qiao Zhen understood that it was basically impossible for her to leave Kuan County and leave the land.
So as soon as Gogarin said this, Qiao Zhen understood that there was no room for redemption of their feelings. Qiao Zhen figured this out, but she was still sad in her heart.
After all, when reason and sensibility fight, often emotion is the most direct expression of a person's emotions. But after emotions, wise people will still make rational choices, and Qiao Zhen is such a person.
Therefore, in the face of Ma Shuo's marriage proposal, Qiao Zhen agreed. She is a person with a clear heart, she knows that the gap between herself and Gao Garin is too big, barely together, once Gogarin has the opportunity to go higher, he will still choose to leave. Qiao Zhen must choose the path that suits her and tie it with the horse in order to be long-lasting.
Life is not only love, when we are young, we may value love above all else, but marriage is a real chicken and a dog, not a storm.
Qiao Zhen chose and Gao Garin to talk about a vigorous love, and finally walked away generously, choosing a stable and dull life, and also got a happy home.
But life is like upgrading and fighting monsters, you just solved one, but there is another one.
Qiao Zhen was full of love from Ma Shuan in her marriage and gave birth to a lovely daughter, but she didn't expect Yingying to have congenital heart disease, let alone that the couple had a chance to cure their daughter's disease, but Ma Shuan died unexpectedly in a car accident.
Just like Deshun Ye said, Qiao Zhen is a piece of gold, the hardship of life, is the fire in the furnace, it torments Qiao Zhen, but can not turn her piece of gold into ashes, but makes her burst into infinite light.
In the end, with her intelligence and hard work, she not only cured Yingying's illness, but also gained a firm foothold in Shanghai and became a veritable female entrepreneur.
Suffering is a stone, if you carry it on your back, it weighs a thousand pounds, and if you put it under your feet, you can see into the distance.
People must dare to pursue their inner dreams in order to get more surprises; You also have the courage to let go of attachment so that you can make it easier for yourself.
02 If you fail the college entrance examination and have no chance to repeat it, you should marry at will?
Compared with Qiao Zhen, Qiao Ling is much more cowardly in the face of life's tribulations.
Although Qiao Zhen did not like Ma Shuan at first, she knew that Ma Shuan was a good person and a capable person who could live a life, so Qiao Zhen would choose to marry Ma Shuan.
Qiao Ling does not like Gao Sanxing, in addition to not feeling it, she also knows that Gao Sanxing has a bad temper, does not seek advancement, and has violent tendencies, and fights with people at every turn.
At the beginning, in the face of her eldest sister's persuasion, she insisted on repeating it, but Qiaoling was not as tough as Qiao Zhen. Because her father was unwilling to give her re-reading, the second sister Qiao Zhen took care of herself and took care of herself, and for Liu Liben's "parents' life", Qiao Ling chose to compromise, obviously not looking at Gao Sanxing, she also chose to marry in confusion.
If Ma Shuo's marriage proposal to Qiao Zhen is cherished, then Gao Sanxing's marriage to Qiao Ling is control.
Gao Sanxing grew up with Qiaoling since he was a child, and Qiaoling was like a flower like jade, and he decided that Qiaoling was her mother-in-law when he was a child, regardless of whether Qiaoling wanted it or not.
Liu Liben's attitude towards his two daughters is also different.
To Qiao Zhen, he told Ma Shuo that he couldn't be Qiao Zhen's master, and asked him to ask her himself, because Qiao Zhen was a person with ideas. For Qiao Ling, he directly decided that Qiao Ling would marry Gao Sanxing and let Gao Minglou choose a date. Because he felt that the book also made Qiao Ling read it useless, it was better to find a good family for his daughter.
Although Qiao Ling has read more books than Qiao Zhen, she does not live as thoroughly as Qiao Zhen, and she does not have as many ideas as Qiao Zhen, so Liu Liben will directly call the shots for Qiao Ling.
There is a saying: "There are two levels of reading, the first level is knowledge and understanding; The second level is thinking and internalizing. ”
And thinking and internalization are related to a person's life experience, Qiao Zhen is good at thinking and summarizing in life, and she is also influenced by Gogarin, so she is more bold and bold. And Qiao Ling is much worse in this area, although she also wants to rebel against her father's arrangement, but in the face of the inability to repeat it, she immediately chose to compromise.
Her and Gao Sanxing's discordant life after marriage continued to expose more problems, and finally Gao Sanxing even began domestic violence.
In the eyes of Gao Sanxing, his own aunt should listen to him, and the man who does not beat his mother-in-law does not exist.
When Qiao Ling fled to Shanghai, Gao Sanxing also followed to Shanghai with a ghost.
The cowardly Qiaoling is unable to resist, and chooses to exchange the money for the gutter oil rebate for high three stars to give freedom, only asking the boss to ensure that he can't eat bad people, but if he can't eat bad people's oil, should he let the child eat it? In the end, he not only harmed himself, but also his second sister Qiaozhen.
The cowardice of one person can easily lead to the tragedy of fate, harm others and harm themselves.
It wasn't until Qiao Ling was tormented by the grinding's life that she went out and told Gao Sanxing that she wanted a divorce, and if he didn't agree, she would go to court to sue for divorce, in order to leave Gao Sanxing, she could not do it.
Gao Samsung finally let go.
Qiao Ling experienced the failure of her marriage and caused the closure of her second sister's cafeteria, she began to understand that she could not rely on anyone, and would drag others down, and only by relying on herself could she stand up right and stand firmly.
She left a farewell letter to Qiao Zhen, got off the train alone, and through years of struggle, entered a foreign company and became a middle manager, and Qiao Ling finally lived her brilliance.
A woman's marriage is indeed the second reincarnation, but it does not mean that marrying a rich and powerful family has dependence, although Qiaoling's in-laws are the best family in the village, but Qiaoling's life has become miserable.
03 said at the end
Women face marriage first to look at character, and then look at family circumstances, the most important thing is self-reliance, do not be cowardly, only in this way, can we live their own life.
So is Qiao Zhen, so is Qiao Ling, and even more so in reality!
Life will always encounter difficulties, step on pits, these are
I am not afraid, I am afraid that I will not dare to step over, fall and climb out. As long as you step over and climb out, the more bad the experience, the more it can set off the inspirational life. Afraid that I will live as a dead dog and lie down.