Temperament
According to various psychological and sociological theories, people's natural temperament can be classified in many ways.
In fact, I have always been a hidden talentist, and I always feel that innate things are difficult to change after cultivation. It can be discovered, it can be strengthened, but it is difficult to change or even turn.
But lately the idea is different.
Because I myself, without a doubt, am a very strong liberal arts temperament. Since childhood, I have read a lot of literary books, read carefully, read repeatedly, memorized a lot of poems, and I like to dance and make ink, so I have always been considered suitable for studying liberal arts.
So I studied liberal arts in high school, and by chance in college, I studied pure literature and became a writer for half my life. Life is always and everywhere in line with the character of liberal arts students, see the scenery chanting verses, see the joy and joy, full of emotions, a little crazy.
God reward the meal, thank God.
Now that I think about it, in fact, the formation of this temperament in my youth may be related to the condition that my parents graduated from Chinese department. The type of literature at home is mainly the type of book collection, and parents often need to write and revise the daily edification, which is subtle and has a huge impact.
From the Yuanmou era to the Haidian era, people can only cultivate children within the scope of their own knowledge.
Therefore, after the birth of the two children, although I also fully understood the importance of mathematical, physical and chemical English, bought many English original editions and popular science picture books, and diligently carried out preschool enlightenment (chicken baby), but what I was best at and persisted for the longest was my old profession.
For example, he memorized many poems, told a full set of Chinese and world history stories, read a large number of folk tales and mythological stories, and practiced writing every week.
So the children gradually showed a liberal arts temperament, in the second and third grade, the second child's small composition was quite handsome and strange, and although Dabao was humble in style, it looked quite good.
The children read a lot of books early, the second eldest prefers literary masterpieces, reads carefully, has some good insights, and the choice of words and sentences is getting more and more bullish, and often secretly sighs when chatting, this is really the baby who passed on my mantle.
Think that maybe without learning the Olympiad, Wa should have written a novel by now, but the strength of the geographical environment finally exceeded the family edification.
In the second grade, he began to be exposed to Olympiad, and in the third grade, he mixed into the mainstream circle. Later, although the impact of the epidemic and the chaotic planning of parents, they have been studying for many years, and the whole process is gradually increasing.
Parents can't tutor, they can only send out to school, and the edification effect of liberal arts parents is gradually engulfed.
Haidian is like this, what is the way? All kinds of time had to give way to mathematics, and even English stopped for a year in between, let alone Chinese.
Since the fourth grade, except for memorizing ancient poems in middle school, I have hardly learned any Chinese classes, just like in school classes. What's the most deadly thing? It's the child who doesn't read anymore.
At the beginning of the winter vacation of the sixth grade, the demand for mathematics was reduced, the days were idle, there was not so urgent progress, there were not so many piles of classes, so I advised people to take advantage of this time to read some idle books.
How comfortable it is to have a snack and read a book! In middle school, I don't have time to watch it.
No, people don't want to watch it now.
When you are free, you embroider, draw, and pull calves with your sister, and if you don't let you read, then you would rather do math problems.
Think of the scene when I was looking for Jin Yong's novels everywhere, racing against time to secretly watch them, and then look at the way you put it in front of people and say that you can read it casually, and people's eyelids are not pricked...
I used to look at such an obvious liberal arts temperament baby, now I tell you, I would rather do math problems than read idle books, absolutely extraordinary Ersai, I really don't understand, is the times changed? Or have the genes changed?
As for the other baby, she doesn't like to read books either, and just wants to play with electronic devices (with her father). Lian's mother, known as a language blogger, finally raised two babies who do not love to read or write.
Laugh!
Writing this, my idea of geniology has been shaken.
Perhaps, every child is born in this world and has a variety of talents, but as long as it is not outstanding to the extent that the supreme genius cannot be ignored, in fact, maybe, maybe, maybe, can still be changed through acquired cultivation.
Parents are the first teachers, for example, two Chinese departments have a high probability of giving birth to Wenkova, and the casual guidance and discussion of pure science parents is also of great benefit to inspire children's scientific thinking. One article and one reason, it depends on who brings the baby.
But after going to school, there is still a chance to change, and in school, a teacher may also have an impact on the child at a certain moment, and have a special interest in a certain subject, which we call destiny.
What is more noteworthy is that now the training industry is so mature and intensive, literature, sports, English, mathematics, speech, chess, robots... As long as you want to find, there must be a place to learn.
Then there is a possibility that after the child is hard trained, he can bend the original temperament and turn to a new field. In a sense, it may be the revival or calling of the child's nature.
Parents better not easily make conclusions about the baby, saying what kind of material the baby is, saying how everyone in the family is, the child cannot learn the Olympiad, it is impossible to write Wen Yunyun, and the relative cannot say so.
I'm not encouraging you to sign up for classes, but just saying that in elementary school, language is balanced and balanced, persistence itself is a strength, and then natural development according to children's interests and talents.
Like me, if I hadn't buttoned a Wen Keva hat since I was a child, I might already be a well-known expert in a large hospital now, and it's a pity that it's really true.
Of course, it is not ruled out that Wow Wow enlightened a call, smashed money and tried it, and finally found that Wa is neither like Wenkova nor Rikova, the only thing of interest and talent is electronic devices, don't ask me how I know!
What's the whole thing?
Raise it well, how can it be done!
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